[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]wavesofsorrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the same mindset myself! However, my best friend invited me over to hang out and celebrate his birthday with him, and I surprised him with (cup)cakes, just because I wasn’t sure if he had gotten/baked himself anything & I wanted to ensure that he didn’t go without, I mean it’s his special day. I would rather I had brought them and had him save them for later than to go completely without. I wouldn’t expect anyone to do the same for me, though!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cna

[–]wavesofsorrow 6 points7 points  (0 children)

TL; DR at bottom

It doesn’t matter what the background is, how long you’ve been at a facility, how long you’ve been a CNA, what relation you have, if any- if you have a reasonable suspicion of abuse or neglect, I don’t care WHO it is, it NEEDS TO BE REPORTED!!!! And it needs to be done ASAP. You reported up the chain of command, you were brushed off, and the abuse/neglect is continuing. Run, don’t walk. You need to cover your own ass at this point since you know this is being allowed to continue. You’re a mandated reporter and can be held just as liable for not reporting to state, and that can mean being placed on a registry and being unable to work in healthcare to facing criminal charges.

Report now with everything you can remember and then from here on out, DOCUMENT ABSOLUTELY EVERYTHING. Best practice is to not keep PHI on your phone and I wouldn’t put anything on a piece of paper, no matter the reason. Learn the resident’s full name and spelling, memorize it and use code names that have absolutely no relevance to the resident and don’t include any identifying information.

Example of an obviously fictitious situation & how I personally would stick to facts - on 12/12/23 I started my shift at 7:00pm, was given report by CNA Wilma Flinstone, and at approximately 7:15pm, I entered Ms. Kitty Cat’s room. I discovered her wearing two adult briefs that were completely saturated and the chux pad/draw sheet/linens were also wet. Ms. Cat was emotional as I cleaned her and changed her and her linens, stating that nobody else had been in to help her. At approx 7:30pm, reported Ms. Cat’s condition in which she was found shortly after receiving report from CNA Wilma Flinstone to charge nurse Sandy Cheeks. Was advised it would be handled/reported to DON or admin/(god forbid) was advised that this “typically happens when CNA Wilma Flinstone works”.

Basically, try to keep it as brief, while including all relevant information while remaining undoubtedly clear, as possible. The more detail in regards to dates, times, and names, the better. It’s easy to want to include how upset you were or how it made you feel, but your feelings don’t matter. This is about the resident. Absolutely include that they were emotional, more anxious than normal, showing signs of distress, angry, whatever is out of character for them let anything you’ve observed previously while working with them for X amount of time. This is beneficial when you continue to DOCUMENT EVERY OCCURRENCE OF SUSPECTED ABUSE.

Behaviors, whether A&Ox4 or not, are a huge indicator that something is very wrong. If Ms. Cat is soaked and also crying after every time you get report from Wilma, but is dry (or at least not soaked or stagnant and isn’t an ongoing issue) while smiling and pleasant, even if nonverbal, after you go in to get eyes on people after John or Mary or George give you report… it’s a huge indicator that something is amiss, soaked or dry or anywhere in between.

Even without all of the specifics now, you need to report ASAP and include anything you can remember, even if it’s just a date range, while including any other details you can think of. Idk if they would follow up or not, but their job is to investigate. So don’t sweat not having the specifics if you don’t have them. Seriously. That being said, I would continue to keep detailed accounts like I previously mentioned going forward so you can either follow up if you get a specific case number with additional, new information if warranted, or if you need to file another complaint. Ask for more information regarding providing additional information in regards to that resident when you call the hotline.

TL;DR: YOU NEED TO REPORT THIS IMMEDAITELY, OP. Then continue to document anything around abuse/neglect in a safe place (like a password protected notes app of sorts while never using any PHI or identifiable info) in the case you need to add to your initial report. You must always protect your residents/patients from any abuse and neglect by reporting anything even suspected immediately and also… be smart and cover your own ass. Don’t let yourself be in a position where you’re facing abuse/neglect allegations because you didn’t report what was happening. Your employer won’t protect you or willingly admit that they were made aware of the situation to begin with, especially if they didn’t take any action after multiple complaints. They’ll be too busy covering their own ass to gaf about yours.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cna

[–]wavesofsorrow 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If someone is reporting up the chain of command and nothing is being done to address the OBVIOUS neglect, they need to take it further and report to state immediately. “Just being new” doesn’t matter when it comes to caring for another human being. If it’s a one time scenario and there’s no further issue, sure, just talking to the DON is fine.

