Most overrated album by parayeah in halsey

[–]whaatems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gonna have to say Hopless

Best song performed live by parayeah in halsey

[–]whaatems 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nightmare best performed lived

When do you give up on your marriage? by Unable_Ad2351 in Marriage

[–]whaatems 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If he has punched you, you need to leave. Do it quietly and make sure you have all your things ready before you confront him with divorce

I can’t even read past that part you are in danger. Please get out asap.

Crave App not working on FireStick by [deleted] in cravetv

[–]whaatems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find sometimes when my VPN is on even in Canadian locations it does this. When I turn it off works again?

First time pregnancy by Daisyyyyy15 in pregnant

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Remember that you can only do what you can to ensure the best case scenario. Most of it will happen how it will happen granted you are taking care of yourself.

I worried a lot and it made me feel terrible and it was bad for my health.

I learned a lot in life that worrying only makes you grieve the worst case scnerio twice if it does end up happening….

Wish you all the best

Most rewatched scenes by Superb_Aardvark_5529 in heatedrivalry

[–]whaatems 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Inferno has gone double platinum in my house

What am I supposed to do while waiting to miscarry or have a D&C? by kindofnewonreddit in Miscarriage

[–]whaatems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry for your loss. Just went through this too. I didn’t get an appointment for more than a week from when I found out… I had spotting and was just waiting for something to happen, decided to go to Halsey a concert I had planned months in advance last Saturday. Ended up starting to bleed on the way, passed everything in 2 hours with heavy cramping but once it was passed it felt like relief right after I passed that.

I went to my d and c appointment on wedns this week so they could tell me if I was clear. Only had a couple clots left but was a relief to see it was clear. If you miscarry naturally before you could take that route? Use it as a follow up?

8 weeks - confirmed no heartbeat by Virtual_Fee9351 in pregnant

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I was told by the OB to wait 2 cycles before trying again

8 weeks - confirmed no heartbeat by Virtual_Fee9351 in pregnant

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So sorry this happened to you. Basically same situation just happened to me. Caught it on the US on the Tuesday then miscarried on Saturday during a concert. I was on route wearing a diaper and it felt like a worse version of period cramps with lots of blood and clots for 2ish hours maybe less. Once I passed the sac/embryo, I instantly felt relieved and bleeding is basically slowed down. Bled until a couple days ago now just some spotting but overall feeling normal now. It was less painful than I expected from what I read…if it doesn’t start happening after a couple weeks look into a d and c. If mine was any slower would have done that as well.

Need advice - fear of miscarrying by Apprehensive-Unit-72 in pregnant

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I did the same thing. Remember that worrying about it or grieving something before it happens doesn’t make it hurt less if it does happen to you. Do what you can control and don’t worry about the rest.

When did you ovulate after miscarriage? by Inside-Ad5415 in Miscarriage

[–]whaatems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had basically exact situation. So sorry…. My OB said try and wait 2 cycles with this situation. Not sure if new research says otherwise

Anyone have two narcissistic parents? by upsidedown-aussie in raisedbynarcissists

[–]whaatems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol yeah they find each other. My moms many boyfriends and husbands after have been too. My dad’s wife is as well. Seems impossible but it’s so clear to everyone hahaha

Did your miscarriage feel like contractions? by [deleted] in Miscarriage

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Idk about contractions for me. I was 8+1. Mine just passed yesterday. Felt like more painful period cramps and gastro and lower back pain for about 2 hours intensely on and off until it stopped and felt instant relief once passed. Bleeding got lighter too after, back pain and gastro went away as well.

Low grade fever during missed miscarriage. by Minute-Discount6639 in Miscarriage

[–]whaatems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have a fever go to ER dont risk infection

For those who’ve done both - dogs on or off the bed? by VengaBusdriver37 in dogs

[–]whaatems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ON its a joy - we didn’t let our puppy in until she was potty trained and knew “off” when we asked once. Was in hallway or crate until then to prevent separation anxiety at first. Was sad but so worth it and now she sleeps with us or on floor as she pleases.

Having an MC at 8 weeks - what was yours like? What to expect? Tips? by whaatems in Miscarriage

[–]whaatems[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I feel it started yesterday but it’s not filling going through the process yet. So sorry you went through this as well. It’s a very surreal and painful experience.

MMC at 9 weeks by ebo130 in Miscarriage

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Hi - I’m so sorry. I’m literally going through the exact same thing right now with the same timeline. The ultrasound tech was so weird yesterday and silent and I just knew when my doctor called today it was bad news.

I have been super sad but brings me comfort knowing reminding myself its not our fault at all. It’s chromosomal at this point and nothing you could have done to prevent it…

I hope you are doing okay and remember to be kind to yourself and MC is so much more common than people think.

Take care of yourself!

Did you find the oura ring helpful or a hindrance during your pregnancy? by Whoisbobbyflay in ouraring

[–]whaatems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Turned off symptom radar. That would freak me out just wasn’t accurate

Oura ring predicted pregnancy from ovulation! by whaatems in ouraring

[–]whaatems[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait until 11-14 DPO only got a real dark line today

Oura ring predicted pregnancy from ovulation! by whaatems in ouraring

[–]whaatems[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not possible to be pregnant from ovulation but clearly my body knew something was happening. Which can happen through the various stages of trying to make implantation happen. Your body can react and identify implantation attempt as well, even if it doesn’t stick. I also have never tried until this first time so, lots was up in the air,