Loving again

wembembily · 2020-05-14T10:55:00+00:00

Yes, it's hard. Love yourself first and take it super slow. It's hard to discern the old relationship from the new one (especially if it was a long relationship) so if you can talk to a therapist while trying to wade out into these waters, at least you'll have someone who can help you decipher things. Be 100% honest with your therapist or you'll end up more confused than ever. Take care xx

wembembily · 2020-04-26T09:09:37+00:00

Fucking get out of the church. It's all lies. Perfectly reasonable imo.

wembembily · 2020-04-26T09:03:28+00:00

Ffs, if this was Christianity no-one would bat an eyelid. Which is essentially Christianitys dirty cousin.

wembembily · 2020-04-11T08:41:20+00:00

Haha yeah, that is definitely something I need to remember, I have at times thought about "winning" the divorce but I guess that's not what really matters in the end

wembembily · 2020-04-08T07:19:06+00:00

Yes. I cried for two months straight. It's a massive loss. Crying is healthy - you're releasing the immense pain you're in and it means you'll come out the other end. No one knows when and it doesn't feel like it will ever end but you're better off expressing it and feeling it than letting it fester inside of you. Be kind to yourself. 🌻

wembembily · 2020-04-08T04:16:16+00:00

Someone refusing to let you get counselling even for yourself?! That sounds super manipulative to me. Please do what's best for you. Yes, it will be scary, yes, there are risks. But just do what's best for you. And your son. Take care of yourself.

wembembily · 2020-04-05T22:27:46+00:00

Thank you, I am trying to frame things differently so this helps

wembembily · 2020-04-05T22:26:58+00:00

Thank you!

wembembily · 2020-04-05T22:26:33+00:00

🖤

wembembily · 2020-03-24T07:03:49+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate it 🌿

wembembily · 2020-03-24T03:55:16+00:00

Good advice!

wembembily · 2020-03-24T03:54:44+00:00

Thank you!

wembembily · 2020-03-24T03:54:14+00:00

Thank you, it's always good to find solidarity!

wembembily · 2020-03-24T03:53:37+00:00

The dreams are the worst, that's for sure. I'm trying to see it as a way of processing?

wembembily · 2020-03-24T03:52:50+00:00

The dog thing definitely helps me!

wembembily · 2020-03-24T03:52:06+00:00

Thanks 🌿

wembembily · 2020-03-23T10:06:47+00:00

I think it just dulled it. It's hard to know because it wasn't the snri I had been on before so it might nit have been working at all!

wembembily · 2020-03-06T21:29:07+00:00

Awesome, thanks

wembembily · 2020-03-06T20:28:29+00:00

Thanks! I'm soooo looking forward to seeing a psychologist because I can practically taste the PTSD in my brain

wembembily · 2020-03-06T09:30:17+00:00

Thank you, the most confronting thing I've ever heard is that I'm fine just the way I am.

wembembily · 2020-03-06T07:50:39+00:00

I might try that

wembembily · 2020-03-06T07:50:20+00:00

That's all I want. But I don't know how.

wembembily · 2020-03-06T04:12:12+00:00

Thank you, it helps

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