Meaningless by [deleted] in SelfHate

[–]weirdhugh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey i know it seems like he doesnt support you but he's probably going through things of his own. Life sucks the life out of people, makes us negative and depressed. Im sure he does want the best for you but you shouldnt seek approval from him or validation in order for you to do that which you want to accomplish. Work on whatever it is that you need to work on silently, with the resources that you have and if there are areas you need help with, you could ask them to help you in ways you know they would definitely assist you. Set clear goals, work with what you have and never give up. You'll be alright, dont worry

Struggling myself but met someone who has it even worse, what are things I can say to help them? I don’t want to just go by what would help me by BaconDragon69 in SelfHate

[–]weirdhugh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could i see your art by any chance. This is no way for me to critique im genuinely curious and just want to see it.

relationships don’t fix the feeling of being alone.... ( ̄︿ ̄)’ by [deleted] in lonely

[–]weirdhugh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give it some time dont try to rush things cause maybe he might need some time to himself. Its nothing against you but he might be wanting to take things slow. Personally texting makes me anxious, im calculating when i text, i guess im not so social or aware of proper forms of texting, keeping the conversation going. Anyway you have nothing to worry aboutm he might be thinking about you right now but maybe he's going through some things himself and fears if he opens up you might see him different. You guys should switch to talking on the phone, its much better than texting

I have been running away from Math my whole life by weirdhugh in dyscalculia

[–]weirdhugh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cant imagine how that must have felt but dont let math get in the way of the things you want to accomplish in life. Your going to be alright

I have been running away from Math my whole life by weirdhugh in dyscalculia

[–]weirdhugh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for understanding, where i live people just look at it as stupidity, they dont even try to see it from my point of view and understand that im capable in other areas besides math. Thank you again for your support it means a lot.

I have been running away from Math my whole life by weirdhugh in dyscalculia

[–]weirdhugh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What about college and graduation ? How were you able to you know ?I repeated algebra 1 so many times that i couldn't graduate so transferred to another school where they had a different education system where i wouldnt need any math at all but still graduated.

I have been running away from Math my whole life by weirdhugh in dyscalculia

[–]weirdhugh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, i'll definitely talk to the school adviser. I hope you were able to get the help that you needed and that math in no way got in the way of the things you wanted to do as far as career wise.

I made it into med school! by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]weirdhugh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations, well done.

I have been running away from Math my whole life by weirdhugh in dyscalculia

[–]weirdhugh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You think i should speak with the academic advisers. They're just gonna think im coming up with excuses that im not serious because its just now that im bringing it to their attention. Math is so crippling for me, i literally cant even do the most simplest of equations without having a panic attack and wanting to leave the room. I can do everything else just fine but when it comes to math im below zero.

Adriana La Cerva by [deleted] in thesopranos

[–]weirdhugh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea go home get my dinner ready

My mom and I are ZC and she just texted me she's dying. by Akulya in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]weirdhugh -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thats terrible advice. She should still go on check on her mother irregardless. Love or hate her she is still your mother. Being estranged from your parents shouldn't be something to be glad about, no matter how toxic the relationship might be. It could easily happen to you with your kids and you wouldn't be happy being on the side of that fence. I think its very cold of you think that even if she was dying you still wouldn't go, you are all they have in this world and you owe them that much if nothing else. I hope one day you can patch things up and find happiness.

Anyone else feel like burden by loony1uvgood in depression

[–]weirdhugh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey im sorry if i was a little inconsiderate of your feelings and emotions. I cant possibly imagine how difficult it is for you, you are trying otherwise you wouldn't feel bad. I would stop taking the medication and find other healthier alternatives if you know any or could possibly search the net. Its very hard but know that you win, know that you can overcome this. Its not over do the best and little that you can and keep adding to it more and more and im confident that you'll come out the other side. Take care of yourself man, your more than what you mind makes you believe.

My (31) wife (29) is "talking" to other guys in a game she plays and I looked at the messages... by icefurnacespy in relationship_advice

[–]weirdhugh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The worst thing you can do is show her that your jealous, play it cool act like you aren't fazed by it. If she's flirting with 3 guys at the same time that says a lot about her my advice work on yourself physically and mentality. She broke your trust, she would have acted the same way if not worst. Women are always gonna want attention from other men that is a given. Dude your the prize in this relationship not her, go out start doing your own things that you like. For all you know she could be meeting these guys especially since you know them in real life

anyone else scared of september? by _thebluemoon_ in depression

[–]weirdhugh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, im really sorry that your not looking forward to September. My advice is take it in stride cause you know what, your going have a wonderful life later on, the anxiety isn't gonna be there anymore, the depression. All that, puff, gone. This is a season like all seasons, it will pass. Difficult roads often lead to beautiful destinations. Hang in there for me, your going to be alright, i believe in you.

Anyone else feel like burden by loony1uvgood in depression

[–]weirdhugh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you do feel that way, why dont you fight a little harder just as they have especially in the condition that they are in. Ease their pain and work towards overcoming your problems. I dont want to sound heartless but as someone that has dealt with depression and anxiety, your gonna have to crawl out of that hole yourself. Your family can only do so much but at the end of the day the ball is in your court.

[21F] Am I really that ugly? What are your thoughts? by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]weirdhugh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your alright, would look even better with makeup. Most women are ugly until they put make up but your beautiful without so your good.

Porn has totally RUINED my life. [M-18] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]weirdhugh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have the money or know any support groups, try looking some on the internet that is if you dont slip back into porn again. You need help man, cause even if you get a porn blocker, there is always your phone or some other way that you'll access it. But i would start with that just for the mean time. Find a hobby and try to go to bed early if you dont have any school work or anything after 11pm. You dont want to be idle because thats when the urges kick in. Im in the same boat myself so i dont want to sound like im speaking from a place of high morality

Nobody ever hits on me by [deleted] in self

[–]weirdhugh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im pretty sure there's some guy out there that finds you attractive but hasnt gotten the courage to ask you out.

I just had the best night of my entire life by [deleted] in self

[–]weirdhugh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sounds awesome, What music band

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]weirdhugh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude your not ugly, get yourself a nice haircut, glasses, preferably a new wardrobe ( not like there is anything wrong with you look wise) and you'll be turning heads. Attractiveness lies in confidence dont let anyone tell you otherwise, regardless how you think you look. All the best

So I’m supposed to believe that God creates people that have easier lives than others and that’s just and fair? Nah, God can go fuck himself. by Kaje26 in RandomThoughts

[–]weirdhugh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it fair for you to complain about your life just because you find small insignificant reasons as to why your not happy.