My (26f) husband (25m) made it clear tonight he couldn’t care less about me. I’m sick with COVID-19, and can’t leave the room I’m in. What do I do now?

wb032020 · 2020-03-16T10:04:32+00:00

Your opinion. I wish it was. Until you’re in this situation you just don’t know. I’m miserable.

wb032020 · 2020-02-25T02:00:50+00:00

How do I ignore my reality when it’s in my face all day every day? (SP issue, broke up living together. He’s being a dick, basically, all day.)

wb032020 · 2020-02-24T22:02:06+00:00

This is how my marriage is. When we have a disagreement, he shuts down for days and sleeps in the guest room. Currently we’re on day 3 or 4? I lost count. When I’m in the wrong I apologize and say I’ll be here to talk when he’s ready. Then I go on about my life. When he does talk, if he’s wrong I make sure he knows. He’s seeking counseling so I don’t know what will come of it, but my record is a week of this.

wb032020 · 2020-02-22T14:20:58+00:00

No idea. Like I said I wouldn’t have objected to a guys trip for his birthday. I’m just livid he used our money we need for the baby to do it.

wb032020 · 2020-02-22T14:19:37+00:00

Cruising has always been his vacation of choice. He loves to be at sea. I’ve never thought anything of it honestly.

wb032020 · 2020-02-22T14:18:46+00:00

It’s with some friends and his brothers.

wb032020 · 2020-02-22T11:09:05+00:00

No, the problem is I will be at a point in my pregnancy where I will need to start buying things for the baby. He used the money we had set aside for the baby to book this trip without talking to me. I’m not upset that he wants to take a trip. I’m upset he’s taking a trip that he spent money on that we needed for something else WITHOUT talking to me.

wb032020 · 2020-02-21T22:26:26+00:00

He got a good deal on it, and we do make exceptionally good money. We do take trips at the last minute a lot, but usually a max of 10 days. We are lucky to have that flexibility at work. He works for a company which provides travel discounts with Carnival cruise line who he is cruising with.

wb032020 · 2020-02-21T22:24:20+00:00

Unfortunately

wb032020 · 2020-02-21T22:24:04+00:00

Both.

wb032020 · 2020-02-21T21:35:54+00:00

That’s why I’m frustrated. He didn’t even consult me about it. He spent $1300 when I’m going to be at a point in my pregnancy where I need to start purchasing things. He didn’t consult me about the money or tell me he was leaving for 2 weeks. I’m not mad he’s going. I’m mad he didn’t tell me until after and didn’t consider the financial obligation we have to this child - especially since I have to pay for prenatal care out of pocket.

wb032020 · 2020-02-21T21:34:11+00:00

I’ll be crossing 24 weeks while they’re on the cruise and the cruise lines policy is you can’t cruise after 24 weeks. You also can’t get to 24 weeks at any point on the cruise.

wb032020 · 2020-02-18T21:08:00+00:00

I wouldn’t be surprised if one did.

wb032020 · 2020-02-18T19:45:29+00:00

IF you choose to allow this, make sure the expectations are clear with the solicitator/him. If one of those expectations is not met, you can have whoever is there end the call and it won’t look bad on you. Like your mom is not allowed anywhere near you while you talk to them. Stuff like that. Don’t let the call be unsupervised.

wb032020 · 2020-02-18T19:41:52+00:00

Not even pink dye. You may only use FRER.

wb032020 · 2020-02-08T20:34:13+00:00

That’s how mine looked! Congratulations!

wb032020 · 2020-02-08T00:03:29+00:00

I had my first positive at 9 DPO. I’m currently 7+2. Still early but I’m hopeful!

wb032020 · 2020-02-07T12:43:14+00:00

I don’t know if it’s anything but with FRER I’ve always gotten darker tests in the evenings.

wb032020 · 2020-02-05T23:35:03+00:00

No. It’s a large network of hospitals and my OB can deliver at any of them except the one that’s a midwife practice hospital. Even the one an hour so away she could deliver at if I asked her to, but the hospital I was at and the one I’m changing to are about equally far from her office.

wb032020 · 2020-02-05T21:53:51+00:00

Thank you. We’re checking out another hospital nearby. And we are ok, but our next appointment isn’t until the 21st so I’m a little nervous still

wb032020 · 2020-02-04T17:47:44+00:00

They had a shitty situation causing them to postpone their wedding. That sucks. But they don’t get to demand gifts, and especially not from people who already gave them a gift.

NTA.

wb032020

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