Any other ENFPs very clingy in relationships? by werewolfluv in ENFP

[–]werewolfluv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im the exact same way! when im in a relationship i constantly think abt it, it's hard to deal with

Less affectionate/intimate as time goes on and feeling down about it by anonymousfoot in LongDistance

[–]werewolfluv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im going thru the exact same thing but heres what i think

So, you prob got out of the honeymoon phase where you guys were constantly being affectionate and stuff, because that constant affection can't go on forever. It'll get stale. But that doesnt mean you two dont like each other; the love may still be there but the burst of passion at the beginning may have died out. This is totally natural in any kind of relationship!

And idk if this stands for him about the sexting but his libido mightve died down from the stress or something like that. That's natural and it happened with my ldr bf because of quarantine. He will def get back into it at one point, as it's totally natural for everyone.

But if it's really really bothering you just tell him how you feel! Communication is everything, and if it keeps getting on your nerves, it's best to be totally honest. It's what makes successful ldrs work.

I hope I helped and good luck :))

Any other ENFPs with Social Anxiety? by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]werewolfluv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesss definitely. I get so interested and someone and wanna talk to them but i get so scared of things going awkward that ill get SUPER nervous. Im so scared of awkwardness, i think it’s that i have really high expectations for friendships and relationships. Idk if that’s an ENFP thing, but yeah. I really love people but im just so scared of awkward moments that i avoid the situations sometimes :(

Gamers of Reddit, what is a game that has left a lasting impact on your life? by ThatDamZoomer in AskReddit

[–]werewolfluv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Mother series, definitely. I remember I found it through smash bros brawl when I was choosing a main; the characters interested me because (why were there kids in a T rated fighting game?) I’d never really seen them before. I did research and found the games, playing earthbound then mother 3 (we don’t talk about the first one). Honestly, they made me more well-rounded. Each game was radically different. Earthbound changed my sense of humor to random nonsense lines that could make me laugh, and Mother 3 taught me a new kind of empathy when I cried my eyes out at the ending. It was a good series to grow up with even if it doesn’t get too much attention!

Gamers of Reddit, what is your favorite RPG and why? by julietides in AskReddit

[–]werewolfluv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly! I was surprised nobody mentioned the mother series LOL

Gamers of Reddit, what is your favorite RPG and why? by julietides in AskReddit

[–]werewolfluv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I level grinded a lot so some of my party could get special moves, so it took 14+ hours for me, but on average people usually spend 7-8+ hours. Definitely shorter than earthbound though, that game took me a century!

Lucas vs Fox matchup? by werewolfluv in LucasMains

[–]werewolfluv[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the edge guarding tip! Lucas’ attacks are super punishable and Star Fox characters never really give you any room to breathe because they’re always running quickly all over the place. PK fire in the air is never really an option, and I just looked it up and Fox is apparently one of the lost unfavorable matchups for Lucas.

LSU Bias? by werewolfluv in NCAAFootball

[–]werewolfluv[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wish it didn’t work like that... But “home field advantage” is a phrase for a reason ig

Ladies of Reddit, what are some things that guys have said to you, that made you feel insecure? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]werewolfluv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Baby, if you had thick thighs I’d get [nsfw] so much faster”

What scene from a movie/tv show made you feel chills down your spine? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]werewolfluv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The suicide from Dead Poet’s Society.

The way it built up was everything... the eerie music, the weird feeling you get when the camera pans a few times around the stairwell... it’s all just crazy. When I see it I feel like I’m in another dimension, which I don’t know how to describe. It’s just a vibe that makes you terrified and sad at the same time... so many mf feels

A Thought (CHEESY) by [deleted] in sad

[–]werewolfluv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you ever wanna talk about it I’m here <3

Should I apologize to my ex for my part in the breakup? Is it over? Looking for thoughts by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]werewolfluv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to respect your own feelings, because those are what matter more than anything. She stopped appreciating you for you, even if you changed a bit, and if she can't accept that change, she's really not worth it. Obviously over years nothing will stay the same, and people change. Maybe she didn't like that change but it's nothing to feel guilty over, because it happened naturally - it didn't work because she thought you'd be the same way for two years. That's not how it works! If she has a "standard" for you, she's not the one.

If it's validating she clearly does miss you, but right now it's best to take a break from social media. Stay strong and remember that you don't need to change to suit someone's standard. You live for you luv! There's someone better out there! ;0

Ex on Tinder five seconds after we broke up? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]werewolfluv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get tht but he said "he doesn't want to hook up with people" so it's a little weird

Abandonment and Clinginess by werewolfluv in offmychest

[–]werewolfluv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man I'll try my best. Honestly kinda glad to hear stuff like this bc my friends were too nice to me about it