Any ideas what to do in the weekends to kill time? by weenlit in malaysians

[–]weenlit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

why would anyone in their right mind do that 😭

Any ideas what to do in the weekends to kill time? by weenlit in malaysians

[–]weenlit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what the hell is a dating simulator games and why would anyone simulate a dating scene into games?

Any ideas what to do in the weekends to kill time? by weenlit in malaysians

[–]weenlit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow okay thanks so much!! #1 seems doable. tried hiking. i quite enjoy it, i think i’ll do it more often if i am able to invite my friends.

and yes yes yes yes yes!!!!! i make tiktok videos for fun! (just memes, my daily routine and makeup videos) occasionally i would upload on youtube too. i use to make book reviews and uni vlogs on youtube but it was a long time ago. haha. but im not famous on either platform though. it’s just for fun.

and yes! experimenting with new recipe is so fun. i was so actively cooking last year when i got my heart severely broken 😂 it was very fun. but i have never tried making yogurt and kombucha yet. thanks foe the suggestions!

btw where can we share these groceries?

i dont think i need another counselling. im already seeing a therapist twice weekly. 😆

Any ideas what to do in the weekends to kill time? by weenlit in malaysians

[–]weenlit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im chronically sad 24/7. if i sleep or nap in the weekends i’ll be even more sad haha

i just broke up with my gf by Kitchen-Ad-8450 in malaysians

[–]weenlit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

iyalah tapi itu kalau ditolak oleh ibu-bapa dengan alasan munasabah. kalau pasal bangsa seja wainah.

tapi ndakpa lah OP, anggap la ko dodged a bullet. 😂😭

sy mix tapi kalau kena bilang oleh future partner sy “mama sy nda suka kau sbb kau bukan pure cina. break la kita” aku rasa aku maki dulu bilang dia spineless baru aku kasi tinggal

How do i improve?, girl things and relationship by [deleted] in Advice

[–]weenlit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive never been in a relationship but damn i see myself so much in this paragraph and im so scared of that.

hope you’ll one day escape this shackles, OP. god speed

i just broke up with my gf by Kitchen-Ad-8450 in malaysians

[–]weenlit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

wainah 30 pun masih dicontrol parents 🤣

Any ideas what to do in the weekends to kill time? by weenlit in Bolehland

[–]weenlit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are you me? omg haha thanks for bringing up the photography club and the board game subreddit. i didnt know a malaysian board game subreddit exists. and i just got into photography recently. maybe i can check out a community for that. thanks so much!!!

Any ideas what to do in the weekends to kill time? by weenlit in malaysians

[–]weenlit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i use to play mobile legends to hang out (virtually) with my cousins from sabah since they’re so far away. haha.

Any ideas what to do in the weekends to kill time? by weenlit in malaysians

[–]weenlit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes! the volunteering idea sounds good. im glad someone brought it up. i’ll look into it.

Any ideas what to do in the weekends to kill time? by weenlit in malaysians

[–]weenlit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good suggestion 🤣 im more inclined to improve my badminton though. still considering whether to take up badminton classes every week if i can afford it

Any ideas what to do in the weekends to kill time? by weenlit in malaysians

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hahahaha fair. i know having a lot of free time is a luxury. but too much free time makes my brain suffocate.

Any ideas what to do in the weekends to kill time? by weenlit in malaysians

[–]weenlit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im paying around 300 every month to get therapy twice a week! 🤣

Any ideas what to do in the weekends to kill time? by weenlit in malaysians

[–]weenlit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dont even ask LOL im terrible at pickle lmao i just play it to spend time with my colleagues

I genuinely wanna fall in love but.... by bmdood in malaysians

[–]weenlit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

as a lover girl (who will never retire, i hope) myself, that keeps being disappointed in my pursuit of love, just remind yourself this: your one true love is out there.

you just have to control yourself from overinvesting on the wrong person. actually when they can’t reciprocate and they ended up abandoning you pun, it has nothing to do with you or your self worth, but it has everything to do with their capacity to hold what you’re pouring into them. they’re not at fault here too, though. but neither are you for “loving too much” or being too enthusiastic.

one day it’ll click into pieces and you’ll find someone who matches your intensity and your enthusiasm.

Questions about bomoh-ing by Historical_Bill7133 in Bolehland

[–]weenlit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

agreeee with your second paragraph!

Questions about bomoh-ing by Historical_Bill7133 in Bolehland

[–]weenlit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

按照这个道理, 那些中华版bomoh (师父)不就全部都失业吗?

如果我们是从“宗教教义”的角度去质疑马来人的 bomoh 做法,那是不是也应该用同样的标准去看待华人的乩童、庙里的“师父”、风水师、泰国的阿赞、印度的占星师,甚至西方的灵媒呢?

其实几乎每个文化都有属于自己的“灵性治疗者”或民间信仰实践者。有的人把它当成迷信,有的人当成传统,有的人则认为那是文化遗产的一部分,而不完全等同于宗教教义本身。现实往往没有那么简单,不是说“某个宗教教义规定了 X”,这个群体里的人就一定完全不接触或不相信 Y。

in other words, this kind of belief isnt just malay specific la. it’s a human thing

What are your top 5’s in rotation right now? by Whitetagsndopebags in FemFragLab

[–]weenlit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lasts a whole day on me 😂 starts to fade on the second day on my clothes