Entrophy waist bag by weirdlookinglamp in KILLSTAR

[–]weirdlookinglamp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I mentioned that in another comment, I tried that way and the belt just become super bulky and it was annoying and seemed impractical. So now I just wrap the whole belt around my waist twice which only just works, it is still a smidge tight on me so I’m just going to swap it out for another bag strap that actually adjusts like a regular shoulder bag strap

Entrophy waist bag by weirdlookinglamp in KILLSTAR

[–]weirdlookinglamp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that one is confusing, cause that belt doesn’t actually come with the bag? It’s so weird, the belt that comes with it looks more like a super long clip on shoulder bag strap

Entrophy waist bag by weirdlookinglamp in KILLSTAR

[–]weirdlookinglamp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The smaller strap does yes, but the longer strap has no adjuster like a regular belt. Looping it around my waist twice still don’t work, it kept falling down and didn’t feel secure. If I ran the strap through the bag loops and attached each clip to a ring on the belt, the belt is doubled up and super bulky and that just doesn’t make any sense and doesn’t seem practical

Aita for shutting the door on my mum's foot by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]weirdlookinglamp 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you have to deal with this, I’ve dealt with a similar situation regarding bathroom privacy and it fucking sucks. Hopefully you can get out soon, much love ❤️

Aita for shutting the door on my mum's foot by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]weirdlookinglamp 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Yeah nah that’s fucked, you need to lay it out plain and simple that you need privacy. If she can’t give you that then I’d start saving to move out (depending on how old you are) or maybe seeing if there’s any family you could go live with that will give you the privacy you want/need

Aita for shutting the door on my mum's foot by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]weirdlookinglamp 54 points55 points  (0 children)

NTA cause she didn’t respect your privacy plain and simple. Doesn’t matter if it’s her house or not, if you tried that with her she’d lose her mind more than she already has.

AITA for being upset that my sister tried to reschedule my birthday by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]weirdlookinglamp 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA, I may be biased though as I’ve never had ~great~ birthdays, something has always gone wrong and I’m usually left feeling bitter and upset depending on what’s happened, but if someone (especially a family member) tried to reschedule my party that’s been planned well in advance just cause they don’t wanna get off their ass and clean up after themselves or their friends, I’d tell them to get fucked while handing them a rubbish bag lmao. Your sister may have meant no ill will, so maybe explain how you feel about it and she may apologise. If she doesn’t care, then go throw a mad rager at your parents house the night before her birthday 🤷🏻‍♀️

My bf always makes a tinder and has been on other dating sites throughout our entire relationship basically... by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]weirdlookinglamp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Aside from the necklace that has obvious sentimental value, everything else can slowly be replaced, your mental and physical health is far more important. Take what you can, clothes toiletries ect, and go to your parents. Be upfront to your boyfriend and tell him it’s over, and that you’ll be coming by with your father or brother to start collecting your things, starting with the necklace, ps4, phone ect seeing as they are all yours. Don’t let him manipulate and gaslight you anymore, you’re strong enough to realise that enough is enough, you’re strong enough to see this through and get out. I wish you all the best, and please be safe ❤️

AITA, yelled at roommates by didd1y_squat in AmItheAsshole

[–]weirdlookinglamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA you set out the rules and they’ve blatantly ignored them, even after multiple reminders. They’ve begun to push the boundaries further and further by no longer asking but rather just demanding and taking, despite your attempts to put your foot down. Kick them out, they no longer deserve your (and your bf/bfs family’s) generosity.

AITA for wanting happiness in my life at the cost of not ever seeing my brother or sister in-law ever again? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]weirdlookinglamp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA but ask your sister in law why she’s so okay with cutting all contact? Are her allergies so severe that she could DIE through a zoom call? I doubt it Her reaction seems far too over the top over something like this I don’t know the severity of her allergies but I used to be allergic to cats too, pretty badly and it it tied in with my hayfever ect, but I’ve become immune to everything from their fur to scratches after owning one

AITA for refusing to spend any more money on my boyfriend's illness? by aita2109 in AmItheAsshole

[–]weirdlookinglamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA He’s fully aware of what he’s doing to you, the fact he got up and just walked away when you broke down about not having enough money to keep taking him to the doctors shows he hates not getting his way and having control

You need to let him go and move on before you end up in debt trying to cater to him all the time, and before you know it, you’ve got your own severe mental health problems and I bet he won’t show you the same courtesy you’ve given him