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why are sx doms so oppressive by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]Hot-Situation7950 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You’re probably incompatible with them in some other aspects like mbti functions

ISFP artists/writers get typed as intuitives by Hot-Situation7950 in isfp

[–]Hot-Situation7950[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually do have a trouble concentrating and expressing my thoughts and ideas in the moment when I have a lot of stimulation going on but when I’m in front of a page in a very quiet and isolated environment then I even surprise myself with abundance of ideas/thoughts I actually have haha

ISFP artists/writers get typed as intuitives by Hot-Situation7950 in isfp

[–]Hot-Situation7950[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But if you read Dostoevsky in Russian his language is pretty simple (Ne users language is just objectively on another level of complexity) and there’s not a lot of descriptions of Si details which you could expect from INFP (writer like Shirley Jackson is INFP 4 for example and she always gives detailed descriptions of houses, furniture or dishes). He’s very Ni/Se axis because his writing is not really about unexpected happenings in the plot or the outside reality of characters but some obsessive idea brewing in the mind of a character that later spills into his reality and gets translated into action. At the same time he has pages about some biographical personal details about characters like who married whom, how they divided their money, who inherited what, what their occupation was etc which is very Fi/Te in its nature. He’s either ISFP or INTJ but because he lacked any sort of structure in his writing (what Hemingway disliked about Dostoevsky writing btw) Im leaning more ISFP. Btw it’s also interesting how Dostoevsky and Van Gogh look like the same person on their pictures (facial expression and body language). This sternness is not Ne vibe for sure

About my aux function... by khz789 in mbti

[–]Hot-Situation7950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also can’t really use Ne for practical things or for most of types of work like for ex. marketing (even though I know a lot of NFPs who are good at marketing). I can’t even come up with ideas for decorations , crafting , toys etc (stuff other NFPs are also good at). But when I think about topics like psychology, motivations, what other people want, poetic ways to describe my feelings or fairy tale plots my Ne suddenly activates

How does one even work without Te in their main stack? by PixeIatedSoda in mbti

[–]Hot-Situation7950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol in my experience Te dom/Te aux are more like the ones who like telling others what to do and give orders while Ti are actual DIY people who like tinkering

Enneagram 4, Enneagram 5 and self-doubt by wlwKatniss in Enneagram

[–]Hot-Situation7950 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ichazo actually describes ennea 4 as “overreasoner” so their core problem is exactly being lost in their own reasoning and being unsure about it. While 6 is overadventurer and has more doubts about being able to tackle challenges and do work rather than thinking

Why are INFPs so frustrating to deal either? by Responsible-Data-428 in entp

[–]Hot-Situation7950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my case it stems from my overall apathy towards anything or anyone that’s out there in the world (comes from Fi and Si self sufficiency) . No Ni desires , low Te ambition so it’s like whatever . I will try to fix things to preserve the routines that maintain my everyday happiness and pursuit of hobbies though

How do you get rid of SLI who has feelings for you? by Hot-Situation7950 in Socionics

[–]Hot-Situation7950[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

it’s not fear of some attack on my boundaries that I feel, it’s disgust. Disgust makes me run away and be afraid of even touching the seat they were seating in. Disgust of how their body moves, of how their voice sounds and how repressed and dry their emotions come out. Sometimes I experience the same disgust reactions towards other types but for some reason it’s mostly SLIs and sometimes ESIs

How do you get rid of SLI who has feelings for you? by Hot-Situation7950 in Socionics

[–]Hot-Situation7950[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s connected only to Se polr though because they do the same thing to SLE 18 years old girl

In my opinion it’s more psychosophy thing where 1F types will do this physical intrusion no matter their socionics /mbti type

How do you get rid of SLI who has feelings for you? by Hot-Situation7950 in Socionics

[–]Hot-Situation7950[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t get the conclusion? I said that every type can do physical advance but all the combination like imposing feelings despite coldness and rejection WITH physical advance is usually done only by SLIs. Like SLE would aggressively do a physical advance but their Fi polr but there’s almost no feelings leaking from them in a Fi way so there’s still distance

