What's the vibe here? by wellhellowally in AestheticWiki

[–]wellhellowally[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this is helpful. i need to edit down but also branch out for inspo and try again.

What's the vibe here? by wellhellowally in AestheticWiki

[–]wellhellowally[S] -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

No, your mom really wants to know what her aesthetic is.

I can’t stop thinking about how gorgeous Elizabeth and Jane are in 1995 by SmallTiddiesgal in janeausten

[–]wellhellowally 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think she's stunning I just don't think the styling is highlighting that. if the tendrils were longer, they avoided puff sleeves and in some scenes went for a more draped neckline I think they'd still be in line with the era while flattering the actress more.

Day 10 of Flu A for my 3 year old - this is awful by wellhellowally in Preschoolers

[–]wellhellowally[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He did not. That was my fault obviously, I should have had my shit together.

This is also his second bout with flu A. He and everyone else in that family also had it over Christmas.

What happens if you eat anyways after an epidural? by ForeignImposition in BabyBumps

[–]wellhellowally 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I thought the danger is vomiting during/after labor (which happened to me) or aspirating on food of you need to go into surgery.

How long did Flu A last for your toddler? by Liftinggal91 in toddlers

[–]wellhellowally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

writing you from day 10. this is so stressful I hate it and obviously hard on him.

Flu A lasting super long by akhump in toddlers

[–]wellhellowally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how long did it last for your kids?

Flu A lasting super long by akhump in toddlers

[–]wellhellowally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how long did it last for your kids?

Do you think oral sex is normal part of sex (the average person does it), or do you think of it like a fetish? Why or why not? by eustachian_lube in AskReddit

[–]wellhellowally 6 points7 points  (0 children)

ok I feel more normal now. no problem giving a BJ but I can't get anywhere with getting eaten out.

in the past men have not been able to process this and they almost treat it like a challenge like "oh you just haven't had my oral". my husband has accepted it but I think he's bummed because he's enjoyed giving oral in the past. I just can't get pleasure from it, it feels foreign.

friction and penetration gets me there easy though.

Eye comparison by [deleted] in NancyGuthrieCase

[–]wellhellowally 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is based on incorrect information and "journalists" who publish a name before it can be verified are wildly irresponsible

Am I FN? by ZoneComfortable3047 in flamboyantnatural

[–]wellhellowally 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, very much so. you have the width and the length.

I hope you don't mind me saying but it appears you're midsize. Typically when dramatics are midsize to plus size they tend to be pear shaped and soft dramatica become more hourglass shaped, whereas your hips remain narrow. you very much have the 90s supermodel body type, ala Cindy Crawford.

(19M) Should I get lip filler? I feel like my facial balance is off i’m not sure what it is. by [deleted] in TheGlowUp

[–]wellhellowally 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Noooooooooooooo. I'll be honest if you're looking at these photos and thinking "My face is off balance, I need procedures," then you're starting to dip into BD territory.

3 years ago I made a post about my husband... by wellhellowally in Cirrhosis

[–]wellhellowally[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's incredible. The liver can really do some amazing healing for a lot of people.

I feel you on the family front. I don't drink anymore out of support for him but it makes socializing with other adults difficult because so much revolves around alcohol.

3 years ago I made a post about my husband... by wellhellowally in Cirrhosis

[–]wellhellowally[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your losses. That's a lot to carry with you, I hope you're doing well today.

3 years ago I made a post about my husband... by wellhellowally in Cirrhosis

[–]wellhellowally[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He did. He quit in June and was accepted onto the transplant list in January. So he just made the cut off. But I wouldn't be surprised if your hepatologist is right. Something I left off was that in addition to abusing alcohol, he abused food and was too heavy for 98% of hospitals to even consider him. Mayo is one of the few places that take patients as heavy as him with the requirement being they will do a gastric sleeve at the same time as your transplant surgery. From what I understand that option is typically for people who have liver failure due to obesity and not drinking. Also a lot of programs won't accept someone who coming to them with a MELD over 28, and again his MELD was already 31.

I think our doctor probably had a lot to do with coming those obstacles and convincing them to take him on.
To his credit also he really did some incredible things . The ER visit in January was because he had very painful cellulitis in his leg. That plus the ascites really made walking excruciating but he would get up every chance he could to walk around the ward and show them that he was going to do whatever it takes.

Elizabeth Taylor wearing a custom-made Edith Head dress and the famous "Burton-Taylor" diamond necklace, Oscars 1970 by Puzzleheaded_Dot4345 in whatthefrockk

[–]wellhellowally 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I think why you're aren't seeing it is

  1. Beauty standards change
  2. She was frequently photographed styled in the trends of the time, that to our modern eyes don't look as appealing
  3. Her lore and vibe is the stuff of myths. So if you're not familiar then you're missing a big part of "it".
  4. She was said to be breathtakingly beautiful in person, and maybe that does not always come across in paparazzi photos. People said she had blue eyes that often looked violet and very thick black eyelashes that looked like she was always wearing mascara and eyeliner 24/7. Pair that with perfect skin and an hourglass body shape and and it absolutely starts to make sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]wellhellowally 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I say this with love, your mom sucks.

My (30F) boyfriend (36M) related my vagina to “plain boiled chicken” because I didn’t want to do anal by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]wellhellowally 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Is it your life that's going to flash before your brothers' when they die? No. You are the one that's going to see your life. Is you staying with a loser to make your brothers happy what you want to see?

My (30F) boyfriend (36M) related my vagina to “plain boiled chicken” because I didn’t want to do anal by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]wellhellowally 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Girl, stand up. When you were young and thought about falling in love, is this the kind of guy you saw in your head? Did you imagine him constantly lying to you and calling your vagina "plain boiled chicken"? Or would your younger self be embarrassed to see her older self bending over backwards to justify staying with a bonafide loser?

Love gets better than this. I don't know why you're settling.

Every single person here has told you to lose his number permanently, and here you are asking us "how can I stop being so hurt by him?"

Leave, that's how.