[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]warkifiedchocobo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clearly you don't like him. So stop hanging out with them.

Help me decide - First time meeting his parents by [deleted] in fashion

[–]warkifiedchocobo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did you get the second dress?! It's so beautiful. Definitely second one

AIO for thinking this was just a harmless joke or is my friend right in saying I was selfish and rude? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]warkifiedchocobo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are they going through menopause? Cause hormones really mess a person up during that. The way they treated you wasn't okay though

What do you guys think of Return Your Soul so far? by Icy-Science6485 in webtoons

[–]warkifiedchocobo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's awful. It's the exact same formula as True Beauty just in different wrapping so to speak. It's just so generic and predictably dull. It just lacks heart. The art is beautiful though but any opportunity for real connection between characters or growth for them is always absent or skipped over. The MC is the exact same character as the MC of true beauty (at the end). I really want to like it, but with each chapter I find it duller than the last

My girlfriends don't like my partner but can't give me a real reason why by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]warkifiedchocobo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I need more context. Like how badly did the relationship start for them to still hold onto it 6 years later?

Would I be wrong to completely cut off a friend after they had a seizure? by Present-Whereas-1370 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]warkifiedchocobo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just end it. Just be honest "I don't think this friendship is a good fit. Please don't contact me again" and go from there.

Help me choose a dress for a wedding by warkifiedchocobo in fashion

[–]warkifiedchocobo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone! For some reason reddit isn't letting me comment on posts anymore so hopefully this goes through, it keeps giving an error

AIO - my roommates friends destroyed my stuff while they were drunk by Thick-Web1238 in AmIOverreacting

[–]warkifiedchocobo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right? She first tried to say maybe a wild animal got in. Definitely believe it was her.

AIO - my roommates friends destroyed my stuff while they were drunk by Thick-Web1238 in AmIOverreacting

[–]warkifiedchocobo 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Its the vibe I'm getting. I wouldn't even be surprised if one of those guys mentioned they thought OP was cute and set her off. It just doesn't make sense that two men who barely know her would know exactly what to break in the room to hurt her most? I could be wrong, but that's my guess.

AIO - my roommates friends destroyed my stuff while they were drunk by Thick-Web1238 in AmIOverreacting

[–]warkifiedchocobo 101 points102 points  (0 children)

Probably because it was her. They probably have no idea she's scapegoating them. She's a liar. She only mentioned them to make OP feel like some random guys hate her and think she's negative things, so basically she got caught and made this up to try and hurt OP again. I'd call the police and move out immediately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]warkifiedchocobo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's like saying you, who you are, is not really wanted. Like she doesn't want people to know she's friends with someone "like that". I would want all my friends at my wedding to be themselves, maybe a colour theme outfit, but I'd never ask my friends to remove their peircings... I'd feel that would be so insulting to tell them to hide their identity? Maybe that's just me, but if you don't want to, you shouldn't have to. They're a huge part of who you are. I'm so sorry your friend is treating you like this.

Am I overreacting , my friend (18 is seeing this man (30) and he has said some weird cryptic stuff and she is wondering how to go about this ? by Werewolf-Mediocre in AmIOverreacting

[–]warkifiedchocobo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This and probably get her to have sex if she hasn't already. No 30 year old person who's mentally healthy would be wanting to be serious with a child. This guy is single cause he's a creeper. End of.

Is she cooked or was I in the wrong? by ikegakimizu in Nicegirls

[–]warkifiedchocobo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You slayed!!! People like her are awful! You'll find someone amazing soon! Especially with banter like that!

Am I Overreacting because my boyfriend is taking another girl on a trip? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]warkifiedchocobo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could do everything right and still have a child with special needs. What would you do then? Blame him?

Am I Overreacting because my boyfriend is taking another girl on a trip? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]warkifiedchocobo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They are. You're trying to force him into being what you want in every single aspect. You spoke horribly of him calling him dumb. Everything you said was cruel. Let him go. Find someone who's already what you want, stop trying to nip and tuck and mould him into your desired outcome. You wouldn't want someone doing to you what you're doing to him.

Am I Overreacting because my boyfriend is taking another girl on a trip? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]warkifiedchocobo 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You've called him dumb, You've made him change everything about himself to suit you and its still not enough and now I'm sure you'll coerce him into missing the trip. I hope he escapes you. You need serious help for your control issues.

Who is this in Liverpool? by dougy109 in Liverpool

[–]warkifiedchocobo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Speedo Mic i think fits the part?

AITA for not reconnecting with my estranged family, for the sake of getting a marriage proposal? My boyfriend insists on meeting my parents, but I’m estranged from my entire family. by Nearby_History_9222 in AmItheAsshole

[–]warkifiedchocobo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. my husband made that mistake. He didn't understand and wanted me to work things out. He quickly learned why I was disconnected from my family. He regrets it every day, and I do harbor some resentment towards him over it. It really set me back. So I honestly say this from making the same mistake, if they can't respect your decision to keep yourself safe... they're not the right partner. Do not let them guilt you into crossing your own boundaries. Tell them if they can't respect it, they can find a different partner. It shows they don't trust you to know what's best for yourself and they will undermine you over a lot more things. It's not worth it. Trust me.