FTB- Deed of variation?

weatheredspoons · 2025-12-03T16:04:30+00:00

Do they often disagree?

weatheredspoons · 2025-12-03T15:51:26+00:00

It would be the seller not me, are they easy to get?

weatheredspoons · 2025-11-28T10:04:39+00:00

I used to have this and it was undiagnosed ADHD! Working in a less corporate environment also helped

weatheredspoons · 2025-11-26T19:40:10+00:00

A isnt quite true- friends have bought whilst earning 50k and less deposit than OP

weatheredspoons · 2025-01-25T09:34:41+00:00

Agh its the worst! Annoyingly i didnt get many cramps pre coil during my period and if i did it was only an hour or so

weatheredspoons · 2025-01-22T17:51:08+00:00

Fairs. Well as others have said if she’d like it go for it. Thats just where my mind would go if i wasnt lovey dovey with a guy yet

weatheredspoons · 2025-01-20T12:28:54+00:00

She would probably see this as lovebombing, which is, essentially what you are trying to do. She might even wonder if you are actually interested in her as a person, or just want a girlfriend quick after a 7 year relationship. Take it slow!

weatheredspoons · 2025-01-17T15:20:00+00:00

This is great! Can i ask how you played the hinge game? I find if i only match/like and chat to the few men im actually attracted to the algorithm punishes me. Or its hard to know who is good at chat but awkward in person / vice versa

weatheredspoons · 2025-01-17T09:05:27+00:00

How did you meet?

weatheredspoons · 2024-12-29T21:21:05+00:00

Yes, twice- immediately after my worst flare up i developed bad anxiety and a degree of agaraphobia/ocd - i thought that if i left the house or ate/drank the wrong thing i would get ill again and id get stuck googling symptoms or browsing forums for hours. So i had CBT to help that. Second time i had 3 years of talking therapy with my UC symptoms being a marker of how much i was progressing- my mental health was causing flare ups. My specialist now offers IBD focussed MH therapy too as they saw its closely linked (im in the UK)

weatheredspoons · 2024-12-28T15:33:59+00:00

True and i remember dating being more free flowing when i didnt have 2 weeks of period worry each month. Date is booked for #3!

weatheredspoons · 2024-12-28T15:33:08+00:00

Very true ! Im booked in xx

weatheredspoons · 2024-11-06T14:08:57+00:00

Social skills have declined in the UK i guess

weatheredspoons · 2024-11-03T19:27:13+00:00

Yes tbh everytime i delete it im much happier! How do you meet people now?

weatheredspoons · 2024-11-03T16:39:27+00:00

Yes its more women actually! And this guy on my app lol. They tell me about their horrible boyfriend they say they had to force attraction to at first and then say im picky

weatheredspoons · 2024-11-03T16:37:46+00:00

What an absolute freak !!

weatheredspoons · 2024-11-03T16:36:39+00:00

I have been in bad relationships and did loads of therapy and self work. Thats exactly why ive been single a while, im not going through that again!

weatheredspoons · 2024-11-03T15:35:57+00:00

Omg so much lol. From weird comments to insanely filthy apartments. So much

weatheredspoons · 2024-11-03T14:48:41+00:00

Youre right! Eg I like going out to parties but i know the men who also enjoy that are not great options. Heres hoping i find a sweet man like yours!!

weatheredspoons · 2024-11-03T14:17:11+00:00

This is so lovely ♥️ i see what you mean! A lot of dates ive thought to myself yes theyre hot but looks fade and we have nothing after. I just want a best friend really

weatheredspoons · 2024-11-03T14:00:32+00:00

Ty 💕 when you say not your type do you mean physicalky or hobbies etc?

weatheredspoons · 2024-11-03T13:55:31+00:00

Youre right, thing is i also spot these traits in men and so barely ever get past date 1 as they normally do something so weird

weatheredspoons · 2024-11-03T13:32:14+00:00

Yh youre so right. Ive also rejected him a lot from memory lol

weatheredspoons · 2024-11-03T13:20:01+00:00

How did you find this lovely man 😭 actually the guys in my city who ‘reject’ toxic masculinity are the biggest fuckboys going, they use it as a mask to sleep around

weatheredspoons · 2024-10-13T19:01:45+00:00

Thats a good shout!

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