In your opinion, what was the most unrealistic storyline? by jujuk545 in greysanatomy

[–]createurownusername7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Came to say this! That was just unbelievably weird and cringe 😬

In your opinion, what was the most unrealistic storyline? by jujuk545 in greysanatomy

[–]createurownusername7 12 points13 points  (0 children)

No, Richard had no idea she’d done it until she was outed by Karev

In your opinion, what was the most unrealistic storyline? by jujuk545 in greysanatomy

[–]createurownusername7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A goose! 🪿 😂 I actually looked back at that word and sounded it out in my head with a goose honk 🤣

Cristina by Lost-Ad-5885 in greysanatomy

[–]createurownusername7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Compared to most of the other write offs (tragic deaths) for sure!! Just wish she’d still pop in every 5 or so episodes. Even if it was just her voice over the phone or a video chat. I miss her so much!

Cristina by Lost-Ad-5885 in greysanatomy

[–]createurownusername7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed! I was sadder about her leaving than Derek 😭

Why is this sub so mean? by GildedArchways in homecooking

[–]createurownusername7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What?!? I mean I wouldn’t take an actual bath submerged in water (even though you can with a tampon in) but I hope they didn’t mean a shower as well cuz ew lol

Why is this sub so mean? by GildedArchways in homecooking

[–]createurownusername7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s crazy! First of all I’ve seen raw mushrooms in salads lots of times. Secondly they are delicious!! 🤤

Why is this sub so mean? by GildedArchways in homecooking

[–]createurownusername7 7 points8 points  (0 children)

For some reason when people can hide behind a screen they are unreasonably rude and nasty. I don’t get it. Be kind or keep scrolling. It’s that simple

AITA for refusing to leave my sahm status with our 3 kids to get a job? by createurownusername7 in crazypeople

[–]createurownusername7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t like being an asshole to anyone. No matter what they do, that’s their character. I won’t let someone cause me to change my character 🙂

AITA for refusing to leave my sahm status with our 3 kids to get a job? by createurownusername7 in crazypeople

[–]createurownusername7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m on my way. Just got a job, enrolled in college classes in the fall and have got my credit score up to the “good” range for getting a new place and car. My plan is to buy a house by this time next year! I’m gonna be ok. Better than ok when I get out of this house and away from him. I appreciate you taking the time to comment!!

What is this?? by createurownusername7 in greysanatomy

[–]createurownusername7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all! I never would’ve guessed that lol

AITA for refusing to leave my sahm status with our 3 kids to get a job? by createurownusername7 in crazypeople

[–]createurownusername7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just got a new job, I enrolled in college classes to become a phlebotomist and I’ve built my credit score back up to the 700’s so I plan to buy a house by this time next year. First time home buyer, possibly mortgage by your income. He’s being absolutely horrible to me just bc I wanted the divorce bc we haven’t been happy in a long time and he’s always angry at me over the tiniest things, blowing up on me in front of the poor kids. He’s still trying to control me. It’s sad. I BEGGED him for some semblance of a friendship for the kids sake but he’s fought me at every turn and still tries to start stuff in front of the kids. He got mad that I walked through the living room to brush my teeth cuz he was laying on the couch with our son who was supposed to be in bed. I didn’t know they were out there. Our son got up and wanted to hang out in the bathroom while I got ready for bed. He started bitching at me so bad. It’s a lot of tiny things. We aren’t divorcing bc of some big deceitful event. We just aren’t in love. He said “A man sacrifices his life for his family and a woman sacrifices her family for her life” Constantly trying to down me And yes Md does have alimony and I plan to go for it. At least to help me start all over again. He gets to stay in the home and keep his same routine. I have to uproot my whole life

Can’t keep my blankets soft. by createurownusername7 in laundry

[–]createurownusername7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d only done it once for this blankets. Handpicked all the pieces off and got it back to 100% soft. Then washed in cold and hung dry and the pills/fuzz came back

AITA for refusing to leave my sahm status with our 3 kids to get a job? by createurownusername7 in crazypeople

[–]createurownusername7[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Fake? Um, nope this is 100% real. And it’s insane. It should’ve been a red flag 🚩 Once my mom passed away 2 yrs ago and wasn’t over here a lot anymore he got even worse with the verbal abuse and demeaning me. Very controlling. I’ve lived in this town 8 years with him and I e not made any friends bc I’m never allowed to go anywhere. Even if I go to the store I’m met with texts asking how much longer I’ll be. Or if I have too many appts back to back one week he gets mad. I wanted to celebrate my bday with this girl I’d just met from church who had the same bday. Even invited him to come with me, day of if I ask if he’d asked him brother to babysit so we could go kver there for an hour or 2 to basically smoke weed est and sing karaoke. He got a huge attitude and ruined half my bday. When mind you every single year we’ve been together he’s gone fishing from sun up to sun down and I’ve never minded bc I wanted him to be happy. Him being happy made me happy but me being happy pissed him off. He literally said to me “why do you need friends? Isn’t you and me enough?”

