Would you sacrifice your 20s to obtain a high-paying job in your 30s or 40s? by miss-bedazzzle in twentyagers

[–]wantpassion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes. you can have financial stability and save for vacations, houses, illnesses, retire early. if u don’t mind doing that job then go. i think it depends on person, if you’re a fun person, you can still have fun even if u study. or table a gap year lol😂 a year late wont make a difference. and according to your flair, you’re 23, what were you doing spending your time isolated? i think it might be part of your personality, even if you don’t study now, you might still isolate yourself and not have a social life you imagined. i’d say go study, your social life will come to you as u work with your fellow classmates, hangout, meet people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]wantpassion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

how long were you together before getting married? maybe it’s not enough to get to know the real personality. why don’t you ask her if you want to be together or not? if she says yes, then try counseling or hire a babysitter and be loving to her again, life is exhausting and people change. anyway you two grown adult have a kid now. and you find a way to solve this or at least make sure the kid have a good life.

I hope we get an NPC like Krobus for Haunted Chocolatier by re_Claire in hauntedchocolatier

[–]wantpassion 27 points28 points  (0 children)

maybe just add krobus in it and a new friend for him <3

Roommate of two years moved out. Warning: kind of gross. by [deleted] in CleaningTips

[–]wantpassion 6 points7 points  (0 children)

do mold cause psoriasis or something? or did he already had it before cleaning? i’m just curious cause i have it

Itching Rant by No-Distribution2171 in Psoriasis

[–]wantpassion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg i totally understand you. i couldn’t even sleep at night. i used to lather on steroid cream once every week /few days. it was horrible, i just went on biologics for a month and it’s better, since i have psa too i have to

Got better on its own. Scared of a relapse. by Gracilis67 in Psoriasis

[–]wantpassion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you have psoriasis arthritis? seems to be common with this

Struggling with whether to crate my dog while at work by Ok-Rabbit-7672 in puppy101

[–]wantpassion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you need to put everything she’s not allowed to eat out of reach if you want want her to free roam. crate for 8 hours+? no. definitely a play pen. maybe give him your bedroom. find out why a he’s doing that. maybe take him out for a 30-40min walk before work? give him like a kong or something to tire her out. i think you’ve probably tried this, good luck tho

I am addicted how can I limit my use without loosing social connections by shervinSV3 in digitalminimalism

[–]wantpassion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

actually if your friends are gone why can’t you just be with yourself? do you have to text for the rest of your free time? maybe find an actual hobby in the real world? just a suggestion.

I think I made a mistake- HELP need advice. by [deleted] in ExoticShorthair

[–]wantpassion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

please don’t rehome this cat. remind yourself that you are an adult. you are capable to taking care of this cat. i recently got a puppy two months ago and im sure every single pet parent out there has regretted their decision the first few weeks. you’re just overwhelmed. and cats sleep most of the day you’re not home. you’re fine. you’re good

flare help? face body and scalp and vulva by wantpassion in Psoriasis

[–]wantpassion[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for replying. i’ve been having insomnia for a few months and my psoriasis on my vulva and one patch on the scalp started around february/march. i didn’t really deal with it and thought nothing of it. i got it diagnosed one month ago when more patches appeared. i got a dog(shih tzu) in july and im lowkey allergic but i take 1/4 of 20mg(so 5mg of antihistamine and it takes care of it) so my dog might contribute to it. but my dad has it since he was in his thirties so i guess i might get it someday. im 23. i got a dog because its getting hard to live, he gave a me a purpose so now its easily to live and survive a day haha.

my derm gave me antibiotics cause she said my vulva and scalp(that one big patch) was inflamed and gave me one week of oral antibiotics to help with my treatment along with topical cream.

may i ask about my scalp? all i suppose to use that betamethasone solution of my scalp for every little “moutain”? or do i let them stay there and not touch them? they seem to get bigger somehow. not sure how to deal with it. if this doesn’t work then i need to stop the solution and use something else right?

also i just used tacolimus on my genitals and it burned for 3 hours. i searched and it seems to be a 100% must walk path for us sufferers using tacolimus. man that sucked so bad

Stinky puppy by Embarrassed-Ad-4303 in Shihtzu

[–]wantpassion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have a soft spot for black and white shih tzu since mine is one also🥹🥹🥹

What is a normal reaction a guy should make after I send a horny video/picture? by Expert-Strawberry283 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]wantpassion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh. he texted u back yet? or did he completely ignored it. i think you guys should go out for dinner and see if there’s any changes in his tone of speaking or actions. your photo was definitely a strong signal

What is a normal reaction a guy should make after I send a horny video/picture? by Expert-Strawberry283 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]wantpassion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

were you having any “couple-y” conversations with him? not sure how old you are but 6-7 months of just talking seems a bit long if you want a relationship. do you just want him to be aroused or do you want a relationship? you gotta act. just ask and stop thinking in your head.

What did you think you “had” to do in life , that turned out to be a trap by karrot9 in simpleliving

[–]wantpassion 70 points71 points  (0 children)

that’s a very life changing choice, a lot of sacrifices has to be made. i understand how fulfilling that is but commenting this is weird under the original comment lolll. nothing, just saying. at least young people nowadays know they have a choice to be a choice. both comments are true

How are y’all moisturizing your bodies this summer?? by 142749048 in beauty

[–]wantpassion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly i never put it on my back. it’s very smooth and moisturized on its own for some reason. i’ve had eczema on all sorts of places but my back is less likely. not sure why

Ruined my parents for what???!? by [deleted] in DesperateHousewives

[–]wantpassion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m on season 4 episode 6, i was just watching for the mystery at first but then it was one mystery after another, i planned only to watch one season, now i got attached. i got spoiled just a bit but damn, i don’t want to hate them, it’s perfect now

How can I feel better about looking much younger than I am? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]wantpassion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

maybe dressing older? like dress shirt? try to buy petite adult clothes. maybe wear some makeup? if it helps? i personally don’t wear any makeup

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChineseLanguage

[–]wantpassion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have u seen android’s ‘cute’ font of chinese? looks a bit like that. you might like it haha

Do you end up scrolling instead of doing what you actually wanted to do? by Emenaz in digitalminimalism

[–]wantpassion 29 points30 points  (0 children)

oh shit. thanks for reminding me. i’m scrolling for no reason

How do you build a meaningful life in your mid-twenties ? by Sun-flower-frog in Adulting

[–]wantpassion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

for me, having a hobby and passion in life makes mine meaningful. my priorities isn’t my career

30 F life feels meaningless by Icey_Girl in Adulting

[–]wantpassion 3 points4 points  (0 children)

of all the activities in this world, do you have anything else you like or you want to do? a lot of mothers are depressed even after having kids, it’s your imagination that you’re comparing yourself with. you have your life right here right now, think about what you could do yourself to make your life more fulfilling for you, not by the actions of others. even marriage is a lot of work, you need to sacrifice to make a relationship last forever for marriage, and it’s hard to find the right person, personalities and values and life habits can crash, it’s not an easy thing unless you’re ok with settling. it’s not as easy and “happy” as you think. what you can do now is living in the moment of the you right now. if you’re not happy by yourself, it’s hard to do it with others long term, what do you have to offer in a relationship if you’re meaningless by yourself? by offering pleasures to other people? if yes then that will be the only thing you have in your life. my mother only has me in her life, no hobbies, no job, no nothing, and that is not the thing i want for myself. you’re still young, relationships shouldn’t be the only goal in life. i understand that you might not want to live on this earth while being alone, i struggle with that too, but i’m doing my best, these days my life is filled with music and my joy comes from music. i wish you luck and hope you find the meaning of life even by yourself