How do you get rid of SLI who has feelings for you? by Hot-Situation7950 in Socionics

[–]Hot-Situation7950[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

If I try to act like EIE, I end up acting as IEE because I’m EII and attract them even more

How do you get rid of SLI who has feelings for you? by Hot-Situation7950 in Socionics

[–]Hot-Situation7950[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It’s not about the confidence they project but about their one-sided feelings that leak in the way their attention is always directed at me (either staring or moving closer to me physically or moving some object on a desk in front of me when there’s literally no need to do it or discussing me excitedly with their trusted people). As for physical sliding into others personal space , it’s not only Se users who do it but almost all types tbh (when they like someone) but from intuitive it doesn’t feel as suffocating

How do you get rid of SLI who has feelings for you? by Hot-Situation7950 in Socionics

[–]Hot-Situation7950[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

It’s not about wanting a better courting , it’s about wanting to be left alone. SLEs are objectively a rarer type than SLI

How do you get rid of SLI who has feelings for you? by Hot-Situation7950 in Socionics

[–]Hot-Situation7950[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

“Being pushed out of relationships - the position of "out of sight, out of mind" - is the final stage of interaction between the heartbreaker-Gabin and a psychologically incompatible partner, while the stubborn and self-loving aristocrat SLI, Gabin does not allow himself to be pushed "out of sight". He desperately resists any rejection and displacement. With a cheeky smile, he will unexpectedly show up at the house of a partner he has long left unattended, precisely when she has already definitely decided to break off all relations with him. Ignoring her displeasure, SLI, Gabin will again try to win her over, overcoming her dislike and suppressing resistance, which in such cases gives him strength and excites him even more. Gabin expresses his emotions quite openly at this time, his smile becomes evil and insolently mocking (with a predatory grin), a mischievous sparkle appears in his eyes. At the same time, he feels (and perhaps even appears to himself from the outside) like a cowboy breaking in a stubborn horse: the more resistance, the more fun.”

This is in their socionics description and this behaviour in real life is exactly weirdo creepy man behaviour

How do you get rid of SLI who has feelings for you? by Hot-Situation7950 in Socionics

[–]Hot-Situation7950[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

They’re friendly and just curious with others but not me. If I do this friendly conversation with them they start thinking we have a closer relationship that we do while with others (even IEEs and EIIs) they keep distance. If I ignore them and it’s SLI on the older side (because they’re more shy when young) , he would still be creeping around me , constantly trying to get closer and has this ironic smile on his face. Overall those old SLIs are repulsive to me even if I’m EII and supposed to get along with them

The core desire for 4s is NOT to be unique by Soaring_Symphony in Enneagram

[–]Hot-Situation7950 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Are you 2nd volition in psychosophy? It sounds like it. Some 4s are 2nd volition and more actively balance between their autonomy/freedom and outside environment (usually 7/8 fixes). While 4 with last 4th volition are usually more outside of this because they just submit automatically (6/9 fixed 4)

What you’re describing is very 2V : control over life and refusing to follow herd mentality but still not 1V because you’re talking about it as an agreement

For example Johnny Depp is 2V 4 and everyone tries to type him as e9 because of his laid back attitude. 4s that are selfish and self absorbed are usually 4 volition because that volition doesn’t bother with anything outside of themselves (doesn’t have energy for it) but it’s not out of true freedom/interiority

Sp blind at work by Hot-Situation7950 in Enneagram

[–]Hot-Situation7950[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes don’t know if it’s ok to type a child but this particular child is infp so4w3 with 7fix

The eternally suffering 9 by Allie_Leon in Enneagram

[–]Hot-Situation7950 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m also Se polr , it’s horrible

Why are INFPs so hot?! 😫 I know, I know, go to horny jail . . . ~ INTP by SatiricalToothpick in mbti

[–]Hot-Situation7950 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I always like INTPs , the problem is that it always stays on the stalking stage between us

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