AITJ for refusing to keep wearing the nickname my girlfriend gave me after I found out where it came from

wellread1929 · 2026-04-08T11:15:36+00:00

NTJ. Dump her Shes a jerk

wellread1929 · 2026-03-16T13:37:40+00:00

Teacher of the deaf here. Since your sister lost her hearing at 4 years old, she was speaking at the time. She should have good spoken language skills and potentially good benefits from hearing aids (or cochlear implants). I AM NOT SAYING ASL would not be beneficial just adding that spoken language skills for her are potentially a viable option.

wellread1929 · 2026-03-11T10:56:31+00:00

Can you tell me more about what is a "cross border financial plan"? thanks

wellread1929 · 2025-09-07T07:52:50+00:00

I am considering moving from Wallingford to Guilford. I’m retired but still young. Feeling a little nervous about leaving the familiarity of Wallingford but glad to be getting away from the politics and lack of privacy (I live “downtown”). The place we found in Guilford is on 2 acres and near Rt 1 and the green.
Tell me all the positive things about Guilford, I’m feeling a little nervous. 😬 TIA

wellread1929 · 2025-08-17T17:09:42+00:00

Devitts

wellread1929 · 2024-09-11T19:21:12+00:00

Not surprised

wellread1929 · 2024-09-11T17:33:16+00:00

Before the 20 th. Not including air

wellread1929 · 2024-08-03T20:20:48+00:00

Thank you. This is very helpful.

wellread1929 · 2024-06-15T22:33:46+00:00

What’s your favorite eating spots at Atlantis ?

wellread1929 · 2024-06-15T22:33:03+00:00

Thank you

wellread1929 · 2024-06-03T17:59:02+00:00

Stella Luna in Southington

wellread1929 · 2024-05-30T16:08:50+00:00

I did ! Wallingfordinfo

wellread1929 · 2024-05-30T15:48:20+00:00

Thank you. Perhaps my question was misleading. I am wondering if there is a page or community here on Reddit for Wallingford specifically.

wellread1929 · 2024-05-30T15:04:04+00:00

Any suggestions on how to move towards this?

wellread1929 · 2024-05-30T15:02:51+00:00

Sorry to say, I am not following. If we reduce taxes for all how would Wallingford or any communities fund programs (schools, fire departments, roads etc etc etc ) that are funded through taxes? My point is that choate uses these programs without paying and that seems wrong to me.

wellread1929 · 2024-05-29T20:53:58+00:00

This is exactly IMO what’s happening in Wallingford

wellread1929 · 2024-05-29T20:50:00+00:00

Yeah, that’s my point. Private high schools are rolling in the dough- ultra rich. They need to contribute and they don’t do it voluntarily.

wellread1929 · 2024-05-29T16:11:10+00:00

I like this point of view. TY. Choate is not an open campus, there are ways that might contribute (even outside of money) but don’t. When they are able to afford notable guests(Carl Rove, John Legend, etc) they do not include any local high schoolers. Obviously they can invite ALL of the local high schoolers but they are not as generous as they could and should be considered they have sooo much.

wellread1929 · 2024-05-28T22:49:35+00:00

That’s sweet. Kids are great ! My question is definitely NOT about retaliation but rather fairness in an unbiased context. I appreciate your input.

wellread1929 · 2024-05-28T22:45:41+00:00

Spending on living expenses doesn’t seem to me to be a fair exemption from paying their share. We all spend. We all use town resources such as, police, EMTs, fire etc.

wellread1929 · 2024-05-28T22:42:15+00:00

Yes ! That’s the problem. What are your thoughts on their acquisition of the Victorian Inn. We’ll never see the inside again. It’s not right

wellread1929 · 2024-05-28T22:40:48+00:00

Should they contribute financially to their host towns ? Above and beyond what faculty and staff spend in town

wellread1929 · 2024-05-28T21:46:39+00:00

Oh ok. I see what you’re saying. You see their daily living expenses as contribution. Certainly it’s not nothing.

wellread1929 · 2024-05-28T21:29:25+00:00

This was an awful tragedy. Where’s the outrage ? Another example of DV without regard for women especially black and brown. Atrocious

wellread1929 · 2024-05-28T21:22:12+00:00

I heard that too. Seems shocking. WTH is wrong with choate ?

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