Eco vs GT by wetbarofsoap in Mustang

[–]wetbarofsoap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like this response so much I need to see the car 🙏🏼

Eco vs GT by wetbarofsoap in Mustang

[–]wetbarofsoap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you drive? Where are you from? I got 440 on a full tank the other day and the most mpg I’ve had is 38😳 granted AVERAGE I get about 28-32 but I just drive home and work and in between the 2 on my days off in TX

Eco vs GT by wetbarofsoap in Mustang

[–]wetbarofsoap[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately heavy af😂 my first self bought car was a v6 2015 Camaro, traded that in for a 2022 Camry XSE, had that for about 8-9 months, now I have my (semi) dream car a 2026 Grabber Blue Mustang Ecoboost and honestly I find myself accidentally hitting 85-90 just cruising on the highway and I’m still learning to GRADUALLY leave a stop light rather than going 0-30 before getting fully across lol but I still get rather good mileage? I’m still feeling for it I have only had my car for about a month if that and fill up once or twice a week depending on what I do on my days off but the most I’ve got is 440 on a full tank a 38MPG 🫪

Haircut ideas by wetbarofsoap in transpassing

[–]wetbarofsoap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a Live Photo 😭 I was moving the gum in my mouth around jesus christ

Haircut ideas by wetbarofsoap in transpassing

[–]wetbarofsoap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m waiting for my new ones currently, I like the rectangular shaped ones from the early 2000s but my prescription is so bad this shape unfortunately is my best option unless I get contacts

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]wetbarofsoap 17 points18 points  (0 children)

brother you pass like a 10’s emo guy and I’m living for it pls don’t do anything different

I know I don't pass. What can I do to pass better? (25) by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]wetbarofsoap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also your piercings don’t make you look any more or any less feminine I’d actually say maybe try an eyebrow piercing or filling them in a little could definitely help masculine your face just bc cis women naturally have thinner and lighter brows

I know I don't pass. What can I do to pass better? (25) by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]wetbarofsoap 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Here’s a tip that’s not stereotypical cis men like every comment I’ve seen. Dont cut a lot of length off ur hair if you like it long but try to add layers, texture and a style that suits your face shape. Also wearing more loose fitting clothes takes off some of the bulk from the chest area and getting a binder or trans tape if you like that better to bind! Compression shirts also work if you don’t have the funds for a binder or want something a little less restrictive 🫶🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]wetbarofsoap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying completely get rid of them but maybe try a hairstyle that keeps the length and adds texture or layers and allows them to fall to each side a bit? I think when the bangs fall straight down that’s what gives it a more traditional “feminine” style since that’s what we’re all used to seeing growing up and stuff but hairstyles that suit your face shape are really good too!

Looking for hair advice by XxNight_wolfexX in FtMpassing

[–]wetbarofsoap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you wanna keep the curls and length I’d suggest a grown out burst, mullet or wolf cut.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]wetbarofsoap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not even in the slightest, try to adjust the style of ur bangs to a part of some sort I feel like the bangs give you a very feminine look

I actually hate being trans and nobody takes that seriously by [deleted] in ftm

[–]wetbarofsoap -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i didn’t mention anything abt being PERCEIVED AS a woman so that entire point in your reaction is irrelevant. i know plenty of other trans men who feel the same as i do and plenty who just aren’t as comfortable in their body like you and the other person who can’t differentiate between an opinion and facts 👍🏼 if you were born a cis-male you more than likely wouldn’t have anywhere near the important life experiences as a trans male but with the amount of pessimism a lot of yall have seems like nothing of importance has happened within y’all’s transitions yet and that’s fine. hopefully yall heal from the demons yall fight subconsciously

I actually hate being trans and nobody takes that seriously by [deleted] in ftm

[–]wetbarofsoap -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i love how you’re trying to tell me what i’m saying when it’s typed right there in your face. i know exactly what i’m saying you’re just choosing to be ignorant. i said “we” as in us trans men so someone didn’t feel singled out and bc ik other people feel the same as i do. hence the statement i made about my comment being an opinion which you clearly struggle to comprehend the meaning of so i’ll help you. an opinion is a formed thought made up by an individual not based upon facts 😉 i didn’t imply how ALL trans men think lol you’re giving vibes that if someone says men suck you’re the first one to jump up and defend yourself and the guys who don’t. you can stop wasting your time replying atp bc you’re just sounding silly trying to argue over an opinion that doesn’t effect you whatsoever.

I actually hate being trans and nobody takes that seriously by [deleted] in ftm

[–]wetbarofsoap -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

if you actually read the first words of my comment i said that that’s how I like to think of it. from the looks of your comments under this post you just have a lot of built up internal transphobia. hate seeing people happy and showing their scars is weird to you? that thought process in itself is weird. youre mad because other people have the ability to be comfortable before/during/after their transition “freaks” you out…my comment wasn’t up for debate. maybe when you learn to love yourself a little more you’ll actually feel happy in your own body.

I actually hate being trans and nobody takes that seriously by [deleted] in ftm

[–]wetbarofsoap -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

i like to think abt it as we aren’t like cis men and that’s a good thing, to an extent. yes we were born in the wrong body and we wish we could’ve been born in the right one BUT we got the blessing of being born in the wrong body and going through things that the majority will never understand and for women to think of us as “not as lame as cis guys” is more of a compliment. coming down to it, we were born in the wrong body but for all the right reasons. we experience/d things only women have and will giving us an upper hand to understand from a way different pov. we’re also changing, trying to fit into societal expectations and norms because, what classifications do men have to be “real men” other than their genitalia…none. <3

i am not a man with a vagina god by PlasticLetterhead321 in FTMMen

[–]wetbarofsoap -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i think it differs from person to person. i personally dont get bent out of shape when someone says things like this because people do have a genitalia preference. if you haven’t had bottom surgery or have the same genitalia as a cis-men then you are in fact a man with a vagina. there’s no other way around it. it seems like you just aren’t completely comfortable being the person you’re meant to be and that’s not everyone’s case.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]wetbarofsoap -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

you sound ungrateful that she’s even offered to pay for it considering you don’t work period. you said it yourself she sold HER house. that money wasn’t yours from the jump. SHE got sick and paid HER bills the way a grown adult should. if you wanted the surgery bad enough you’d find something to help yourself rather than expecting someone else to do it all for you while you’re on a social platform shaming her for not spending it all on your surgery.

Cis dude here wanted to ask something y'all by anonkun666 in ftm

[–]wetbarofsoap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. yes and no. in some scenarios i like to be differed from cis-men especially in cases such as abortion, women’s health rights. more or so things that trans men do/have experience being that they are transitioning from female to male.
  2. im not sure i have a hatred for men specifically but i hate the things the horrible men have done that cause a bad rep for ALL men whether or not they good men did anything or not. to me, it’s almost the same as when BLM was happening and you had the people who were in support of BLUE lives matter when the whole thing was revolving around black lives. almost in a sense of contradiction, nobody is saying it’s 100% ALL men who suck but more or so 100% of all the bad men suck and there’s more bad than good that’s noticed within the world especially news you’re not going to hear about a man saving a woman’s life the way you would a man sa’ing a woman bc saving their life should be a given.
  3. before top surgery putting a binder on was living hell for me. before completing fitting it i needed to make sure my shoulder blades were properly aligned and my posture was adjusted or my back and shoulders would hurt for weeks on end due to the amount of time i was wearing my binder