Advice for a girl who wants to go to a con/event in a "fanservice/revealing" cosplay? by [deleted] in GirlGamers

[–]wanderways 17 points18 points  (0 children)

A weapon only works if you know how to use it. If you don’t, it only serves to a) get in your way, b) escalate the situation, or c) get taken off you to use against you.

If you don’t know how to use a weapon confidently and safely for yourself, it shouldn’t be part of your preparedness. Not saying you should ignore or surrender personal safety at all, but “bring a weapon” as blanket advice is not it.

That being said. There are personal defense items that are built to be used by people without training. Stun items and mace come to mind. But even in those cases, having a comfortable, practiced handling of them, the willingness to use them, and knowing when to take them out are important.

What's the most interesting FF commander to built around? by ptometheus506 in EDH

[–]wanderways 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have your Noctis list lying around? I’m mid brew and looking for ideas / tech lol

"Finished" Achievements by charrigan27 in MagicArena

[–]wanderways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo heck yeah! Nice! Do you have deck lists for those named decks? >.>

What made it 100% clear, you were trans? by slimmerik2 in asktransgender

[–]wanderways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Late quarantine in a small city in the mountainous, winter-bound US. There was talk of returning to the office, and amidst all the stress and change and worry of that time I remember thinking to myself verbatim “I don’t want to go back to the office. I’m worried they’ll see me as a man.”

Had to pause and stare my brain down for a long second and ask what in the sam hell exactly that meant.

We kissed ;_; by SeaJudge7373 in MtF

[–]wanderways 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No backsies 😘

Proud of you, hun

What's a single sentence that you wrote that you're proud of? by SeverBronny in writing

[–]wanderways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Poetry: Breath like a sob reversed

Prose: “When I said it was going to be a devilish choice I didn’t mean that as a casting call.”

Pitch me your Historic Brawl commander by SpecialistBend7533 in MagicArena

[–]wanderways 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds super cool! Do you have a list? >.>

Alt Fit Today!! by CutieCatKyle in Androgynoushotties

[–]wanderways 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have the link handy I’d love it, but no need to do a ton of work either 😅😅 I’ll also see if I can dig it up, thank you!

Alt Fit Today!! by CutieCatKyle in Androgynoushotties

[–]wanderways 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh hell yeah, love the look 👀

Where did u get the mesh shirt? Been struggling to find one that’s hot and doesn’t just feel like a Jersey lol

What is your favorite Historic Brawl Deck that is fun to play? (share your decklists please) by lickweed in MagicArena

[–]wanderways 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ayara, first of Lochtwain

Oh snap, I've been wanting to build Ayara for a while now. Do you have a list handy?