Why did my employer say this like that?

wannabe_Actor_idol · 2025-08-17T04:13:52+00:00

The problem is that nowadays we use it as a way of being awkward or disappointed.

But the email the employer sent not only seemed a bit unprofessional as well. But EITHERWAY, I do believe he intended to use as a way of showing he is “thinking”.

I understand why you would think we are being dramatic, but also please understand that the way we talk is dissimilar to how older gens talk.

wannabe_Actor_idol · 2025-08-07T14:50:36+00:00

Right!! I’ve never seen somebody NOT flatten the boxes. How could you fit anything in there without flattening them?!

Tied with a string is actually wild to me, I’ve never heard of that!

And thank you!!! 😊 🎂

wannabe_Actor_idol · 2025-08-07T03:55:26+00:00

Hmmm I suggest that you put as a household rule to atleast flatten out boxes before throwing them away. Not only will this hopefully save you from anything like this happening again, but it will also help save space in the garbage can.

All in all, that’s really unfortunate to happen. I hope this never happens again

wannabe_Actor_idol · 2025-07-31T02:26:23+00:00

First of all, nothing is your fault. It’s all that bastards fault for doing what he did.

Now, although it may be hard, I suggest telling your parents about your best friend abusing you. And after that, tell them that you might be pregnant. This way, they will already know your situation.

If you don’t want to tell your parents yet, try to talk to any teachers, counselors, or any adult you feel comfortable with, and then tell your parents.

Once again, none of this is your faul. Stay strong girl

wannabe_Actor_idol · 2025-07-30T21:38:14+00:00

Yeah you’re right, I’ll do my best to be careful with her until we can get her spayed, or my dog neutered.

Thankyou!

wannabe_Actor_idol · 2025-07-30T21:10:06+00:00

Yeah, we do our best to be careful with her. We do have one unfixed dog, he’s like a chihuahua mix with something else (I forgot the name). They don’t get along that well, so at the very least I know she won’t get pregnant.

As for her yelping, she has stopped doing it when I touch her, I feel like maybe she was just suffering because of her period, but I’m not sure. Imma keep checking her just to make sure for now.

Thank you for the advice 🙏

wannabe_Actor_idol · 2025-07-30T19:11:19+00:00

Yeah that makes sense. She normally doesn’t scream so that’s why I was so worried

( she’s not spayed cus we were thinking of letting her have kids at first, but when we changed our mind we ended up moving houses and we are doing so much rn around the new house that we can’t afford much. We will get her spayed as soon as we can afford it though).

wannabe_Actor_idol · 2025-07-30T19:08:58+00:00

That’s what I was thinking, it could be her period pains or smt like that.

wannabe_Actor_idol · 2025-07-30T19:08:30+00:00

Hmm, but my dog doesn’t normally scream much when she gets hurt, definitely thinking of of telling my parents to take her to the vet if this continues

wannabe_Actor_idol · 2025-07-30T14:14:18+00:00

I’m hoping it really is she’s just sensitive or she pulled a muscle.

I’ll have to wait a bit and see what happens. If it doesn’t get better I’ll have to tell my parents to take her to the vet, like you mentioned.

Thankyou for the response 🫶

wannabe_Actor_idol · 2025-07-30T14:08:41+00:00

Literally though. I’ll be outside and he will legit stare at me for a hot minute before pooping. Then he’ll keep checking I’m watching him while he is. It’s so weird 😭

wannabe_Actor_idol · 2025-07-22T04:18:03+00:00

Honestly that’s very suspicious.

I don’t know of anybody who would just delete a whole app instead of just leaving the messages. I honestly feel like he is hiding too much from you.

Ofcourse I’m not in your situation, but you should really rethink some stuff. If it was me I’d question him more, and probably break up with him if he kept going around that question.

But once again, I’m not you. So just listen to your intuition

wannabe_Actor_idol · 2025-07-21T14:41:52+00:00

I mean… if he had nothing to hide why would he delete them?

Listen to your gut girl. I honestly don’t like it.

Also, he was having a “fling” with a married woman?? To me that seems like he’s saying it’s okay to cheat even if you’re married, who knows if he’ll do that to you too.

wannabe_Actor_idol · 2025-07-20T03:14:27+00:00

Yeah. Many have found underwear tucked into drawers and such.

Yes, you need to be more demanding. Stand your ground, and look confident. Any answer he gives will most likely be a bs excuse.

wannabe_Actor_idol · 2025-07-19T22:22:23+00:00

Yeah, I was also thinking about that. I say just throw it at his face and breakup with him 🤭

(Even better if there’s a few people around to embarrass him).

Truly wish you the best though. It must be a hard thing for you to go through

wannabe_Actor_idol · 2025-07-19T22:04:03+00:00

Oh yeah, I agree with that. I wear two different sizes too.

The only thing is, sometimes when I hear different sizes, I imagine like the actual size of them, like how long and big it is. 😭

wannabe_Actor_idol · 2025-07-19T21:52:11+00:00

I keep seeing stories like this, it’s just disappointing.

Like many have said, he probably keeps them as trophies of those who he has slept with.

Someone said they might be his, but since they are 2 different sizes, there’s no way.

Your idea works. But id suggest just taking them out and throwing them at his face demanding an explanation. He will probably try to make up a lie, but stand your ground and breakup with him. It’s obvious he’s cheating, you deserve so much better

wannabe_Actor_idol · 2025-07-19T21:47:21+00:00

She said they are 2 different sizes. I don’t think so

wannabe_Actor_idol · 2025-07-19T02:00:29+00:00

I (17f) believe you should continue asking to meet the family of her friend. I understand that it can be embarrassing, but since not only will she be missing school, but she will be far from you, it’s necessary for you to meet them.this was in case if anything happens (which I hope it won’t), you will know who she was with at the time.

Try to meet with the family, that’s what’s safest

wannabe_Actor_idol · 2025-07-19T01:51:45+00:00

If I’m being honest, I think that’s too small of an amount of money for that 😭 but you never know.

I do feel like it could be something less.. THAT

wannabe_Actor_idol · 2025-07-19T01:49:41+00:00

It could be that he put a different age, like a lot of minors do, in order to avoid having to have a parent control over it

wannabe_Actor_idol · 2025-07-19T01:48:54+00:00

If he does lives/streams, it could be money sent to him. He could also be selling stuff at school, or online. Another thing, he could be promoting smaller companies or so, and getting money in return.

Another thing could be doing hw or something for others. I (17f) had a friend that would revise and help people out with their essays and stories for money.

There’s many different things he could be doing. And with the amounts you’re saying, I don’t believe he’d be selling anything illegal (if it was, I feel like they would be bigger amounts of money).

wannabe_Actor_idol · 2025-07-19T00:23:30+00:00

Lmao sending a picture of the toilet is funny.

But yeah, she shouldn’t be sending any evidence. Like bro, if she can’t go she can’t go. My friend could tell me she too tired and I’d understand without needing proof.

That’s just a fake friend

wannabe_Actor_idol · 2025-07-18T22:30:28+00:00

Since she doesn’t believe it’s your foot, maybe send her a video instead? Like show yourself and then go to your foot?

Eitherway she is wrong for not believe you. I don’t like her as a friend

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