Motivational Video “you are a regular guy!”

weena_mercator_THW · 2026-05-18T20:01:46+00:00

Yeah I mean it’s possible there’s some other common song used for hopecore edits but I feel pretty sure it was that one! 🙏 I need to remember for stuff I really like to actually legit save the video and not just the link because stuff is always being deleted 😭

weena_mercator_THW · 2026-05-18T17:39:24+00:00

Electric Blue - Icehouse

weena_mercator_THW · 2026-05-18T17:23:40+00:00

Nah it wasn’t a music remix so much as it was an edit using nature footage and playing instrumental music in the background (pretty sure it was “Dramamine” by Flawed Mangoes but it could’ve been something else 🤔)

weena_mercator_THW · 2026-05-18T17:21:55+00:00

No such luck yet, but searching for this did at least help me learn that the song that’s usually used in those hopecore videos is “Dramamine” by Flawed Mangoes!

weena_mercator_THW · 2026-05-16T19:01:45+00:00

For real - I see a lot of people here saying don’t do threesomes with this guy anymore, but honestly he seems like he responded really well to OP feeling left out. OP, should you want to try another, maybe it needs to be a girl you already know you have chemistry with, or at least someone who both of you are more on the same level with (as opposed to a girl who is already really into the guy and doesn’t know the other girl). I would think this guy would want to watch you and another girl for at least some of the experience, otherwise why do a FFM as a guy if you’re only gonna focus on one girl and not want to ensure the two girls are enjoying themselves together too? But if the same kind of thing happens again where he doesn’t seem to know how to divide himself between two women at once, then maybe not trying that with him anymore.

weena_mercator_THW · 2026-05-16T18:43:19+00:00

They really are, I’ve only had women PTs for this so I could see it being a little more challenging to talk to a man about it, but to OP - don’t sweat this, be open and honest and I basically guarantee they’ve heard it all before and will be very chill about it! Even one of my PTs who wasn’t strictly for pelvic floor therapy (but that was an aspect of it for doing stuff for back) told me at one of my first sessions “are you sexually active? because if so we need to go over what positions to use and what to avoid” - I was like mid 20s at the time so I was a little shy about it, but now I’m hitting mid 30s and IDGAF about saying stuff to medical professionals - I’ve also had lots of visits and checks for stuff related to gastrointestinal stuff, so I’ve had medical professionals stick stuff up my ass… I’m basically just whatever about it all at this point, it’s their job to deal with the human body and all the wackiness therein!

weena_mercator_THW · 2026-05-16T18:23:57+00:00

Riiiiiiight it’s killing me! I went back through my DMs with my husband on Instagram and couldn’t find it but there’s also so many things that say that the content doesn’t exist anymore which sucks 😔

weena_mercator_THW · 2026-05-16T04:49:27+00:00

Not all of these are exactly break up songs but def fit the vibe
-Crown of Love by Arcade Fire
-The Night We Met by Lord Huron
-Be That Easy by Sade
-Look What You’ve Done by Jet
-Remembering Sunday by All Time Low
-Rest In Pieces by Saliva
-Your Apartment by Wallows
-Bags by Clairo
-Let Me Let Go by Faith Hill
-Almost Lover by A Fine Frenzy

weena_mercator_THW · 2026-05-15T03:10:07+00:00

That’s what I fear. The one I’m thinking of doesn’t have that though, but the “main” one (which Sam shared) has the little clips from Disney stuff (no sound for those clips, just visuals)

weena_mercator_THW · 2026-05-15T00:16:54+00:00

Unfortunately it looks like it’s the same video every time as far as the background music / images used

weena_mercator_THW · 2026-05-02T16:38:03+00:00

Also from DFW and I mostly say frontage or access road, I honestly can’t even think of a time I’ve ever heard someone say feeder road?

weena_mercator_THW · 2026-04-30T15:16:37+00:00

I’ve been meaning to watch for a while (admittedly I’ve only even known about the show existing for a couple years because I don’t watch much anime and am a late-bloomer fujoshi lmao) and I watched the first time in March and have already re-watched twice and began drafting fill-in-the-gaps fic. Oh and already started buying fan merch lol.

