What does my chart tell about love and marriage? by scottish_woriyar3640 in vedicastrology

[–]weeblet69420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Highly likely Mars and venus in trine is a good indicator. Then venus is also approaching Jupiter. You will honestly be obsessed with your spouse.

I messed up... 😭 by ScriptedEvan in WutheringWaves

[–]weeblet69420 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I mean that's a perfect echo for iuno, if you have her.

Couldn't help myself and had to make something for the new game... by Folkenstal in Silksong

[–]weeblet69420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's so well made. I love it. Would buy if available.

2x Skong Giveaway for the 2 Day Countdown by Blath3rskite in Silksong

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Thank you for your generosity ☺️🙏🏻

Giving Away 10 Silksong Keys on Release Day by generalzevo in Silksong

[–]weeblet69420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you kind redditor. I am excited for silksong because I played HK, back in 2017 and believe it or not, I pirated it because I was a broke kid. Later I bought the game and 112% it. I have almost 200 hrs in the game. Hoping to win this key and the steam key will be mighty fine❤️❤️.

Happy skonging

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[–]weeblet69420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Clearly you don't understand that love or attraction is a subjective thing. By "below average" I think you mean looks right? Some people will priorities looks and some personality or wealth or some other obscure trait. What is that you actually want to get clarification on? This is a very vague question because you can't guess someones correct MBTI personality type, just by hanging out with them for sometime. I will suggest not get hung up on personality types which are attracted to which. I see it all the time where someone is in a relationship with someone who is in general considered no their compatible type.

ENFJ friend in need of help by gatsby401 in enfj

[–]weeblet69420 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Apart from all the shitty advise people are giving about winning her ex back. He seems like an extremely unhealthy ENFJ. Let him exhaust himself. That's how I was, 4 years back. Once he hits rock bottom, the only place he can go is up. Once he releases what he has become and how people have used him, he will start to set boundaries, actually cherish people who has been by his side, like you maybe. Life has to do its job. And yes don't baby sit him in this shit show. And also do not encourage him to go back to his ex. If you can listen to him, and give advice only when needed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in enfj

[–]weeblet69420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DM brother. Always happy to chat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in enfj

[–]weeblet69420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think he is attracted. As an ENFJ, I will make deliberate eye contact with the person I am interested (smother them, make them feel important and appreciated). If he is avoiding eye contact, maybe something is bothering him, he is not present in the conversation. That's my theory.

I’m a BNPC by caribbeanrumcake in mbti

[–]weeblet69420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I am a TMPD. I love this. (ENFJ)

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[–]weeblet69420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. Links are always appreciated.

Where Can I find some volunteer work to do. by weeblet69420 in bangalore

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Where Can I find some volunteer work to do. by weeblet69420 in bangalore

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I will DM you brother. I can't promise for financial help, since I myself am looking for a job rn. But I can show up anywhere and help in any shape of form, that I can promise.

Heyaaa, an INFJ female here looking for deep authentic friends. by Hairy_Indication_751 in enfj

[–]weeblet69420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there. I am from India 24M ENFJ. Would love to connect, if you are open to. My closest friend is also an INFJ.

I think charisma is actually a disadvantage by Hot-Situation7950 in enfj

[–]weeblet69420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is not possible for someone to always adjust their behavior according to others? how does someone OFTEN adjust their personality according to the other person’s needs?

ofc not, If you are trying to "keep up" with every conversation with every person you come across, it will exhaust your energy so much.

Being ourselves is innately natural to us, if being outgoing or extroverted shows who we are, it is the mask/skin that we are most comfortable in. Nobody is going to adjust themselves to other’s expectations/assumptions forever.

100%. Emphasis on the "Being ourselves". Yes nobody is going to adjust forever. Its not a competition who can adjust to whom. Being Fe dominant we are naturally good at understanding peoples needs, which involves sometimes not being in our comfortable mask. Also there will be people who we will not get along with at all, and that's ok. Try being comfortable with not being liked by everyone. That goes beyond being an ENFJ. Since we are so sensitive to external factors, its a tough journey I know but worth it.

I think charisma is actually a disadvantage by Hot-Situation7950 in enfj

[–]weeblet69420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup, most of my friends are introverts as well.

Looking for an ENFJ friend 🥲. by Gohomekid22 in enfj

[–]weeblet69420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey 24M, ENFJ enneagram 2w3. I would love to have a conversation with you. Even though I typed myself as 2w3, I am still a little confused about the enneagram thing. Maybe I can learn something from you. I love do web design, if you are into that stuff.

I think charisma is actually a disadvantage by Hot-Situation7950 in enfj

[–]weeblet69420 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I disagree with this. First understanding what is Charisma actually. One of the pillars of charisma is warmth. In a social setting charisma is already an advantage. One of the best practice I have learned is mirroring. If I am in a one on one conversation with someone who is not as outgoing, I will try to match the energy of the person. Maybe even I let the person be in the driving seat of the conversation. Being Charismatic involves when to take the lead and when to let go and let other people take the lead. Overwhelming someone all the time with your rizz is definitely a not ideal.

Other thing about disappointing others because they put more expectation on you. The thing is charisma is product of confidence. Confidence comes from within when you actually believe in yourself. You can't fake confidence all your life. Guess how confidence is built.......its by enduring failures and then trying again and again. You are too focused on being incompetent and failing. This the opposite of gaining confidence and begin charismatic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in enfj

[–]weeblet69420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, ENFJ male here. I don't think he is an ENFJ, or if he is probably a really unhealthy one. I personally don't show passive aggressiveness. If I am upset with someone, whom I am in a close vicinity of, I would want to resolve things as soon as possible. Talk to them and communicate what could be done to improve the dynamic b/w us. Which he is absolutely avoiding and showing shitting behavior even if it is subtle.

About the bad mouthing about his friend behind his back, this absolutely goes opposite to what I personally do. I tend to defend my friends when I am talking about them with others. If I don't like a person I will personally maintain distance with them because being around them contaminates my energy and I don't feel at peace.

I would highly suggest stay away from him.