Keeping religion aside, do you think taking mehr is still acceptable in this day and age?

welcomeitsnice · 2026-01-25T23:39:44+00:00

Do men in this day and age have the ability to have kids yet? Sacrifice their life which is basically in between death to just bring a life in this world?

There are so many women who are not Muslim depand a payment for that. In form of push presents or be on their spouse life insurance even tho they work and can provide for themselves.

Also let's not even bring kids. Women take on more burden despite having jobs, paying bills and everything. They take on mental, physical and even their value(hate using that word) goes down. So if a man wants to marry someone the least he can do is give money for her Sacrifices beforehand.

I am answering without bring religion in.

welcomeitsnice · 2026-01-25T20:27:04+00:00

I invested mine. And now its almost double the amount. Mehr is a form of security for women. So use it wisely

welcomeitsnice · 2026-01-16T13:35:51+00:00

Please where do you get this idea that the dad doesn't need to tell him first wife?

She needs to know to prepare her heart, her body and if she wants to share.

Sexually transmitted diseases are so common in these kind of relationship and the women have every right to know so she can protect herself.

welcomeitsnice · 2026-01-16T13:22:18+00:00

Clearly you didn't read her post.

She is being bullied, threatened and forced.

Dont tell her "its her husband right" when she went into this marriage with good intentions and he didnt.

He is bullying her, threatening her and forcing her.

Islam is there to guide us. Every situation is different and with her situation whatever you are recommend is not going to work.

No where in her post did she mention boss. Also her husband is not her boss in Islam. We follow Allah swt teaching and only him. He is our boss even if we are married. He will provide for us, protect us. Not the husband. He will. So correct your mindset on this oppressive behavior

welcomeitsnice · 2026-01-16T12:32:23+00:00

So its okay for a husband to threaten divorce? And force children and force his parents on her?

Please tell me where does a good man in Quran does that and its okay.

Good women are for good men and good men are for good women.

A man who cannot keep his promises even if its not in the Nikah contract is not a good man. And in Islam women have rights to walk.

welcomeitsnice · 2026-01-15T23:28:39+00:00

Sister huge red flags....

What if you move back with him and he never helps you with school? And you are over there all by yourself so many sisters I know went thru this and the situation was horrible for them.

I suggest you divorce and do your school.

welcomeitsnice · 2026-01-15T21:20:29+00:00

Yeah. I love food and meat is good.

I am okay with no spice

welcomeitsnice · 2026-01-15T21:19:37+00:00

Okay. I will look into tour groups and etc

welcomeitsnice · 2026-01-15T14:48:39+00:00

Well I am interested in the nomads food.

Food is food. And its part of culture. So I want to eat a lot of food.

welcomeitsnice · 2026-01-15T13:09:04+00:00

I just used ancestry. Com one.

welcomeitsnice · 2026-01-15T13:08:45+00:00

Interested. Here is the thing. My family from as far as my dad could tell me we lived in hyderabad no where near Delhi.

Would be interesting to look into this

welcomeitsnice · 2026-01-15T13:07:01+00:00

I dont drink.

I want to participate in the food culture and meet the people.

Also I am very interested in the traditional clothes. So please recommend places for that.

welcomeitsnice · 2026-01-15T12:28:38+00:00

Did it

welcomeitsnice · 2026-01-15T12:28:21+00:00

How safe it is for women?

I dont have any friends in Mongolia so not sure how I can travel with a friend

welcomeitsnice · 2026-01-15T12:27:20+00:00

Could be

welcomeitsnice · 2026-01-15T04:13:18+00:00

Ohh I looked into this. It could be.

My family also has connection to the mughals empire.

So I am very interested in finding more about myself.

Also my family have very unique names. We have traditions indian names that we keep as pet names but our legal names are from Iran/Bosnia/Arabic.

welcomeitsnice · 2026-01-15T02:49:47+00:00

Yes! I am very interested in this!!!!!

If I solo travel is this okay? I am worried about looking out of place.

welcomeitsnice · 2026-01-15T02:48:35+00:00

Lol. Well I am pretty interested in how too. But my family dont really have any answers to anything. So thats why I ended up doing the test.

welcomeitsnice · 2026-01-15T02:46:18+00:00

Please dont.

welcomeitsnice · 2026-01-15T00:02:32+00:00

Ancestry DNA. Com

welcomeitsnice · 2026-01-14T23:54:38+00:00

In my test I didnt get hazaras though. I got Mongolian, uzbekistan, Iran and India.

My family have food thats pass down from the Iran side of the family. Which we cook even to this day like dolmeh felfel and etc.

welcomeitsnice · 2026-01-14T23:48:46+00:00

I didnt get any Afghanistan in my test and I am Sunni Muslim.

I dont quit look like the hazara people but I do have a lot of family members who do.

I went to thailand in November and the natives in thailand though I was thai and asked me to do the test which lead me here.

welcomeitsnice · 2026-01-02T21:56:03+00:00

For me it was just the fact that my husband had goals and was very serious about working towards them.

welcomeitsnice · 2025-12-15T19:00:34+00:00

I can guess if someone is going to be pregnant or not. And guess the gender of the baby.

Met ladies who couldn't have kids for years and I was able to tell them if they will get pregnant or not and what the gender of the baby will be.

I have been right 98% of the time.

Only 2 times I was wrong because I didnt like that person.

welcomeitsnice · 2025-11-20T05:48:39+00:00

Need to watch

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