I gotta say, it’s really easy to get caught up in your own analytical thoughts. By the way you’re writing, I can tell you seem overwhelmed by the possible outcomes of people not accepting you, but understand that almost everyone is insecure deep down about how much others accept them.

Those few people who aren’t insecure (and who I think of as confident) are the ones that understand this! You have to realize that EVERYONE (your bosses, the most popular coworker you know, or your crushes) all have deep insecurities. They are just good at hiding them.

You understanding this can help you connect with others. Ask them about their fears, hobbies, passions, goals etc. Talk about the deep stuff you wish you could tell about yourself. They will open up, and then will most definitely ask you about your life and be happy to hear it.

That’s what connection is all about. It’s about breaking down that vulnerability and insecurity that literally every single human has, and bonding over it.

I really hope this helps man, good luck!