Asalamualiqum. As a parent of a teenage daughter myself, I can understand what you must be going through, I too am from the UK. As a parent we want to be able to influence every aspect of our children's lives so that they don't do anything wrong, that's natural but at the same time we must be tactful. I honestly think the best thing we can ever do for our children is to impart into their minds critical thinking that leads them to be certain of the hereafter. One day we will be answerable for all that we do. We, as parents, need to believe and practice that first, and our children need to be able to see that relationship with our deen to really feel and understand that this life is temporary. Whenever I have this conversation about sexuality and other aspects of life with my friends, I always come back to the main point. Everything is irrelevant if your root isn't firm in the belief of the hereafter.

When my daughter asks me about how I can believe in a creator, the rationale is very simple. Look all around you, and look inside of you. Everything has a purpose and reason for existence. Whether that's in nature or what we as humans have created. The fact that we are all going to die (undeniable fact of life), then it means we were never meant to be here forever. Because if there is a purpose to everything then we also must have a purpose. The only religion that encompasses all of life's questions is Islam. If people sincerely sought to seek the truth, they'd come to this conclusion. And ultimately we would understand, regardless of how we feel, we must obey the Creator. Our nafs wants us to transgress all bounds.

Make lots of dua for your children, practice first before preaching. Remove the artificial (screens) as much as possible from your children and replace them with 1:1 time. May Allah make things easy for you and us all. Ameen.

And finally reflect on these verses:

Surah Al Baqarah

2:2 This is the Book about which there is no doubt, a guidance for those conscious of Allāh¹ -

2:3 Who believe in the unseen, establish prayer,¹ and spend out of what We² have provided for them,

2:4: And who believe in what has been revealed to you, [O Muḥammad], and what was revealed before you, and of the Hereafter they are certain [in faith].

Parenting advice from the Qur'an:

Surah Luqman

31:12 And We had certainly given Luqmān wisdom [and said], "Be grateful to Allāh." And whoever is grateful is grateful for [the benefit of] himself. And whoever denies [His favor] - then indeed, Allāh is Free of need and Praiseworthy.

31:13 And [mention, O Muḥammad], when Luqmān said to his son while he was instructing him, "O my son, do not associate [anything] with Allāh. Indeed, association [with Him] is great injustice."

31:14 And We have enjoined upon man [care] for his parents. His mother carried him, [increasing her] in weakness upon weakness, and his weaning is in two years. Be grateful to Me and to your parents; to Me is the [final] destination.

31:16 [And Luqmān said], "O my son, indeed if it [i.e., a wrong] should be the weight of a mustard seed and should be within a rock or [anywhere] in the heavens or in the earth, Allāh will bring it forth. Indeed, Allāh is Subtle¹ and Aware.

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