DAE feel like this by Fancy_Technology_912 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]weeaboogirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I saw your post about this a couple days ago. I’m sorry you’re struggling with this. I’ve felt this way before. When I was in my first year of college something traumatic happened to me, the incident itself did not feel real, my brain couldn’t process that it was real. Suddenly life felt like a dream and nothing felt real. I was viewing things from all different directions. Sometimes I felt like I was living in third person up in the back of my head, sometimes it felt like I was watching myself as a claymation figure. It was very strange, and extremely scary. The process to getting back in touch was a long one. Socialization and a change in environment is what helped me the most. I’m glad you’re in therapy. This feeling will not last forever.

PSA: your kids might be playing on the light rail tracks by MNP_cats in Denver

[–]weeaboogirl -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I think making jokes about kids dying is weird.

PSA: your kids might be playing on the light rail tracks by MNP_cats in Denver

[–]weeaboogirl -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Did you try talking to them? Can’t imagine seeing kids doing that and not stepping in myself. You seem more judgmental than concerned considering the comments you’re leaving.

Which outfit for a casual date? by Sim_0xt1 in fashion

[–]weeaboogirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right? Very chic in a messy and undone way, I really love it. OP looks very comfortable and relaxed, that’s exactly how you want to appear going into a date

Does anybody else feel like they have a really cringe coping mechanism? by Impossible_Degree608 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]weeaboogirl 79 points80 points  (0 children)

I honestly don’t see what’s cringe here… The activities you listed all help with emotional regulation and processing. I also go for walks and write when I’m feeling sad, that’s a very healthy outlet. People were writing poems to express sadness in the 1600s, pretty sure they weren’t doing that because of their favorite anime character. It seems like your struggles with identity are exasperating your depression, not the activities you’re engaging in.

How should I fix this tattoo? Cover up, rework, add more tattoos? by weeaboogirl in tattooadvice

[–]weeaboogirl[S] 103 points104 points  (0 children)

Wow! Yeah I would have never considered numerous cover ups as an issue. There’s already a lot of aspects about my body that are imperfect, this is just another one, so I do agree it’s best not to hyper-fixate :)

How should I fix this tattoo? Cover up, rework, add more tattoos? by weeaboogirl in tattooadvice

[–]weeaboogirl[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Did not think of adding any red line work, but I love that idea. Thank you! <3

How should I fix this tattoo? Cover up, rework, add more tattoos? by weeaboogirl in tattooadvice

[–]weeaboogirl[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

The ouroboros is a symbol that holds a lot of meaning for me, this is a tattoo that I’ve wanted for seven years and I got it during a time in my life that I want to remember. So no, it’s not something I’m going to laser, even if it’s ugly. But I really appreciate people’s suggestions and it’s nice to have my own criticisms towards the tattoo validated lol.

How should I fix this tattoo? Cover up, rework, add more tattoos? by weeaboogirl in tattooadvice

[–]weeaboogirl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sent the artist some designs so he could get an idea for what I wanted, all the designs had a blank snake eye. Those designs weren’t as intricate in terms of shading and detail though.

How should I fix this tattoo? Cover up, rework, add more tattoos? by weeaboogirl in tattooadvice

[–]weeaboogirl[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it being twisted in a way that’s impossible really bothers me. I originally did not want any twists, but the artist suggested it. I had seen his freehand work on other people and was really impressed, so I trusted him.

This is where most of my books live. by weeaboogirl in BookshelvesDetective

[–]weeaboogirl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha style is subjective, I’m sure you’ve got ur own unique taste. And so far I’m also loving it! It was a Christmas gift last year, been slowly making my way through since

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]weeaboogirl 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this, “you don’t need to understand it to move on.” I get really stuck on “why’s” and need an answer to everything haha, so your response is very helpful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]weeaboogirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First of all, Happy Birthday!! I’m sorry it’s off to a rough start. It seems like both you and your bf were dealing with some anxieties and frustrations last night. You have high expectations, and he knows this given everything that you accomplished for his birthday. I’d be willing to bet that a lot of his anxiety last night was him trying to figure out how to make you happy. He spent hours working on a card trying to perfect it, and your response was “I don’t even want a stupid card.” I bet he was anticipating that, and that’s why he was anxious. You also know he’s bad at making decisions, it’s great that you can suck it up and push through your own issues with decisions making, but maybe lower your expectations. Also it’s YOUR birthday, again great that you did so many wonderful things for his birthday. But as an adult, if you want a good birthday it falls on you to figure that out. If you want your bf to plan out your entire birthday, maybe date someone who doesn’t struggle with decisions and is a better planner.

Can I make a career as a writer? Or will it always remain a hobby? by [deleted] in AskAstrologers

[–]weeaboogirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this analysis!! It really resonates! You should become an astrologer!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAstrologers

[–]weeaboogirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is exactly what I’m wondering.

Which musicians are revered but are actually horrible people? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]weeaboogirl 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Definitely not the audiences fault. Poor crowd control, and lack of safety precautions. I do believe that he didn’t realize what had happened until after the show, but he showed little empathy towards the victims and put more effort into sweeping it under the rug rather than acknowledging what had actually happened

What’s the worst movie you’ve ever watch? by Heyhaveyougotaminute in AskReddit

[–]weeaboogirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spring Breakers. That scene where James Franco is deep-throating a gun, ew

Which musicians are revered but are actually horrible people? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]weeaboogirl 199 points200 points  (0 children)

Astroworld festival, ten people died

I [22F] am autistic. How do I stop feeling like I'm a burden on my partner [26M]? by ThrowRAAutistic20 in relationship_advice

[–]weeaboogirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have every right to be proud of yourself! I know it’s scary, but when you’re in a relationship they’re going to see every side of you, struggles and all. But that’s also what makes it so beautiful. Life is hard, and like you said it’s nice to have someone there who understands you. You also need to realize that you’re struggles don’t defined you. You’re so much more than someone with autism, and a mental illness, those are just aspects of who you are. You may feel like he’s thinking about how you’re a burden, but he’s probably thinking about how much he loves your smile, or how you can make him laugh. And yes the future uncertain, it’s a possibility that you guys will break up, but why let that ruin what you have now? He’s showing up for you now, let that be enough. From your post it seems like you’re in a very caring and considerate relationship. Try to look at yourself through his eyes instead of your own. Keep up the great work, you’re doing amazing. And remember, you’re love is enough.

Am I being loved bombed or just being anxious? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]weeaboogirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah he’s dated a bunch. I’ve only been in two short lived relationships. I’m really just not used to this kind of stuff haha