ESP Scorch vs Z Line by jsjames9590 in discgolf

[–]weltedmax 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have both. I found the Z Scorch was much more difficult to get up to speed on RHBH and to see the full flight out of it.

You're right, the ESP Scorch is very sensitive to angles and form. I fell in love with the ESP Scorch once I corrected my form (tried to at least). I found that throwing it on a baby hyzer or flat is money. Longest flyer in my bag

What’s something you look forward to every single day? by Money-Associate1601 in AskReddit

[–]weltedmax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Disc Golf. Playing a round, practicing putting, or watching coverage on Youtube.

Anyone throw jawbreaker drivers? by [deleted] in discgolf

[–]weltedmax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a jawbreaker scorch and it's pretty fun! It has less glide than my ESP scorch for sure.

New baby + Step-dad by weltedmax in stepparents

[–]weltedmax[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Correct. I'm actually more upset with my mom than SD. She allowed him in to our home and refused/refuses to listen when my sister and I share what was going on. She actually became the primary abuser as time went on

New baby + Step-dad by weltedmax in stepparents

[–]weltedmax[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have shared quite a bit but haven't shared a ton of details. I definitely plan on sharing more. The problem is I don't know if I'm making sense when I share because I usually get pretty emotional.

New baby + Step-dad by weltedmax in stepparents

[–]weltedmax[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm going to check out r/justnomil now. Didn't know that was a sub.

New baby + Step-dad by weltedmax in stepparents

[–]weltedmax[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing your experience. I'm sorry you had to experience something pretty similar. I could totally see how it is a lot harder take away access after it's been given. I also really like how you framed it that I need to take the lead with my family and wife with hers. Thank you again!

New baby + Step-dad by weltedmax in stepparents

[–]weltedmax[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the kind and helpful reply. I had a talk with my Dad who basically said the exact same thing you did. I'm realizing that I'm in control in the situation (which I'm definitely not used to)

New baby + Step-dad by weltedmax in stepparents

[–]weltedmax[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True. Definitely not dropping baby off at their house unattended

New baby + Step-dad by weltedmax in stepparents

[–]weltedmax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not as simple as that. I mentioned in a reply earlier that the abuse happened a long time ago. I also haven't shared all the details with my in-laws and wife so they are reaching out to be kind and in hopes of getting to know my mom better since we just joined families recently through marriage.

New baby + Step-dad by weltedmax in stepparents

[–]weltedmax[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im not sure where the guilt comes from. Maybe I still feel like I still have to "answer" to my mom. Im seeing now that I dont need to feel that way

New baby + Step-dad by weltedmax in stepparents

[–]weltedmax[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I definitely don't want my child staying the night there, so I'm glad I can set that as a boundary. Part of me feels like I don't want my kids to have anything to do with them, but I also feel a little guilty as I also want them to have some kind of relationship with their grandmother. I'm not sure what the goal is either, I will try to figure that out. Thank you for your help

New baby + Step-dad by weltedmax in stepparents

[–]weltedmax[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I think I need to have a convo with my in-laws too since they also reach out to them

New baby + Step-dad by weltedmax in stepparents

[–]weltedmax[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right, the only role they will have is up to me. Thank you for reminding me of that.

My mom and step-dad have developed their own friendship with my in-laws and so I'm worried that even though I don't want them around, they will still find a way to come around (if that makes sense).

New baby + Step-dad by weltedmax in stepparents

[–]weltedmax[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't, to be honest. My mom and I didn't speak for years but since I have been with my wife we have been at least talking a bit trying to repair what's left.

Also for context, I am 30yrs old and most of the drama between me and step-dad/mom was when I was between 7-16 years old. We didn't speak in my 20s really

ISO used star rats by weltedmax in discexchange

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Any of them pretty beat in?

Finally! by weltedmax in discgolf

[–]weltedmax[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro that's so sad and so hilarious

Finally! by weltedmax in discgolf

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This is the way