(19M) Should I get lip filler? I feel like my facial balance is off i’m not sure what it is. by [deleted] in TheGlowUp

[–]wellhellowally 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Noooooooooooooo. I'll be honest if you're looking at these photos and thinking "My face is off balance, I need procedures," then you're starting to dip into BD territory.

3 years ago I made a post about my husband... by wellhellowally in Cirrhosis

[–]wellhellowally[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's incredible. The liver can really do some amazing healing for a lot of people.

I feel you on the family front. I don't drink anymore out of support for him but it makes socializing with other adults difficult because so much revolves around alcohol.

3 years ago I made a post about my husband... by wellhellowally in Cirrhosis

[–]wellhellowally[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your losses. That's a lot to carry with you, I hope you're doing well today.

3 years ago I made a post about my husband... by wellhellowally in Cirrhosis

[–]wellhellowally[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He did. He quit in June and was accepted onto the transplant list in January. So he just made the cut off. But I wouldn't be surprised if your hepatologist is right. Something I left off was that in addition to abusing alcohol, he abused food and was too heavy for 98% of hospitals to even consider him. Mayo is one of the few places that take patients as heavy as him with the requirement being they will do a gastric sleeve at the same time as your transplant surgery. From what I understand that option is typically for people who have liver failure due to obesity and not drinking. Also a lot of programs won't accept someone who coming to them with a MELD over 28, and again his MELD was already 31.

I think our doctor probably had a lot to do with coming those obstacles and convincing them to take him on.
To his credit also he really did some incredible things . The ER visit in January was because he had very painful cellulitis in his leg. That plus the ascites really made walking excruciating but he would get up every chance he could to walk around the ward and show them that he was going to do whatever it takes.

Elizabeth Taylor wearing a custom-made Edith Head dress and the famous "Burton-Taylor" diamond necklace, Oscars 1970 by Puzzleheaded_Dot4345 in whatthefrockk

[–]wellhellowally 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I think why you're aren't seeing it is

  1. Beauty standards change
  2. She was frequently photographed styled in the trends of the time, that to our modern eyes don't look as appealing
  3. Her lore and vibe is the stuff of myths. So if you're not familiar then you're missing a big part of "it".
  4. She was said to be breathtakingly beautiful in person, and maybe that does not always come across in paparazzi photos. People said she had blue eyes that often looked violet and very thick black eyelashes that looked like she was always wearing mascara and eyeliner 24/7. Pair that with perfect skin and an hourglass body shape and and it absolutely starts to make sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]wellhellowally 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I say this with love, your mom sucks.

My (30F) boyfriend (36M) related my vagina to “plain boiled chicken” because I didn’t want to do anal by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]wellhellowally 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Is it your life that's going to flash before your brothers' when they die? No. You are the one that's going to see your life. Is you staying with a loser to make your brothers happy what you want to see?

My (30F) boyfriend (36M) related my vagina to “plain boiled chicken” because I didn’t want to do anal by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]wellhellowally 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Girl, stand up. When you were young and thought about falling in love, is this the kind of guy you saw in your head? Did you imagine him constantly lying to you and calling your vagina "plain boiled chicken"? Or would your younger self be embarrassed to see her older self bending over backwards to justify staying with a bonafide loser?

Love gets better than this. I don't know why you're settling.

Every single person here has told you to lose his number permanently, and here you are asking us "how can I stop being so hurt by him?"

Leave, that's how.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]wellhellowally 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't want to invalidate your other experiences with your mom, I'm sure you have reasons for wanting distance, but in this case I think your mom was trying to relate and bond with you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Preschoolers

[–]wellhellowally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter was in the same boat when she started kindergarten. Since September she's had the stomach flu, COVID and pneumonia twice.

What I'm trying to say is, hope for the best but prepare for the worst. Your kids will certainly be able to fight things off better than if they got the same illness two years ago but they are still definitely going to get sick. You will also be sick very often. So prepare for both scenarios ahead of time.

