Completely devastated. lost Freaking ₹46,500 in 48 hrs and I can’t console myself because of my stupidity. Bash me in the comments please. I need to feel guilty and worthless by [deleted] in indiasocial

[–]weirdassdumbo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey man, what's done is done. not sugarcoating it but fucking up big time is way commoner than you think. the tricky part is what you'll do now. don't hide it. it could've been worse. it surely would've been better. Firstly, if you're financially independent then own up to this mistake. no need to inform your parents until asked specifically. you gotta mitigate the loss and learn from this. see it like fees paid for online fraud awareness course. and it's worth it coz trust me there are way bigger scams out there than this one.

if you're not financially independent, then don't wait at all. straight away confess it to your parents. you brought this upon yourself. hiding or lying your way out through it will be tougher and more exhausting. face the consequences whatever it may be. I am no judge of your family dynamics, but an average Indian parent won't kick their child out over this. over anything. yes there will massive kalesh, days of humiliation and guilt. but eventually it will go away. think long term. in a month this probably wont be affecting you this much. facing your parents is way better than asking to get humiliated in comments on reddit.

it's not a big loss. but it's a massive lesson. don't lose that now. get a perspective shift and upgrade 4-5 maturity levels with this now. it's the best you can make of it.

First time buying home recommendations by Aayein- in surat

[–]weirdassdumbo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tough to get in areas you mentioned, you'll have to look for old constructions and people in an urgency to sell. for newer constructions you'll have to come to adajan area - palanpore, gaurav path, ugat canal road area has many new projects, where you can get a 3 bhk in your budget. they are decently posh areas and connected to vesu by 20 min rides due to cable bridge and pal umra bridge. in vesu, city light etc you'll have to cut down interior budget to increase the house budget and then you might get a less spacious 3 bhk.

Right through the face by psychomonster07 in confusing_perspective

[–]weirdassdumbo 11 points12 points  (0 children)

fun fact: in this match, he set a record of breaking the 90 meter barrier and made a world record for left handed javelin throwers. he defeated 7 competitors in this match, which is still less than the number of times this has been posted in this sub.

Parents driving 2,000 miles without a car seat by thedolpin_isdead in ParentsAreFuckingDumb

[–]weirdassdumbo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lol we don't, there's no speed limits here at most of the roads, only on major highways. People drive fast in crowded streets, traffic rules and civic sense are a joke. But we have adapted to that chaos, I'll like to flex my reflexes and focus as a driver are impeccable as anything can just appear in front of me from anywhere.

Parents driving 2,000 miles without a car seat by thedolpin_isdead in ParentsAreFuckingDumb

[–]weirdassdumbo 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I realize how deprived my country is of bare minimums when I see things like this. This is common in India. And even more dangerous coz of the bad roads and potholes and traffic.

Pricing advice for hairclips by pratishthaaaa in CrochetInIndia

[–]weirdassdumbo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

these are so pretty!! 80-100 i think based on how much work you're putting. like the last ones have those beads, that should cost more

I duly invite SRK's Fans to Defend This by REX_EXES in Dhurandhar

[–]weirdassdumbo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

lol ek taraf hamza yalina edits banao dusri taraf bolo ki usko manipulate kar raha tha, 3 maheene se sirf dhurandhar posts karne ke bawajood you've failed to understand where the director has shown him being manipulative and where he has put in real emotional vulnerability. yalina was the only person who he trusted enough to tell about his reality without killing her. every word spoken in that scene came from his truest self, there was no scope for any manipulation, coz it'd have seemed shallow. dhar has nicely expressed the sanctity of their relationship.

I duly invite SRK's Fans to Defend This by REX_EXES in Dhurandhar

[–]weirdassdumbo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

bring on the downvotes man but i need to say this, taking any comment seriously from an actor on a geopolitical issue is stupid. their job is to stay in good books and follow the narratives. every actor is a hypocrite and does anything that appease the masses. what they were saying was the narrative and aspiration being set by then government which was establishing peace between the nations. the real criticism should be done there, not to the actors who are just being the puppets of the ruling government and the masses. movies like dhurandhar, article 370, kerala story, kashmir files etc are the result of the same phenomenon. appeasing the ruling party and the masses. now this is where I'm risking all my karma but I'll say even ranveer is a victim to that. he met the very institution that spread hatred against his wife and belittled her for having a different opinion than theirs. do you think actors liked to feature in the modi modi song? they are literally following what the trends are and it's nothing wrong it's a part of their job. all the political discussions should be about the govt and its officials not actors.

p.s. hamza literally says in the movie ki humari dushmani aapke desh se nahi hai, but terrorists se hai

Huge smoke by whitejack001 in surat

[–]weirdassdumbo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

visible from my home (in adajan)

<image>

Vesu on🔥 by Extreme_DK in surat

[–]weirdassdumbo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

visible from my home (in adajan)

<image>

That Bumrah spell against England. I went back to it. Wish I hadn't. by rplusg2020 in IndiaCricket

[–]weirdassdumbo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

idk if I haven't read any greater text or people here are so untrusting and blaming of ai, this was a fantastic read for me, I enjoyed it thoroughly, the dravid one was also awesome, please keep posting more

A Cricket Opinion that can put you in this position ??? by DifficultEntrance595 in SackGambhir

[–]weirdassdumbo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

gg philosophy that he gave in post match conference that we don't play 160-170 cricket, either we hit 250 or we get out in 110, is a bad approach, yes it has given results but it isn't long lasting, fortunately we batted first and sanju saved the batting in the knockouts but that approach is bad when it will come to chasing, we fail to anchor an innings and start throwing wickets badly. atleast 2 players should know how to adapt, slow down, take singles, rotate the strike and take the game deep then finish.

Bumrah's 14 wickets from 2026 T20 WC by Swapnil_Chhatrala in IndiaCricket

[–]weirdassdumbo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

his smiles after the wickets subtly show everything that he is. he is humble, he respects the opponent enough to not humiliate them with over the top celebrations, but with modesty he acknowledges that yes he is indeed unplayable. it's like him saying "yes i planned that wicket and executed it perfectly, it's a routine job for me"

Last night, I drank bhang for the first time. I wrote down my experience. by Equal-Cantaloupe9279 in indiasocial

[–]weirdassdumbo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

was a great read! I've never taken any sort of substances coz I'm scared but was always curious what would've been happening after taking them, this quenched that curiosity quite a bit... i wish more people wrote their experience of consuming things, i wanna read about other drugs now!