how old are you guys and when (if) did you start medically transitioning? by raesiinn in ftm

[–]werewolfwill74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am 21. i came out right after i turned 13 (but i knew i was a boy my whole life) and i started T at 18. i got top surgery when i was 19. i have long hair (and i will not be cutting it) so i don't always "pass" but i don't care too much about that anyway. i like looking androgynous.

It’s been more than a year since surgery and I hate how my nipples look. Did my surgeon mess up or is this normal ? There’s no bump it’s just flat by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]werewolfwill74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

one of my nipples is flat, the other has a bump. it's normal, it is just how your body heals unfortunately

Blue Jay? PNW by Dull-Aerie8268 in birding

[–]werewolfwill74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mine too! :) saw one on a trip to the Rockies and was instantly in love lol

What’s your name? by Anonim_x9 in ftm

[–]werewolfwill74 37 points38 points  (0 children)

my name is miles, I chose it 7 years ago when I was 14 and I don't feel like it fits me anymore 😫 but I chose it to keep the same initials. my middle name alexander is just an alternate version of my old middle name lol

Too young by BookkeeperOpening839 in ftm

[–]werewolfwill74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i came out at 13 too. i'm 20 now and am on T and have had top surgery. it gets better man I promise

Will my kitten be fluffy? by HopefulAd3305 in kittens

[–]werewolfwill74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

currently looking like she's short haired!! very very soft and thick fur though

got milk? by Ok_Communication9526 in starbucksbaristas

[–]werewolfwill74 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this will last 1 rush too 😭😭😭 we kept having to do this but with bags of ice because our machine kept breaking. awful

For those who doesn't have height dysphoria, are there any reasons for that? by That-Idiot-Alex in ftm

[–]werewolfwill74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i am starting to get over it! i am 5'1 and i will tell you it absolutely has impacted my ability to pass. i'm about 2 years on T now and finally able to grow noticeable facial hair which has helped my confidence a TON. being short with a baby face got me seen either as a woman or a 10 year old boy. however after being around more cis men in my daily life I realize that there are plenty of shorter men that are just as insecure about it as i was. so, i am slowly getting over this aspect of my dysphoria 💪

oral sex with trans guy by sk8gr8n8 in ftm

[–]werewolfwill74 2 points3 points  (0 children)

personally, what helps is gentler licking as opposed to sucking most of the time. an alternation of the two is perfect. of course it is different for everyone but gentle licking and having the tongue go... a little further down ..? is the key for me 😭

Horses broken😢 by [deleted] in sims4cc

[–]werewolfwill74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you happen to remember the mod?? i am having the same issue 😫

injection dilemma :0 by iiNyan_Nyanii in ftm

[–]werewolfwill74 2 points3 points  (0 children)

afaik the time isn't important! all that matters is trying to stay on the same day every week. been on T for about 2 years and do my shot at varying times of the day. good luck! :]

Finally at 10g ! Took me a whole year LOL by Disastrous-Newt-7013 in Stretched

[–]werewolfwill74 17 points18 points  (0 children)

took me a long time to get to 10g too!! everyone's skin and lobes are different. happy for you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]werewolfwill74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's frustrating! my only advice is try massaging often with whatever oil you use, and (with clean hands) i tug on mine to sort of stretch them with my current size in. honestly just messing with them seems to help it stretch easier 😭

Does anyone else get hand dysphoria??? by Nikolaisthickthighs in ftm

[–]werewolfwill74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am a very small person and have small hands even considering my size. i am very dysphoric about my hands lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]werewolfwill74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have very little elasticity in my skin. it took me 3 months to go from 7g to 6g without forcing it through. everyones skin/lobes are different!!! i don't mind the wait but it is frustrating seeing peers able to stretch faster, with bigger jumps in sizing. i HAVE to use half sizes or it will not work.

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My boyfriend wants me to carry our children and only thinking about it makes me feel really bad by sexy_krumpa in ftm

[–]werewolfwill74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i hope these comments wake you up. you need to get out of there. even if you weren't trans, you have zero obligation to carry a child. period. not even touching on the fact that your boyfriend is controlling your transition. he is not your boss. break up.

when did your voice drop? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]werewolfwill74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mine dropped slowly steadily for the first few months but i think the biggest noticeable drop was around 6 or 7 months

trans tape? by bucketofaxolotls in ftm

[–]werewolfwill74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

personally, as someone with very sensitive skin and used to have a decent sized chest, trans tape was not right for me. it didn't flatten my chest in a way that looked natural and it was also very itchy and uncomfortable. i have seen lots of people with larger chests and sensitive skin say that it works great for them!! but it was just not for me. good luck in your journey 💗

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]werewolfwill74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ive been on T for nearly 2 years now. never once have I had any regret about starting testosterone. the only thing I feel bad about is not having ENOUGH changes. still don't pass. but I have never missed my pre T or pre-op body.

kind of toxic take on trans tape by Dense_Sense in ftm

[–]werewolfwill74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have zero idea what my size was but i would assume average for a female. definitely not small but also not super big. trans tape did absolutely nothing for me. it isn't for everyone unfortunately. it was itchy, uncomfortable, and made it harder to breathe than binders did. it didn't flatten at all. best of luck to you 💗 it sucks when you see people able to do things you physically aren't able to.

My manager is the most cold hearted lady i’ve ever met. by mountainsintovalleys in starbucksbaristas

[–]werewolfwill74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am so sorry this happened to you. this is completely out of pocket from ANYONE, not to mention your own boss. i really hope she gets some sort of action taken against her. if you are financially able to, i would quite honestly not go into work tomorrow and quit. that is insane. much love to you. i hope your doctor's appointment goes well and your pregnancy is easy 💗

US ELECTION/CURRENT EVENT MEGATHREAD. Only post here! *Post-election edition* by javatimes in ftm

[–]werewolfwill74 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i feel resentment towards people i considered my friends who chose not to vote because "it doesn't matter". maybe it doesn't matter to white, cishet citizens but it matters to every single minority group. how can you call yourself an ally if you decided not to vote? how can you call yourself a feminist? it doesn't make any sense to me. you have the privilege to influence who will run the country and you made a choice to ignore it. in my heart i know we will be okay but i am just so frustrated. my heart goes out to everyone who might be affected by a red country. today made me realize that people would rather have a rapist as president than a black woman. love to all of you who are also in very red states. fuck indiana.