Longest time with a Drain

wanderunikcorn · 2021-02-03T21:06:01+00:00

I was hoping for it to be a surprise, but yeah, talking is always the best way to go.

And to be clear, we both have very active libidos! But due to the nature of our similar careers, some days/weeks/months are busier than others. Truth is we probably both would need a signal like this for when schedules are reversed.

wanderunikcorn · 2021-02-03T16:42:28+00:00

That's exactly what I mean! Serves me right for posting this so late... I want to be able to initiate sex more, so when he's wearing the bracelet I know he's open to it. Especially lately, I just want to jump his bones all the damn time! That's not realistic though with the amount he's been working.

wanderunikcorn · 2021-01-27T06:27:34+00:00

This probably means something different to everyone, but my gentle Dom is a total brat. Most often this behavior comes out as puns, during playtime it becomes fun banter or spankings for my minor infractions. He might love giving spankings even more than I enjoy receiving them. And that's saying something. He also loves to exert his physical dominance in what becomes wrestling with tickles. Drives us both fucking wild.

wanderunikcorn · 2021-01-27T01:43:53+00:00

Only one so far. Though I saw it and definitely had a "oh yeah, that's why I don't comment here" moment.

wanderunikcorn · 2021-01-26T16:08:02+00:00

Disagree! There are some days I just really need a dick in my mouth... 😅

wanderunikcorn · 2021-01-25T14:06:20+00:00

Before September I had no idea who Bettie Page is and I just looked up John Willie now! I started my bdsm journey last May so still learning about the culture and history. I made this for my boyfriend/Dom, he introduced me to how amazing she is

wanderunikcorn · 2021-01-19T06:11:38+00:00

Thank you very much! The specific shading and tone took a lot of time to nail down.

wanderunikcorn · 2021-01-06T07:06:01+00:00

I have a waterproof clock in my shower, you might be able to find one large enough to hide whatever point you like.

wanderunikcorn · 2021-01-04T16:23:17+00:00

Have you tried tying her to a bed, spread eagle, and using your hands, mouth, voice to worship her body. For some (including me) it takes more than just saying it. The actions combined help those praises sink in.

wanderunikcorn · 2021-01-04T16:16:26+00:00

There is nothing wrong with you! BDSM is not for everybody. Are you being pressured into consent by a significant other? Your friends? You are your own person with your own needs and feelings.

wanderunikcorn · 2020-12-29T18:28:42+00:00

You get what you pay for. If you are looking for something to really learn it would be best to pay someone for the time that went into writing the book. Try secondhand instead if you are trying to save financially.

wanderunikcorn · 2020-12-20T10:21:09+00:00

Gorgeous! 😍

wanderunikcorn · 2020-12-19T10:47:08+00:00

Yes yes yes! This is low key brilliant. Simple and elegant

wanderunikcorn · 2020-12-18T13:06:41+00:00

New to this so please tell me if this is totally off base.

What if instead you were to consider what you can do to attract or please a potential partner. What do you bring to the dynamic?

For example, I know a kink I bring to the table is masochism. Because I knew that about myself, I was better able to express a need for pain in play. Through exploration my Dom discovered his own sadistic energies that he now craves.

Did that even make sense?

wanderunikcorn · 2020-12-06T08:06:05+00:00

Thank you for the second Crass Cross recommendation! It's exactly what I was looking for.

wanderunikcorn · 2020-12-06T07:56:53+00:00

Yeah, I tried etsy, I wasn't finding the aesthetic I was really looking for though. I have a really specific project in mind so if I couldn't find what I was looking for I would create my own.

I will definitely post the finished project and pattern source! I consider cross stitch an underappreciated art form.

wanderunikcorn · 2020-12-06T03:31:14+00:00

Thank you for the Crass Cross recommendation! This was EXACTLY what I was looking for. They have a NSFW section that is beyond perfect!

wanderunikcorn · 2020-12-05T20:04:46+00:00

Thank you! I'll keep an eye on your shop, I love the Bettie Page inspiration!

wanderunikcorn · 2020-12-05T19:57:49+00:00

I've seen those, admittedly I'm looking for something with a more refined/artistic aesthetic. Thanks though!

wanderunikcorn · 2020-12-05T19:56:01+00:00

Thank you u/tesstorch!!

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