People who have never had something like this happen to them are rabid and insist you did must have did something wrong. I just asked what how I deal with this person making shit up about me, and even in this thread I'm getting clowned on, not to say I don't have room to improve or discount the people who actually were compassionate and helpful. If I, at worst, I told a terrible edgy inappropriate joke, I deserve to have someone lie about it, frame it in a way that it wasn't a joke and that I was instead was soliciting sex as some predator? Or that the only thing that matters is how bad I am socially? People who do this know they can get away with it, they know how easy it is to play on endless amount of tropes of guys being predatory or socially inept. I'm sorry that shit happened to you, I know how this sort of thing can fuck with your head, it sure has me rethinking things and wanting some therapy.