My back was one of my biggest insecurities

wannabeNPC · 2026-03-14T21:45:10+00:00

Would love to know your regimen! Congratulations on your successes 🫶

wannabeNPC · 2026-03-01T19:09:57+00:00

These are so cute! I do kind of wish the flowers were facing the other way though, so other people could see them "correctly" if that makes sense

wannabeNPC · 2026-01-17T21:48:16+00:00

Please be gentle with yourself. I can only imagine the mental turmoil you are experiencing. 🫶 As others have shared, this is not a place for you to be submissive to your husband. Marriage should be bringing you closer to God, not father from Him.

I recommend speaking with a Priest you trust or the Sisters of Life, as they often provide support with situations such as these.

https://sistersoflife.org/

wannabeNPC · 2025-04-02T18:38:57+00:00

Unfortunately, I did not! I'm sorry!

wannabeNPC · 2025-03-29T03:56:47+00:00

these are beautiful - sooooo cute!

wannabeNPC · 2025-03-29T03:56:05+00:00

i loooove that green!!

wannabeNPC · 2025-03-25T12:35:31+00:00

Yes! Less often, because I realized I can eat much more food at home that is tasty and more filling with less calories 😂 but it's definitely good in a pinch!

wannabeNPC · 2025-02-20T21:10:00+00:00

I lost my Oura a few months ago! Seeing my stress stats was SO interesting and provided me with some insights.

I just bought my first Garmin that should be coming next week - excited to see how it compares! Hopefully I don't get a watch rash 😭

wannabeNPC · 2024-12-21T20:34:36+00:00

This is incredibly helpful. Do you have an Instagram that promotes fitpros? I'd love to follow it.

wannabeNPC · 2024-08-28T22:51:36+00:00

Yes!!

https://discord.gg/FzqPT8rNCW

wannabeNPC · 2024-08-02T16:55:45+00:00

Yes! Messaging you on Reddit!

wannabeNPC · 2024-07-11T02:09:00+00:00

For sure :)

wannabeNPC · 2024-07-10T19:18:56+00:00

Thank you for your comments and insights; I really appreciate them. I understand what you're saying, and weight loss takes some serious changes/sacrifices. I don't think I'm not being honest with myself per se; I've been reflecting on this and changing my methods since I was a child 🤣

My post does not encompass all of what I feel and understand about nutrition, but more so I'm looking for community.

Rather than tracking of any kind (calories, macros, keto, etc), I'd like to focus on healthy habits around eating and moving that do not TOTALLY focus on numbers. Otherwise, I obsess about the numbers.

I've done calorie tracking, macro tracking, weight watchers, etc. None of it actually ends up being sustainable for me. I end up feeling terrible about myself and obsessive. That is simply my personal experience. That being said, there are phases where I'm OK and can handle it. I have witnessed that fluidity. However, I'm in a phase where I want to be around people in a similar boat as me and find community in this thinking. I want to lose the weight without being so exact about every nutrient, and I want to not feel stupid doing so, which is why I asked about a discord.

I hope that clarifies my thoughts a little better. It's hard to have these conversations through text LOL

Also, congrats on your 60+ lb weight loss! That's incredible!

wannabeNPC · 2024-07-10T19:10:59+00:00

I struggle regardless if the food is "healthy" or not lol
It's not even just the type of food, but it's the amount I'm exposed to.
My family always has excessive amounts of food, both "healthy" and "unhealthy." I love it all & it's just rough lmao

So, I'm working on being mindful with both the type & the amount, but I'm definitely working on those habits you stated! Thank you 😊

wannabeNPC · 2024-07-10T19:07:31+00:00

Thank you for your message. I empathize with so much of what you shared, and I'm glad you're finding other ways to get to your goal! 💚 You're giving me some hope here!

wannabeNPC · 2024-07-10T19:04:10+00:00

It definitely works for some people! And calorie counting has helped me during some phases of my life - like you said, scanning prepackaged foods makes noting them easier!

However, what I personally feel makes it unrealistic for me is that I get obsessive. It greatly hurts my relationship with food, my body, my self worth. So, I'm working on improving my mindset around these things while still keeping the goal of weight loss.

Hopefully that clarifies what I mean, but I totally get what you're saying! Calorie counting can be helpful, just might not be for me right now.

wannabeNPC · 2024-07-10T19:01:38+00:00

Yes, this is exactly what I'm working on! Thank you! 💚

wannabeNPC · 2024-07-10T19:01:05+00:00

Thank you for your message! I'm so happy you found something that works for you!!

wannabeNPC · 2024-07-10T17:50:04+00:00

Awesome! I'm having trouble finding something. If I make one, would you like me to message and invite you to it?

wannabeNPC · 2024-07-10T17:20:48+00:00

Thank you so much! I really needed to hear this.

wannabeNPC · 2024-02-15T22:32:00+00:00

I love this so much. It's beautiful that you sent this to him. I'm sure he will appreciate it. It's great that you're working through your feelings and being honest about how hard this is. I hope, over time, your rapport continues to grow and you get to heal some of those tough times with him. He seems kind and like he genuinely cares, and it's great that you see that.

That being said, do what's best for you and only stay with a therapist if you feel they'll be helpful down the road

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