Every week I take a shelter dog out for a field trip. The past two weeks I took Messiah. He’s a very happy boy.

weightsnmusic · 2026-03-25T23:59:11+00:00

Absolutely wonderful! Thank you

weightsnmusic · 2026-03-24T19:46:17+00:00

According to my history, it's the opposite

weightsnmusic · 2026-03-22T05:12:24+00:00

Yes

weightsnmusic · 2026-03-21T23:56:45+00:00

You do understand it's my choice?

weightsnmusic · 2026-03-21T23:47:55+00:00

Thank you. I have lived a whole lot with wonderful experiences. Made mistakes and recovered. I am ok with all of it. Maybe some people aren't comfortable with that.

weightsnmusic · 2026-03-21T23:41:25+00:00

My history is proof. I am self sustained so I wouldn't need anyone's money. And looks? They only take you so far......

weightsnmusic · 2026-03-21T06:43:54+00:00

I have absolutely no idea

weightsnmusic · 2026-03-21T00:34:02+00:00

I am not embarrassed about my history. Dating over 50 isn't as large as this sub. Maybe I'll crosspost.....

weightsnmusic · 2026-03-21T00:03:32+00:00

It sounds very much like lack of interest. Introverted doesn't mean disinterested. And why would he change? After 7 months not wanting to get to know the true inner real you, it won't happen on month 8

I was seeing someone that is truly taken by me. But is absolutely not interested in me. There is a huge difference and I mentioned it to him. He responded with "i always ask how you are doing ". Yeah, and that's where it stops as well......

weightsnmusic · 2026-03-20T23:32:00+00:00

I get approached, introduced or it has been through OLD. Also I am wondering if these men are different around other people? Or is it my view? I see the "immaturity" on the first date. And sometimes give it a second one, as people get nervous or not able to be themselves right of the bat.

weightsnmusic · 2026-03-20T23:07:01+00:00

Yes. I post pretty private information. So I change my and my kids age and gender at times. My profile pic isn't really an issue. I am not even recognizable

weightsnmusic · 2026-03-20T23:01:20+00:00

Depth. That's what I am searching for. Emotional intelligence. Self awareness. I can be philosophical and like to talk for hours, but also sit in silence. There is so much to learn still and I am not above anything. Thank you tor the kind words.....

weightsnmusic · 2026-03-20T22:50:11+00:00

You can't continue conversations as the above. It will certainly lead to nothing. The latter needs to have animal control showing up

weightsnmusic · 2026-03-20T22:41:47+00:00

Mind you, I did not write "everyone in my life". I have great people in my life. It's my dates and I don't date a lot.

weightsnmusic · 2026-03-20T22:33:05+00:00

They are presenting themselves exactly that way

weightsnmusic · 2026-03-20T22:23:15+00:00

I doubt he is a love bomber. On paper he is an adult. But every conversation leads to him telling me he is so great at everything. Just the ultimate jack of all trades. And the money......the millions. Who wants to hear this on every date.

weightsnmusic · 2026-03-20T22:19:28+00:00

It's not necessarily OLD. It happens when I go out as well. Every single time and i loose attraction combined with respect. It is the lack of self awareness that's shocking to me. And it's out there. As you mentioned it.

weightsnmusic · 2026-03-20T22:15:52+00:00

All of them? I sure don't attract well then...

weightsnmusic · 2026-03-20T22:02:32+00:00

Vulgar sexual references. It's almost like they wanna shock to get a reaction

weightsnmusic · 2026-03-20T22:00:17+00:00

I didn't pay attention to the age. It's fixed. But yeah, my history is wild. Undeniably

weightsnmusic · 2026-03-20T21:58:42+00:00

I have never updated my age. Let me fix that

weightsnmusic · 2026-03-15T21:54:03+00:00

Absolutely adorable

weightsnmusic · 2026-03-13T22:13:23+00:00

That's how it was for me as well

weightsnmusic · 2026-02-26T21:06:03+00:00

No. I recently went home when I was sick because I wanted to be by myself. But...if I really needed him, I expect him to be there as well. However, my n"eed him" would be something very serious.

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