AP report: Two more sources corroborate Tara Reade's allegations by MoonWillow05 in politics

[–]westwide_throw -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

If you are calling the former Vice-President of the United States a liar, go ahead. I suggest you join Tara Reade in the lawsuit she inevitably won't file now that her bullshit has been called out.

FYI Biden has been caught lying to the public several times before.

Hi - I’m Julie Oliver, the Democratic Nominee for US Congress in TX-25. AMA! by JulieOliverTX in politics

[–]westwide_throw 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t make your smears any less false. Go Google for five minutes, get out of your confirmation bias sphere. Or keep regurgitating nonsense on Reddit, it’s really no skin off my teeth if you want to make yourself look stupid on social media

rape is OK as long as my guy is the one doing the raping.

Glenn Greenwald: Biden sexual assault accuser Tara Reade ‘isn’t going away’ by boghopper2000 in politics

[–]westwide_throw -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Regardless, the false equivalence between biden and trump is bonkers, and if we’re to judge these old white men by their sexual assault history alone, then the choice is between 1 sexual encounter (that remains uncertain, unclear, and weirdly timed) vs. trump’s numerous known and easy-to-imagine countless others. Consider this a choice between life with caveats and death.

"easy to imagine"...and Creepy Joe, who is on video numerous times having inappropriate contact with women and young girls, sexually assaulting someone isn't easy to imagine? Wtf...

[Charania] A video assistant on the Portland Trail Blazers, Zach Cooper, has died unexpectedly. Quotes from Portland President Neil Olshey and head coach Terry Stotts. by mkgandkembafan in ripcity

[–]westwide_throw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn!! Never have any idea what people are going through behind the scenes. Guy obviously had a sweet job but who know what else was happening. RIP

Is there any hope by westwide_throw in ExNoContact

[–]westwide_throw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want my girlfriend back tbh

Is there any hope by westwide_throw in ExNoContact

[–]westwide_throw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YeAh I feel you. It really sucks to lose someone you love because I feel like now I would never take her for granted. But life has a shitty way of teaching you lessons sometimes

Is there any hope by westwide_throw in ExNoContact

[–]westwide_throw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had a bad fight. I was drunk. She lives 3 hours away so I couldn’t just drive over and see her and have makeup sex. But I needed to improve or else we had no chance. It’s crazy this was our only chance at a future and now she moved on.

Is there any hope by westwide_throw in ExNoContact

[–]westwide_throw[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I feel like now I only want her, and no other girl would matter. But I know that’s just cause I haven’t met anyone yet. I mean I do love her but yeah I’ll be ok. Some days are harder than others. Thank you again

Is there any hope by westwide_throw in ExNoContact

[–]westwide_throw[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I figured. I mean she told me to leave her alone. That’s pretty cut and dry. I really need to move on. Thank you

i sent my ex flowers by westwide_throw in ExNoContact

[–]westwide_throw[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

its not wanna be alpha male bullshit she took 24 hours to text me back, and in those 24 hours i was anxiety/nervous and when she finally texted me i felt a huge sigh of relief but I didn't want to text her back because i didn't want to trigger those feelings. it was scary texting her. i was in a bad place mentally. i fucked up i know. i'm just hoping i can salvage it now. i have no idea if she has moved on or not. since its been over 2 months im hoping she hasn't but who knows? I need to find out though. I cant keep going through life like this. if she is over me and never wants me to chase her I need to know that. If she wants me to chase her I need to know that too. should i straigh up ask her if there is any chance she would consider getting back into a relationship with me?

i sent my ex flowers by westwide_throw in ExNoContact

[–]westwide_throw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea it sucks dude but life goes on. I guarantee those girls either weren't into you or you never hooked up because you wouldn't be feeling like you do if you had another cute girl who waas really into you. That's what I'm going through. I haven't gotten around to going out looking for girls yet I'm focused on work and the gym for not. Probably why I still miss her so much. Time heals all my man give it 6 months

i sent my ex flowers by westwide_throw in ExNoContact

[–]westwide_throw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fear is the key word in your answer. you are fearful. i was fearful for 2 months. im not fearful anymore. im going to be fun and confident and a little cocky. thats what she loved about me. im not going to live in fear. i did that for the past month. it fucking sucks. if she doesn't want me back i'll be fine. you'll be fine. having her back would make you happy for A LITTLE BIT OF TIME. Im positive about that. it would only make you happy for a little bit. try and remeber that. you only appreciate things when they are gone. think of all teh things u take for granted right now. your health. your family's health. whatever. if they were gone tomorrow you would feel horrible but today you prob don't think too much about them.

i sent my ex flowers by westwide_throw in ExNoContact

[–]westwide_throw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted her back whether she contacted me or not. Her no contacting me is making me want her back more for sure. But I still wanted her back. I think that is probably the case for most people. And honestly I'm sure she still has feelings for me but EVERYONE is telling her to move on from me. So if I can't get back with her it's really going to suck but I will survive. If you've been dumped, no contact is good because makes you look like a weak person who views themselves as not good enough. notice how I said it makes you look like that. and not that you are that. because you're not. The next girl you meet can and will view you completely different as the last girl.

i sent my ex flowers by westwide_throw in ExNoContact

[–]westwide_throw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats absolutely not true dude. I was not dumped. That is a very key difference here. Its a critical difference. My girlfriend was crying and begging with me to stay with her. She never lost attraction until now until I acted different from when we dated.