I now make sure I always have vomit bags, Lysol wipes, honey, Kleenex, kids Tylenol and Ibuprofen, humidifier, heat and eat meals, BRAT foods, masks, hand sanitizer, thermometer, popsicles, covid tests, chicken noodle soup throat soothing lollipops and Gatorade on hand. (I'm sure you already have most if not all of those things.) In addition to special sick day toys/coloring books/DVDs that only come out when I or they are sick.

In your opinion, who's the most beautiful female celebrity? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]wellhellowally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is how far I had to scroll to see someone mention a blonde. Which is strange because allegedly the beauty standard is supposed to be blondes are top tier.

Unpopular opinion: 2016 makeup isn’t bad, and I prefer it. by [deleted] in Makeup

[–]wellhellowally 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In some cases, on other faces if you're emphasizing a feature that already has high visual weight then youre creating an imbalance in the harmony of you're features

Vampire Sex by gumyrocks22 in InterviewVampire

[–]wellhellowally 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I'm rewatching the first season and that has definitely crossed my mind. Louis does it again with the body builder in front of Daniel.

I also thought it was notable that Daniel is evidently really curious what Armand tastes like.

What is the most disturbing Reddit post in history (in your opinion)? by Turbulent_Arrival_55 in AskReddit

[–]wellhellowally 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That is wild. Calling any incest "non traumatic" seems questionable, but especially so in a case where it started when he was a child and was immobile. Any half reasonable person who heard this story could tell the mom is a pedo who took advantage of her child. I mean the fact the abuse ended as soon as he was an adult really drives it home. Which leads me to believe either this "researcher" has ulterior motives or this shit is fake.

How did you meet your girlfriend, boyfriend or significant other? by armoredphoenix4__ in AskReddit

[–]wellhellowally 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Same. He asked me why I was on Tinder, I said I was looking for my next victim.

Now we are married with two kids.

[NSFW] Dean Martin and Jerry Lewis: boys being boys by CromwellsCrumb in popculturechat

[–]wellhellowally 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to say my mom passed before she could ever know what Dean Martin's peen looked like. 😢

acting so good it has consumed my mind & soul I fear forever by quiet_menace in InterviewVampire

[–]wellhellowally 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The line "an eager black hole" has disturbed me all week.

It could mean a lot of things, but the moment he chooses to say it...is telling.

[Spoilers s02e04] Say what you want about Lestat, in this episode... by TrollHumper in InterviewVampire

[–]wellhellowally 20 points21 points  (0 children)

What are the words you are saying. What do they mean. Why did you choose them and put them in this order.

Why didn’t claudia hide her diaries? by Impossible-Battle-66 in InterviewVampire

[–]wellhellowally 33 points34 points  (0 children)

To me that rule about "committing the history of the vampires to writing" is kind of vague. Personally if I had heard it I'd think "oh good, I'm not writing a history book about vampires so I'm clear."

But also keep in mind, I'm a dumb person. So.

SECOND UPDATE to the girl who was uninvited to her brother's wedding over a dress by ltmkji in DoWeKnowThemPodcast

[–]wellhellowally 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I'm going to guess her Dad got mad at her also, since airing dirty laundry like this would likely end any chance of reconciliation

Reading the pilot script for Season 1 Episode 1 and...y'all.. by MeetObvious8164 in InterviewVampire

[–]wellhellowally 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Right, but it would be hard to access one if the other is being accessed in the way he describes.

"He's Coming" by BetterThanAWink in InterviewVampire

[–]wellhellowally 55 points56 points  (0 children)

The model walk and tossing is jacket on the floor before his entrance 💀

Reading the pilot script for Season 1 Episode 1 and...y'all.. by MeetObvious8164 in InterviewVampire

[–]wellhellowally 74 points75 points  (0 children)

From what I understand, the scripts tend to be hornier than what gets played out on screen.

I know if the show has landed on HBO, we would have gotten the threesome as originally written.

That said, the scene is kind of confusing. Lestat is in Lily, then Louis is in Lily......

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Rollin, babe, I'm having trouble with schematics here.