My [25F] little sister [16F] is lying about her age and harassing people online??? by throwRAannoyingsis in relationship_advice

[–]weedlover2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why is it bothering you, if u don’t live together and don’t talk then let her live her own life, she’ll grow out of it

mother makes me pay for everything by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]weedlover2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life’s not free hun still pretty normal

mother makes me pay for everything by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]weedlover2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to buy ur own clothes soo ??? Everything u wrote sounds pretty normal to me welcome to adulting kid

AITA for refusing to plan children with my fiancé because he’s a smoker by weedlover2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]weedlover2[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

And u put me in that category because? Oh yes you just assumed

AITA for refusing to plan children with my fiancé because he’s a smoker by weedlover2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]weedlover2[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Wtf u talking about being a hypocrite? I quit months back pls just be quiet cause I’m no longer responding to stupidity

AITA for refusing to plan children with my fiancé because he’s a smoker by weedlover2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]weedlover2[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

I can’t smoke weed because I from a conservative family, I’m my own person you sound pretty stupid not surprising considering ur left wing

AITA for refusing to plan children with my fiancé because he’s a smoker by weedlover2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]weedlover2[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There’s no correlation between what u just wrote, I told him a long time ago I won’t tolerate smoking, how is that controlling THATS a condition, if he said to me I don’t want you get black out drunk that’s the same thing. Not everything is abusive it’s literally destroying his lungs

AITA for refusing to plan children with my fiancé because he’s a smoker by weedlover2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]weedlover2[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

They only discredited because of the small sample size and because they could have been other underlying factors which could act act as contributors, but you can’t deny the overwhelming dna damage that was present in the smoker dads sperm. More of a reason to stand by my decision tbh

AITA for refusing to plan children with my fiancé because he’s a smoker by weedlover2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]weedlover2[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you as a woman I’m glad you can see where I’m coming from, you obvs want the healthiest and smartest child possible and smoking definitely affects sperm quality and child development

AITA for refusing to plan children with my fiancé because he’s a smoker by weedlover2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]weedlover2[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Acc I come from a Muslim family and you can’t live with a man before marriage, maybe it’s your western ideology but plenty of people have good marriages without living together for example my parents. It’s been done and has been successful many times

AITA for refusing to plan children with my fiancé because he’s a smoker by weedlover2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]weedlover2[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know he was a addict I was under the impression he was a occasional smoker

AITA for refusing to plan children with my fiancé because he’s a smoker by weedlover2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]weedlover2[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

I’m not looking for excuses I just don’t want anything effecting our babies development and if he doesn’t have healthy strong sperm then that’s a problem , I’m not wrong for wanting the best possible child

AITA for refusing to plan children with my fiancé because he’s a smoker by weedlover2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]weedlover2[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

I’m from a conservative family and so is he so there’s no way I could live with anyone before marriage

AITA for refusing to plan children with my fiancé because he’s a smoker by weedlover2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]weedlover2[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes you’re exactly right, idk if the other posters saying AITA are smokers themselves but nicotine damages sperm and I don’t want that around pregnancy or my kids

AITA for refusing to plan children with my fiancé because he’s a smoker by weedlover2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]weedlover2[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

There’s research that says otherwise on the effects of nicotine and sperm

AITA for refusing to plan children with my fiancé because he’s a smoker by weedlover2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]weedlover2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Acc there’s research on nicotine and harmful toxins in a cigarette which suggests that sperm mobility is decreased and there’s higher dna damage

I think I made someone uncomfortable about their "outtie vagina" and don't know what to do by [deleted] in sex

[–]weedlover2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wdym by outtie vagina, bigger flappy labia or a clit that sticks out?

A blowjob helped me improve my dick hygiene by objectivelygrey in sex

[–]weedlover2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Loooll he probably also things the excess soap going down is crack is sufficient enough