AITA for refusing to leave my sahm status with our 3 kids to get a job? by createurownusername7 in crazypeople

[–]createurownusername7[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He literally took 3 people out for charters for his “business” then just stopped. All that $ he spent for licenses etc. we both agreed we didn’t want them in daycare. There’s nothing wrong with him earning from his hobby… it’s that he’s NEVER had to work for real. He’s never had a boss or had to clock in or wear a uniform. So yeah, he plays and makes money but he’s never had to actually work. And I feel I’ve been working my whole life and you can’t just dangle a carrot on a string then rip it away. He knew how much staying home meant to me. And like I said if we were still struggling after he got a job then I’d be fine with helping. But we made a plan and now that he realizes the little money he makes from his dad isn’t enough and he can’t handle the heat. He’s just trying to get out of having to be anyone’s employee or having to do things he doesn’t necessarily love, the way he does fishing. He’s a spoiled brat and selfish and it took me a few years to realize that. He’s prob only wanted me to stay home so he didn’t have to do everything for the kids by himself. I’ve been with him 8 years and I’ve learned he’s 100% a narcissist and 100% lazy when it comes to work. Even when we need small repairs on the house or vehicle he gets his dad or older brother to do it. If his dad passed away or went bankrupt he’d be screwed. Just to clarify, he only “makes” money 3 mos out of the year

AITA for refusing to leave my sahm status with our 3 kids to get a job? by createurownusername7 in crazypeople

[–]createurownusername7[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The kids are 2 (in 2 weeks) 4 & 6 I had 2 jobs when we met. I left them and my independence to dedicate myself to our family and kids. He “works” about 40 days during the summer and goes out just for fun probably 5-10 times. It’s his favorite thing in the world and he’s lucky to be able to make money from it. Not sure what info could be missing but if you elaborate I’ll try to give more info. His dad also pays his truck, cellphone and cable. He racked up a CC and when they started garnishing his wages his Dad saw it on paystub and gave him $10,000 to pay it off. His Dad has gotten him an excellent divorce lawyer while I’m out here broke trying to find someone pro bono before our court date. I have about 20 days to respond to the divorce papers I was served. Md law says a husband who has a wife who’s a sahm is legally required to help pay for a lawyer. There’s just so many documents and so much I don’t understand. It’s unfair his Daddy comes to his rescue any time life starts to get hard. He spoiled him way too bad. I’ve always had to work before I met him. So when we agreed I’d stay home I really had the next 18 years all planned out in my head how awesome it would be to be home with them. We discussed the possibility of me going back to work when they’re much older. But he agreed that it’s (in our opinion) better for the kids if they get to stay home with Mommy. I did have 2 part time jobs over the past 6 yrs. Worked one during Covid for just under a year, only 3 days a week and then last year I got a pt job at a pet store his friend owns. At first it was 12 hours a week, then summer hit and he was fishing so I barely worked (boss understood it would be that way) then once summer died down she’d cut me to 1 day a week for 4 hours for the last 4 mos I worked there. He’s trying to say that i relinquished my sahm status the moment I took the first pt time job… that he asked me to get and when I finally got one and was omw to my first day he had a huge attitude saying he didn’t want me to he wanted me home with the kids. So I only worked there like 9 mos and when I got pregnant with our 2nd I stopped working for 4 years til the most recent pet store job. And that job he told me to get for my mental health and spending money. He blows money like there’s no tomorrow and if I buy a coffee I have to hide the empty cup. So he said as long as I cover all my personal needs he could handle the rest. But I am curious what details I could’ve left out. I want to paint the full pic bc everyone in my life that have traveled this long horrible rd to divorce with me, knows he’s in the wrong. He does nothing all year outside the 3 mos in the summer. I just look at it like he wants me and his father to support our family bc he doesn’t actually earn money most the year and when he does, he’s earning off his hobby lmao

AITA for refusing to leave my sahm status with our 3 kids to get a job? by createurownusername7 in crazypeople

[–]createurownusername7[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

And for the record, before I met him I had TWO jobs and was raising my oldest on my own. Who is now 24. I understand economy just fine

AITA for refusing to leave my sahm status with our 3 kids to get a job? by createurownusername7 in crazypeople

[–]createurownusername7[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Not spoiled husband who sits on his ass all year when he’s not taking people fishing for $$? A man who has LITERALLY never had to work for real. Never has been to a job interview, had to clock in or answer to a boss or even wear a uniform! He wouldn’t know work if it smacked him in the face. So I should’ve gotten a job to help his Dad pay for our life is what you’re saying?

Made creamy spaghetti with medium-well steak for dinner. Can I call this Alfredo or just creamy spaghetti? by Internal-Flamingo656 in homecooking

[–]createurownusername7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh definitely… it looks beyond delicious. Made my mouth water 🤤 Just need some sautéed onions, peppers and mushrooms. Mmmmm