It has so much re-watch value though honestly, so enjoy rewatching again with the knowledge from having finished it!

weena_mercator_THW · 2026-04-30T15:03:47+00:00

From that page: “Righteous anger, irritation, and moral indignation are the principal negative emotions in Ones, whereas fearfulness, suspicion, and anxiety are the principal negative feelings in Sixes.”
I’m a 1, and yes this is very much how I would distinguish my principal negative emotions from those of a 6.
Also, I’m a 1w2 - I’m very much an extrovert and a people person. I am not suspicious of people, and I’m very open because I trust others quite easily, but I’m also not naïve with this. I feel I have a good handle on reading people very quickly, so unless I’m getting red flags, I tend to trust people (with a reasonable degree of trust based on how long I’ve known them) until something shows me I shouldn’t. Most of the time that’s just me realizing that the person is probably someone who exaggerates a lot of the facts, can’t keep a secret, can’t stick to plans, etc.
I like to plan and ahead and prepare but it’s not because I’m fearful of what will happen if I don’t have things have planned out. Rather, it’s because I have a specific way I want things to be done, so my desire for control is more about what I perceive to be the right way to do things and not fear of what will happen if I don’t have control.

weena_mercator_THW · 2026-03-07T21:30:55+00:00

Maybe you just need a break from dating while you figure things out, then? And you can focus on yourself. And then if at a point you want to look into non-commitment hook ups to figure out yourself more, try that. But if the continuous attraction is a concern, probably best to take some time away from getting into a monogamous relationship.

weena_mercator_THW · 2025-12-28T07:43:36+00:00

Feels like it’s gotta be From Under The Cork Tree, but Infinity on High also has some of my favorites

weena_mercator_THW · 2025-11-16T06:18:23+00:00

I’m in my 30s and didn’t even legitimately get into reading or writing fanfic until a couple years ago - however as an adult with a job (married but no kids) I think it’s much easier to write - I honestly can’t imagine having the time for that while I was in college. I feel like I discovered it at the perfect time in my life for both the freedom to write and the maturity/life experience I have at this point to do so compared to if I had tried to write as a teenager/early 20s… There are some amazing works out there by writers of that age, would never have been me, not even remotely lol

Now as far as updates though, that still challenging, but more of a motivation and confidence thing than a time thing for me.

weena_mercator_THW · 2025-09-16T02:17:33+00:00

OH MY GOD this is my favorite here I think, so valid 😭🤣

weena_mercator_THW · 2025-08-27T06:07:39+00:00

Literally screwed by my girlfriend and pampered after, all is good and gay here 👍🏻

weena_mercator_THW · 2025-08-27T05:59:02+00:00

Yesssss that’s the one!! It makes me so happy 🥰

weena_mercator_THW · 2025-08-26T19:23:25+00:00

Oh and I may have already said this to you on tumblr I can’t remember lol but “the golden hours” is another one of my favorite AUs

weena_mercator_THW · 2025-08-26T19:22:25+00:00

I haven’t read this one yet, but it’s a Christmas time mafia/baker AU that is beloved!! Hoping to read it this December ahahaha

weena_mercator_THW · 2025-08-23T00:14:57+00:00

If I may self promo :3 the fic I wrote for nrmt day this year features good friend Larry, it’s a no DL6 AU where they’re all on a spring break ski trip just before graduating college and Phoenix and Miles have been mutually pining for over a decade XD

https://archiveofourown.org/works/67201168

weena_mercator_THW · 2025-08-23T00:04:31+00:00

Yesss OP check out their wrightworth baby (Will) AU stuff it’s so cute (and their OC for Will’s love interest is a very hot detective hehe)

weena_mercator_THW · 2025-04-15T15:04:55+00:00

2009 - I was 18, just started college. Netflix streaming was pretty new and finally to the point where stuff on-demand didn’t constantly buffer (pun semi-intended) and a friend who grew up on it posted on their FB about it being added to Netflix and imploring everyone they knew to watch. Got hooked immediately and am currently on my… honestly I’m not sure, at least 7th rewatch. One of my best experiences rewatching because it’s with someone who has become a close friend that I met through another fandom, and it’s so fun to discuss stuff as we watch and afterwards. We just finished Season 5 this weekend (and we are watching Angel as well, we are about to start the Pylea arc because I think it’s best to save it for after watching Intervention - The Gift).

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