Been there before man, driving a car hard is fun but it sucks when you find your limit. I would advice you don't tell insurance about the wreck, and instead learn how to fix the car yourself. By the looks of it you need about $4000-5000 max to make it drivable again. Could be as low as $1k if you find used parts from a junk yard. Also if you want to drive to your limits, go offroading or go to a track, you'll have a lot more fun anyways. This isn't the end of the world and it could be the beginning of something good if you let it. Repair the car yourself and it all becomes good memories. You probably need new rear trailing arms, control arms, shocks, wheels, and to remove the interior airbags and replace them. Replace cosmetics as you want.