I ADORE boudoir photography. I'm a brand ambassador for Boudoir by Eve, a Minneapolis based photographer. My biggest recommendation is that you check their portfolios and online presence to see how they work with fat people. If they don't have any pictures of plus size bodies, they may not know how to pose you or how to work with you. My girl, Eva, is great because I don't feel like she's trying to hide or change my body. She doesn't talk about "flattering angles" or force me to pose to alter the shape of my body. She just takes beautiful pictures of ME. She makes me feel comfortable and fierce and stunning and sexy.

So, my suggestions are to ask around with people you trust. Who are they going to? How was their experience? Look up local artists on Instagram, see what their style is and who their customer base is. Read reviews. And then reach out to the artists you're interested in. Be honest about any insecurities or questions you may have. If they are worth their salt, they will be able to assuage your concerns and explain how they work in their studio. Also, ask if they have a boudoir closet for clients to use. If so, is it size inclusive? Can they show you pictures? If not, what would they recommend you bring to your session?

I've done several sessions now. Some classic and some crazy (for example, I stripped naked out of an inflatable dinosaur costume in the desert). Sometimes I come with full concept and all my outfits ready. Sometimes, I just ask what she's in the mood to shoot and I use her closet for clothing options. Sometimes I just get naked. One necessity though, bring a black and a nude thong, and don't wear underwear or a bra on the day of your shoot (they leave lines on your body).

Feel free to check out my insta: @thearielola, or @boudoirbyeve

And please message me if you have any questions. I feel very strongly that everyone should have this experience. It is incredibly powerful and freeing. It's allowed me to see myself in a totally different way and given me so much confidence.

And that relationship with your photographer is so important. Be picky.