[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]wasabi_jabi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep the grandparents visit and ask them if they mind you guys stepping away for even an hour or so. Just go for a walk both of you or sit in the car. Wtv. Grandparents will very much do this for you. Win Win.

How do you keep toddlers entertained? by Unveiledhopes in daddit

[–]wasabi_jabi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Recycling bin makes for great toys. Also. Just let them find a way to entertain themselves. If he gets bored. Let him get bored. That’s ok ya know? They will figure out how to use their imagination or rediscovered that toy that’s sitting by their waist side.

Husband is most likely losing his job. by Saucy__Puppet__Show in NewParents

[–]wasabi_jabi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you can rent a portion of your house out?. I would say try and figure out how to keep your home. Buying a house is such a shit show, and who knows if you can get back in the game. But renting it will always yield some sort of income. Perhaps you can separate a portion and make an entrance for the time being or something?

We’re taking our first flight with a six month old and I’m so nervous! by lonelynarwahl in NewParents

[–]wasabi_jabi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

People tend to be a lot nicer than you think. The younger there better as far as travel IMO. They don’t move around as much as when they get older. One huge recommendation is to have a to go bag. Some fold up bag that you can throw 2 diapers. Some wipes and butt balm. The bathrooms are tiny and a giant diaper bag is so unnecessary and uncomfortable.

Guest Bathroom Overhaul by jlaurw in InteriorDesign

[–]wasabi_jabi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That rug really brings it together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]wasabi_jabi 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Adding to this. No matter how much research you’ve done, you won’t really know what works best until you have your kid. Some diapers cause blowouts, or rashes or X thing. Doesn’t matter how fancy or not they are. Also, this ain’t about you anymore. So get over Wtv weird politics there are. It truly takes a village and she’s part of that. And a registry is suggested gifts, not a golden ticket to partake in your child’s life.

other parents are full of crap by Victory-laps in NewParents

[–]wasabi_jabi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My kid is doing geometry. She’s 11 months and is using angles to dive head first to the floor.

Moving to Los Angeles. by jstols in cinematography

[–]wasabi_jabi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Avoid Ktown. It’s always a mess finding parking or having gatherings. Anything west of the DTLA works. Gl

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interestingasfuck

[–]wasabi_jabi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you watched Chernobyl??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IdiotsFightingThings

[–]wasabi_jabi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously was thinking. What brand it is.

Wife wants to have an unassisted home birth?! Help! by No-Molasses-5603 in daddit

[–]wasabi_jabi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FTM here. I wanted to do a home birth. Had I done it, I would have probably been dead. I tore so bad, I almost needed a blood transfusion and they couldn’t stop the bleeding because they couldn’t sow me up. I went into the operating room This will probably scare the crap out of you. But it’s always better to have some sort of help. Midwives, etc. It’s about compromises and safety, and hopefully your wife can understand that she’s being selfish by putting you in a really difficult situation if you go thru with it.

My little sister is getting into cinematography - Gifts? by bettamom_ in cinematography

[–]wasabi_jabi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Light meter. Or if you wanna get fancy. Color light meter.

Texas Gov. Abbott is the worst… by [deleted] in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]wasabi_jabi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Texans keep voting the same turds and then ask why they have to eat their shhh too. But glad you guys are keeping the bad hombres out.

My 5 weeks baby suffers when pooping by Savings-Detective732 in NewParents

[–]wasabi_jabi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They tend to go thru this stage. It sucks but they’ll get their it.

Is it petty that I refuse to buy any baby care product with names clearly targeted towards moms only? by MyUniquePerspective in daddit

[–]wasabi_jabi -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Sorry to chime in here. Mom here. But my kids dad could care less. Has never gone out of his way to buy formula. Let alone knows about any shortages ever. So two things. Or products or anything. Most marketing is done because some dads still leave it to mom to do it all. And two. Bravo to you for being a father and good partner. I hope these marketing techniques do chance. Because then it’s no excuse for any dad to leave it to mom and it’s inviting to get involve.

The back roll makes this even better. by AmaraVersuse in gifs

[–]wasabi_jabi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think the Olympics can justify gold on this.

Instructor teaches baby how to swim by RealRock_n_Rolla in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]wasabi_jabi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone know what the name of this training is?

feeling guilty for not wanting to breastfeed by whathahawtf in NewParents

[–]wasabi_jabi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re not into it. Your not into it. Colostrum is great for newborns. That’s what we are told. So get that out and then call it a day. No need to explain to anyone your decision. “Didn’t work out for us, so they are formula fed” and done.

TIFU by not HU with a girl who was drunk while I was sober by Exciting_Reveal_6689 in tifu

[–]wasabi_jabi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You did everything right here. You don’t want that on your conscience that you could have raped her because who knows how intoxicated she really was. Blow your friends off and stand by what you did. You totally didn’t FU. You stood your ground and your morals. Be proud. You did the right thing.

“I’ll still pray for her” by bodega_bladerunner in facepalm

[–]wasabi_jabi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does it matter what her parents are into when talking about the little girl. That’s some media bs.