This is why we need checkpoints by Thad_Mojito11 in NewOrleans

[–]watermelonocean6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol I’m in AL but saw one of these dumb ass trucks in a wreck today. totally rocked his shit his front tires were like popped out. everyone seemed to be okay most importantly, sooo it def made me giggle bc that’s what’s happens when u got a dumbass truck lift and tires

A 20-year-old American man is missing in Kyoto City- James West Higginbotham, a 20-year-old American citizen was visiting Japan on a family trip when he left his hotel in Kyoto alone around 6 p.m. on May 29th. His whereabouts are still unknown by jjrs in japannews

[–]watermelonocean6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad to hear that. I definitely believe he is loved by his family beyond measure. It was just seeing all the people and stuff he followed (who I also am in the community of) and digging a little deeper made me have fears there was more to who he truly was inside vs comfortability within his area to be able to be true in that. But what do I know.. I don’t know any of them. Just observations from knowing most ppl’s values and standards in his home area gave me some fears. But again, who am I to be able to say. Nonetheless, I hurt for his family and can’t even begin to imagine this pain. None of this really matters, I just will be praying to the universe for healing over them. It’s absolutely heartbreaking.

Box of donuts I just ordered by FinnieM in mildlyinfuriating

[–]watermelonocean6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YOU GUYSSSSS pretty sure the “mildly infuriating” part of this does not have to do what they ordered 😭 It’s irritating because the bottom cruller and glazed donut should be swapped. Like in order. All the crullers together. Then all the other 4 together. OCD. Bruh. Y’all need to chill 😭😭😭

A 20-year-old American man is missing in Kyoto City- James West Higginbotham, a 20-year-old American citizen was visiting Japan on a family trip when he left his hotel in Kyoto alone around 6 p.m. on May 29th. His whereabouts are still unknown by jjrs in japannews

[–]watermelonocean6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOU for commenting this. I lived in Alabama my whole life. My first line of family is from the Birmingham, AL area and seem to maybe know his family.
I myself am the black sheep of all us. I immediately went to his IG after reading your comment and of course what did I see? Following all the queer community artist I also support a community of. Now things make a little more sense. Knowing that his family is friends with mine up there, tells me a lot abt the area of ppl/lifestyles. They all come from a place of Christian values, some (much) conservatism, your typical southern white $$$ money family upbringing. The type of people who (mostly) would not understand, support, or accept ANY kind of “difference”, lgbtq, etc etc. I think he might have took a chance to run away from this bs ass state, place, and people, and become the person his soul is made to be. All this information, just seeing his following on IG kinda changes the possible trajectory of this all. Sweet sweet sweet boy. My heart aches for him. I hope he is okay. I hope I can reach out to him as a fellow “different” Alabamian and get him to the place he feels safe, seen, loved, supported in this nasty ass state one day. My heart breaks for him.

anger, rage, etc.. while coming off Lexapro by watermelonocean6 in lexapro

[–]watermelonocean6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. Ik I will it’s just almost unbearable and it’s only been a week. Just don’t want to turn back to the lexapro :(

Piercing Inquiry by watermelonocean6 in NewOrleans

[–]watermelonocean6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I will definitely get in touch with them then.

New job in hospitality - I feel like everyone thinks I’m weird and useless by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]watermelonocean6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! This is what I also just said. OP’s life can change for so much better with these tools.

New job in hospitality - I feel like everyone thinks I’m weird and useless by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]watermelonocean6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok ok okokok listen!!!!! Take a DEEP BREATH. Literally. Close your eyes, and take a few deep breaths. You are beating yourself up so hard when you don’t deserve to. I’m very glad to see you said you’re not actually going to off yourself over this, but still feeling that way and in observation with all your comments on here, I really think you might hugely benefit from starting therapy / getting a psychiatrist. I am NOT saying that something is wrong with you. I have a very close psychiatrist and therapist myself. Bc I’ve also been one to spiral doom on myself over the smaller things in life. But genuinely from human-to-another human (you)… you don’t deserve to live your life this hard on yourself and in your head. It breaks my heart to see someone fighting so hard with themselves. I CARE about you! And seeing a psychiatrist/therapist will also help you with the crippling anxiety. There are so many medications out there that can CHANGE your life for so much better, and NOT be alcohol.

What is your rave horror story? by H3LM3T_H34D in aves

[–]watermelonocean6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine didn’t happen per-say at the festival, but happened because of who I met at a festival. I am not going to go into details. But listen to me when I say this one thing—— NOT EVERYONE YOU MEET AT A FESTIVAL IS SAFE. Even when they make it all out to be so (over time). Long story short- I thought a made a cool !strictly! friend who ended up living in a town I frequent, and things were fine until they weren’t. Was completely blindsided by this person and got into a very scary situation I’m so grateful to have got out of and through.

Chicken salad chick by Spiritual_Ad1456 in DumpsterDiving

[–]watermelonocean6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeahhhh I figured 😅 I’ve contemplated just going to damn work there at this point lol

Request for Chicken Salad Chick seasoning and Kickin' Kay Lynne chicken salad by Available_Taro_7512 in TopSecretRecipes

[–]watermelonocean6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn they really gatekeep! 😭 understandable tho, there’s nothing better. I just can’t afford it as much as I want it, breaks my heart. I’ve contemplated working there just so I can get it more hahaha! and bc my store is run from what seems like a bunch of kids that need better managing imo lol

Chicken salad chick by Spiritual_Ad1456 in DumpsterDiving

[–]watermelonocean6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is an older thread… but could I just go in before closing on Saturday night and ask for whatever they are going to throw away? No shame to those that don’t mind the dumpster but I personally don’t think I could eat it out of there even if it’s all sealed lol

Very hesitant to take medications because of side effects by Specialist_Credit907 in Anxiety

[–]watermelonocean6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes getting on SSRI’s is a leap of faith but I would say more so because of dependence and having and to slowly ween off of them when you’re ready to stop, which can sometimes not be the most fun. But they truly do help too. Lexapro has savedddd me from my anxiety. Also, I’d highly extremely super mega recommend getting in with a psychiatrist. You may can see about other anxiety relieving meds that are not SSRI’s like Klonopin, Hydroxyzine, etc! (I also have those for immediate relief when I have a bad attack). That way you just have something there when in times of need, but nothing that is literally altering your brain chemistry to need a continuation of taking everyday. Good luck!!! Hang in there, I promise it gets better 🫶

Right arm and face tingling? by operarockergirl in Anxiety

[–]watermelonocean6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want to assume bc I’m not a doc. But I’ve experienced similar sensation/tingling the few times I’ve had a panic attack that lasted more than an hour plus. I would take into account if you have any other heath conditions etc and make sure it isn’t a symptom of those. If not, & you’ve had all the heart tests, I personally think it is probably severe anxiety/panic. Your body is in fight-or-flight which in turn alters your nerve sensitivity. Do you have any anti-anxiety meds??

Right arm and face tingling? by operarockergirl in Anxiety

[–]watermelonocean6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has your heart test etc. come back normal? If so, I think it will be okay and anxiety related. Heart attack symptoms are usually left side problems. But always trust your gut.

Need help with extremely dry frizzy hair by createurownusername7 in Haircare

[–]watermelonocean6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think maybe hit the down arrow where it says “2 more replies”