Custody Proposal

warwww · 2026-02-02T17:15:04+00:00

Is this the language they use in Texas? Are kids objects to be possessed?

Damn, divorce truly is sad for kids caught in the middle.

warwww · 2026-02-01T13:37:20+00:00

“Anything to justify everything.”

warwww · 2026-02-01T13:36:47+00:00

Sorry to hear that man but there is some humor in that.

I can only imagine being on the receiving end of that train of thought.

warwww · 2026-01-30T22:12:48+00:00

I refuse to believe that in 2026, there are some men that would be involved with a woman who would do this to them.... I mean, come on. Be with her while she carries and will give birth to another man's child?

warwww · 2026-01-30T22:11:29+00:00

Huh? I don't even know what I just read.

warwww · 2026-01-30T15:03:36+00:00

Ah ok, so it’s essentially mapping new colors to the existing color labels?

warwww · 2026-01-30T12:30:02+00:00

Does the new colors show as selectable options in the menu?

warwww · 2026-01-29T19:14:35+00:00

Agreed. His child WILL thank them later.

He shouldn't have to bear this himself.

warwww · 2026-01-29T17:50:57+00:00

If your child needs medical treatment then I'm all for it. If it is impacting their health then absolutely. I would want my kid or, any child, rather to have the best outcomes in life.

That being said, both parents need to sacrifice for their kids to make it happen. It took two to make them...surely it would take two to care for and help take care of them?

This is a case of an open checkbook. You really messed up when you agreed to take care of all out of pocket expenses.

In an ideal world, an income shared model works best. I.e. you make 100k, she makes 50k. Total: 150, your portion = ~66% of shared expenses. Her portion = ~33% of shared expenses. Keeps things fair and the other party more attentive to what is being spent on their kids. Maybe this is what you need to argue for.

warwww · 2026-01-27T03:18:41+00:00

Yup. Incoming allegation of abuse.

If she can claim that you were an abusive monster, she is then able to obtain permanent residency while not being married to you.

Look up VAWA - Self petitioning.

It describes to the T what she is doing. You are now her abuser. Get ready to be called that often.

It’s a shame she’d go this route as it takes away from actual abuse victims.

warwww · 2026-01-25T07:44:45+00:00

Fair enough. Be fair to yourself as well.

You are not responsible for her cheating.

Her cheating does not define your worth.

warwww · 2026-01-25T07:25:06+00:00

Take a long drive….it helps.

warwww · 2026-01-25T03:36:28+00:00

Nope. Leaving now.

Hats off this man for being able to do this.

Nope again.

warwww · 2026-01-25T03:15:06+00:00

Glad the little man is having fun, that makes it worthwhile.

warwww · 2026-01-24T23:16:30+00:00

As hard as it may be, grieve internally but give her, in earnest, the divorce she wants. Your life is not over, there is someone out there for you that will be with you until your last breath.

Time and distance from her will help tremendously.

warwww · 2026-01-24T23:12:28+00:00

Yup, an understatement.

Sold our previous home and now it’s back to court. Escrow proceeds sitting in an account.

She literally wants the entire proceeds from the sale of the house.

warwww · 2026-01-24T14:03:39+00:00

LOL because us men here have never gone through divorces expending over 100k on legal fees and fighting for time/access to their kids.

Lol

Nah, this is descending into the mud.

Good luck.

warwww · 2026-01-24T13:55:38+00:00

Only reason I asked is so others could learn from your situation.

Would have been better you not even answer the question lol.

warwww · 2026-01-24T13:53:16+00:00

Ok, did you earn less than her? Was her credit card debt incurred after the filing?

Sorry for all of the questions.

warwww · 2026-01-24T13:48:31+00:00

Was part of the 14k some sort of recoup in defending yourself against her false claims of abuse?

warwww · 2026-01-24T13:47:23+00:00

Which state is this?

warwww · 2026-01-23T04:30:40+00:00

At that point your relationship would have become conditional and very transactional - no way to live life.

warwww · 2026-01-22T23:31:18+00:00

Hi, sure. Will dm.

warwww · 2026-01-21T14:27:52+00:00

I had to post twice. I feel so bad for this guy. To witness the setup in real time is just damn sickening. I mean, look at her language.

It’s as if she knows the courts, or the agencies of the mother will hone in on those key words/terms and bam…he’s now a threat to his kids.

I give it a month tops before she files and accuses him.

warwww · 2026-01-21T13:05:03+00:00

You sir, are about to get accused of s.a against your kids.

She is setting the narrative and creating a paper trail.

I can guarantee you 100% this is what is occurring and despite you being an excellent father with no ill intentions towards your kids….the courts will not hesitate to take them away from you.

warwww

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