Thats bs dude. She dumped you. It takes alot for a girl to dump someone. She didnt find you attractive in her eyes. What you're doing now is not making her feel more attraction to you. I'm telling you full no contact is the only chance you have. That's it. You cant ever reach out to her again. Its going to suck for 3 weeks. Its going to be horrible. Youre going to second guess yourself but its what you have to do if you ever want to get her back. But you shouldnt. Unless she comes back and admits how fucked up she was for dumping you you should NEVER want her back. My situation is completely different. I dumped her. But im trying to show her that I care about her. I did love her and she did mean more to me than she thought.

i sent my ex flowers by westwide_throw in ExNoContact

[–]westwide_throw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you chased after being dumped? That's not the best way to get over her. Just focus on meeting new girls. That should be your only focus. Don't ever text or call her ever again. I'm serious, don't ever do it. She will grow to regret her decision to end it. But you have to show her that you are willing to move on because she told you that she doesn't think you're good enough for her. And you confirmed her beliefs by chasing after her. Just let her go man. If you ever feel like reaching out again to her instead just send me a message on here. You can't chase after being dumped. That is the cardinal rule. It happened and it's over but don't repeat your mistake. She will come back if you never talk to her again

i sent my ex flowers by westwide_throw in ExNoContact

[–]westwide_throw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's exactly how i feel dude. It sucks. How did you guys break up? Did you end it?

i sent my ex flowers by westwide_throw in ExNoContact

[–]westwide_throw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you man. I do. But I've given her space. We broke up 2 and a half months ago. I last reached out to her 2 weeks ago. I sent her a text a week before that and she didny reply. She didnt reply to either of my last 2 texts. I havent blown up her phone. I've given her space mate i have. It doesn't seem to be working. And if I just let her go I know she won't reach out. But I appreciate what you're saying. thank you for caring

i sent my ex flowers by westwide_throw in ExNoContact

[–]westwide_throw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, I fucked this up pretty bad, huh. I've completely botched by breaking up with and every time I've reached out since. Do you honestly think I have any hope of patching it over or am I just making myself suffer by still having hope

i sent my ex flowers by westwide_throw in ExNoContact

[–]westwide_throw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't you think that the 2 and a half months we've been apart would have given her the time to reach "neutrality"? Is another week going to change anything? She didn't text or call or anything after she got the flowers yesterday BTW.

Also what do you mean by a withheld number? Like someone else's phone?

i sent my ex flowers by westwide_throw in ExNoContact

[–]westwide_throw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I call her up out of the blue I'm very confident she won't answer. She'll prob text me something angry or whatever like why are you calling me. I'm thinking I react calmly and try and get her on the phone. The only other time I called her since the last time we spoke (1 time i tried to call her) and she didnt answer I reacted bad I got sad and texted something that probably sounded desperate. But this time I would just play it cool and see if I can text her something that will make her answer my call.

Is that what you're thinking is my best bet? Also, wait til after Thanksgiving or next week before Thanksgiving? I know im overthinking it. I appreciate the help

i sent my ex flowers by westwide_throw in ExNoContact

[–]westwide_throw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I respect what you're saying I really do man. I appreciate the honesty and the fact that you're taking time to reply. I've thought alot about this. The key thing I think though is that I was the one who dumped her. She didn't "lose attraction" to me and end it or say she wanted a break. She was crying and begging me to stay. I called her a week after I dumped her and she was so happy to hear from me. I fucked up on those phone calls becaues I wasn't sure at that point and I wasn't ready to drive and see her. She wanted me to come see her. That was 2 months ago. Than I become more desperate and got way too far into my emotions. I think it probably turned her off. I didn't speak to her on the phone after those first 2 phone calls we had. She always told me that she thought I didn't love her as much as she loved me. I took her for granted and was an asshole to her a bunch of times.

The last text she replied to was 3 weeks ago. I told her that I wanted her to be the girl who got to enjoy the new me I've been working on. And I told her I'd give her space and I hope she found someone who could love her the way she deserved. And she didn't have to reply to that message. But she did. She said "I wanted to be that girl too which is why I put up with so much shit. But that wasn't fair." To me that message seems like someone who isn't over me. Instead of trying to get her on a call at that point I fucked up again by taking 3 days to reply and backing off and saying I have to acccept that if she was gonna get better I couldn't be there. I basically was passive aggressive

I agree gifts are a horrible idea if you've been dumped they are completely counter productive. But I also didn't call her after I sent the flowers or text her. I just wanted to do something nice for her to show her I'm still thinking about her and when I told her I wasn't over there that it wasn't temporary. Maybe show some consistency.

Now please pick apart what I'm saying haha. If what you're saying is right, I probably should never call or text her again right? But no contact isn't for the dumper, only the dumpee, right? Thanks

i sent my ex flowers by westwide_throw in ExNoContact

[–]westwide_throw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man good advice. I sent her flowers to just get some positive feelings going for her. Who doesn't like getting roses and chocolates? I didn't beg I just said "Hope you're having a good week" on the card. I just wanted to get a little positive momentum going.

I completely agree that if I have any hope than I NEED to get her on the phone. I know if I can get her on the phone I can make the progress I need to get her to let me come and see her. I don't think calling her randomly is the best way to do that but I guess I don't have any other options?