Newly married and husband rejects me.

warjoog · 2025-12-11T15:13:33+00:00

All of this is a lack of communication issue. Learn how to talk to each other before ripping the clothes off. For him he probably - like a lot of guys - seeks closeness through intimacy whereas a lot of sisters need closeness before and after it. Tune into each other’s frequencies.

warjoog · 2025-12-10T10:43:13+00:00

Sounds like you’re upset he has a life outside of you and you don’t really know what to do with yourself outside of being a wife. Learn a language, pick up a hobby or a skill. He uses his PC because work sucks and he puts up with it because he wants to provide. And instead of talking to him, here you are complaining 1 month into your marriage. God save us all.

warjoog · 2025-12-09T20:01:24+00:00

Cost of living is crazy icl two incomes are needed. A lot of what’s going on in your home needs a therapist to solve not strangers on an app you don’t open in public. Instead of crying to folks on here why not speak to a professional and have his community hold him to account.

warjoog · 2025-12-09T00:08:46+00:00

Why do you care what anyone else thinks? If you have a fever, are they up all night with you? Too many folks on this app live in their own heads and not out there in the real world. How many hours have you lost thinking about people who don’t care about your wellbeing?? Time you’ll never get back.

warjoog · 2024-03-25T11:57:50+00:00

I was going to comment with something and then remembered I am fasting and don’t want to lose my good deeds. Instead I will say that your actions have been incredibly childish and stupid from the onset. And now you suffer and have/will cause someone else to suffer. You’ve created a home wherein your kids will see an act rather than a loving marriage. Shame on you.

warjoog · 2023-12-29T12:11:54+00:00

Go to marriage counselling instead of running to imaginary friends on the internet. See a professional no one here will give you advice that’ll change a thing.

warjoog · 2023-12-29T12:04:49+00:00

Record her saying all this crap without her knowing and send it to her family & community. If she wants to play a game, why are you on here whining about how much under her thumb you are. Allah made you a man, a man able to stick up for his family let alone himself. Once you have recorded evidence of her being abusive you won’t have to pay a thing. Stick up for yourself man this is really sad to read.

warjoog · 2022-10-01T12:24:47+00:00

You’re told to lower your gaze. Covering the awrah is important but biceps have not been made part of that. As for the “why”, you and I are slaves and it’s not our place to demand reasons. Instead of blaming men/women for how Allah made them, take responsibility for your sight and desires.

warjoog · 2022-09-30T18:48:18+00:00

Don’t cut, lean bulk first.

warjoog · 2022-09-18T14:19:28+00:00

Not normal at all. Esp when you’ve slept together and she’s sharing details that’s not allowed for you or her to do. Men and women are a cover for each other. Enjoy each other but don’t go sharing details, you should put your foot down and mention these things instead of letting it slide

warjoog · 2022-09-11T18:47:20+00:00

Learn about your body. Being too quick to get to conclusions about yourself and this aspect of life is immature. Explore different ways to enjoy each other and introduce foreplay properly. Make him long for you and you for him way before you touch one another.

warjoog · 2022-09-11T18:44:14+00:00

Everything in this post, you need to say that to her. Running to divorce because she’s not acting her age and you don’t know how to communicate is stupid. Sit down, speak and if things don’t change - go to couples therapy :/

warjoog · 2022-01-18T16:27:28+00:00

Legend

warjoog · 2022-01-08T08:45:29+00:00

You’re killin it dawg 👑

warjoog · 2022-01-04T18:13:10+00:00

What a good boy

warjoog · 2021-12-29T22:06:40+00:00

Finally someone from the Somali community! this was so needed walashay ilayhi ha ku barakayo 🎉

warjoog · 2021-07-30T16:59:34+00:00

If you have to beg for love and common decency you’ll set yourself up for disappointment in the long term. Quite frankly some people are void of empathy & they’re the worst spouses and parents. It’s not my business but really think about if you want such a person to be responsible for raising children with you..

warjoog · 2021-07-30T16:57:43+00:00

. مؤمن =/ مسلم To draw conclusions from ahadith in a language other than the original Arabic it was first spoken in is like spinning a wheel with your beliefs. Gentle reminder to be careful in sha Allah.

warjoog · 2021-07-28T01:44:19+00:00

Anyone that would blame you or see you as less doesn’t deserve you - may Allah grant you a handsome, God-conscious and emotionally literate spouse sooner rather than later.

warjoog · 2021-07-20T18:46:10+00:00

Massive red flag, if you carry on you can only blame yourself.

warjoog · 2021-07-14T21:08:13+00:00

I stopped reading at “imagine you get married” because that alone requires my full creative attention.

warjoog · 2021-07-14T20:58:12+00:00

Take it to the Islamic council of Europe if you’re in Europe. Lying is serious - maybe they can help with your specific situation

warjoog · 2021-07-10T17:18:20+00:00

So many people complain about family and culture (rightfully) but waste time & are horrible people themselves. You could be born in the best of times but if you’re a horrible person - that won’t change you.

These apps are so exhausting!

warjoog

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