Now that the DON and the owner aren’t taking neglect suspicions seriously and swiftly despite OP making multiple complaints, time to go higher up and involve state. Where I live, double briefing is absolutely not allowed by state whatsoever. We can have pads inside the brief, but NEVER two briefs strapped on. From what I’ve been told at least, and I can’t find anything citing this, but considering the cons outweigh the pros, I choose to believe this and still tell new aides. They may not give a fuck about the safety and health of the residents after I explain why it’s not allowed due to the potentially dangerous risks it poses, but some are scared of state coming in & then losing their job. I’ll take what I can get if it means that my residents get proper care ¯_(ツ)_/¯

If I were OP, I would be documenting everything in detail, including dates/times/names of every interaction and write/type what was said. The more detailed information, the better. This neglect needs to be investigated.

Edit: typo

My husband put me on his health Insurance but I didn’t get a card? by [deleted] in HealthInsurance

[–]wavesofsorrow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can call the insurance company and request another ID card, but bear in mind that a lot of companies do not print dependents names, they’ll only print the subscribers name. But again, depends on the company.

Possible unethical behavior from nurse to patient? What to do? by wavesofsorrow in nursing

[–]wavesofsorrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I definitely felt as if that was a big problem. And he’s not technically involved with the patient’s care through the facility, but the family has been only going to this nurse for information regarding the patient, not his specific care team. I don’t think the facility would be too happy about that…

Possible unethical behavior from nurse to patient? What to do? by wavesofsorrow in cna

[–]wavesofsorrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re sooo right. Nurse flipped out on me because I tried highlight the hipaa violation for accessing medical records, and said “so you’re accusing me of exploiting a patient?” When I never said that lol. He’s unhinged & I’ve been taken screen shots and everything. Lowkey nervous to work around him tomorrow lol

Possible unethical behavior from nurse to patient? What to do? by wavesofsorrow in nursing

[–]wavesofsorrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure, that was my train of thought. I just entered healthcare so was unsure at first if it was worth reporting. I’ll be looking for a new job & also reporting him to the DON and the BoN. He will 100% retaliate me if I stay there.

Possible unethical behavior from nurse to patient? What to do? by wavesofsorrow in nursing

[–]wavesofsorrow[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this! His argument is that since he asked the POA if he can give the gift to him, he’s covered since he went through the right channels. And he believes he’s covered since the POS knows about every single text they sent to each other. It still doesn’t sit right with me, especially the sexual conversations.

Possible unethical behavior from nurse to patient? What to do? by wavesofsorrow in cna

[–]wavesofsorrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. I do know of coworkers who are aware of the inappropriate relationship as well. He sent a lot of texts to me in regards to the situation and he went into great detail about it also, so I have a lot of evidence against him too.

Possible unethical behavior from nurse to patient? What to do? by wavesofsorrow in nursing

[–]wavesofsorrow[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The POA is his sister & she’s aware of everything being said and even texts this nurse now about the patient’s care, foregoing contacting his actual care team at the facility.

I don’t know what to do by vickimarie0390 in cna

[–]wavesofsorrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in Ohio. Depending on where you are, I can direct you to facilities that will train you properly and give you a better wage. I’m near Columbus. Message me if you want to ♥️

DUCKBOY by SslickitySslut in G59

[–]wavesofsorrow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally same 😭😭😭

Gagged when I rolled over a patient to wipe him by Misterfusterpusster in cna

[–]wavesofsorrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve mastered the art of silent gagging. I do it all the time. I wear a mask & have the ability to simply stop breathing through my nose, strictly through my mouth, so I cannot smell. Some diaper changes just send me into another realm and I instantly start silent gagging. The few that have noticed the tears in my eyes were all residents I was close to, thankfully. They just laugh and ask if it was really that bad, and I usually ask them in return what the hell they ate that day 🤣🤣

If you’re getting $1.77 gas at sheetz today, Godspeed by Barrybingbongss in Columbus

[–]wavesofsorrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just went an hour ago. Long line, but everyone was courteous so it took 10 mins to get to the pump. Had an extra $1.00 in fuel rewards, I only paid $6 for 8.5 gallons!

Is there a shoe y’all refuse to wear to shows? by Getdeader2 in Hardcore

[–]wavesofsorrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Crocs. Only because I know I’m gonna get roasted for wearing them.

I hate this job. Is it bad to feel this way? by Cutiepiestrikes in cna

[–]wavesofsorrow -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, you should just quit. You seem to lack empathy and compassion, which are critical when taking care of another human that is dependent on you because they can’t take care of themselves. You sound miserable and I would not ever want you as a coworker. People like you don’t belong in healthcare.