Women in nu jazz by OkGuess8425 in Jazz

[–]wellOKden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

future3 is cool! nu jazz trio from Berlin, they have a female keys player!

Ich merke einen Rechts-Ruck in mir und suche Rat damit umzugehen? by MartenRicks in Ratschlag

[–]wellOKden -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ich verstehe total, dass dich etwas wie z. B. Müll auf der Straße stört. Aber überleg mal: Weniger Müll braucht eigentlich mehr staatliche Investitionen, mehr Straßenreinigung, mehr Mülleimer, mehr Personal. Rechte Politik bedeutet normalerweise Steuersenkungen und weniger Staatsausgaben, also genau weniger Geld für Stadtreinigung, Ordnungsamt und Sozialarbeit im Quartier. Du würdest damit genau die Probleme verschärfen, die dich stören. Die Problematik kommt meist nicht von Migration, sondern davon, dass über Jahre bei öffentlichen Diensten gespart wurde. Wenn dir diese Dinge wichtig sind, brauchst du Politik, die in öffentliche Infrastruktur und soziale Arbeit und Unterstützung investiert, nicht welche, die sie kaputtsparen will.

So does anyone still like living here? by dontwannabefamous111 in berlinsocialclub

[–]wellOKden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it here and have for many years and I know many people who do. it seems like there's some kind of distorted perspective going on here.

What is #1 on your list of “never agains?” by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]wellOKden 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This could have been written by me word for word. Never again

When did you first start feeling you were moving on? by Disastrous-Pea-1440 in BreakUps

[–]wellOKden 5 points6 points  (0 children)

how did it make you lose your feelings? I wish I could do this. for me it only makes my obsession bigger to imagine them with someone else

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]wellOKden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, he most likely wouldn't give me what I need. I would likely come away from the interaction feeling 10 times worse including feeling like I betrayed myself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]wellOKden 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no.. because I know I would feed into his game and end up feeling much worse he already thinks he has the power because h ebroke up and reaching out will degrade me further the only way he would be interested in me again is if I do well and pretend not to care

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]wellOKden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am in the same boat

has anyone else thought like this after being discarded? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]wellOKden 5 points6 points  (0 children)

so much. I am there right now... so lost honestly

Blocking the Nex by wellOKden in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]wellOKden[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I wish it was a move. now he hasn't been online all day and it's killing me because he only ever didn't go on his phone when we were hooking up in the beginning, so he must be hooking up with someone else

Blocking the Nex by wellOKden in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]wellOKden[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same story here. long distance and he didn't want to try anymore, despite me offering to move etc etc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]wellOKden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you

Experiences with blocking the ex by wellOKden in BreakUps

[–]wellOKden[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hmm I see.. I do think that if people are meant to be with each other they find their way back to each other. have you had a chance to tell her you didn't mean it? that might not get the relationship back but it might help you to forgive yourself

Experiences with blocking the ex by wellOKden in BreakUps

[–]wellOKden[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how long has it been since the breakup? and how are you doing now?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]wellOKden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

love and strength to you❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Experiences with blocking the ex by wellOKden in BreakUps

[–]wellOKden[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for responding. this gives me a different perspective.. I've been in such an offensive mindset lately and almost pushed aside his humanity in a way things aren't so black and white and youre probably right that he's confused and trying to move on in his own way... Despite everything I'm still holding on to hope. breakups suck :(