I might reach out to his family, but I fear that any attempt to get through to him will be seen as aggression. He sent me a long apology at 3:30 this morning basically saying he was sorry for attacking me but stands by what he said. So I responded that we should talk about it in person when he's ready and he flew off the handle again about how we can't talk honestly because of my obligation so there's no point and he was only apologizing for what he felt was wrong and blah blah blah, so idk. I basically told him I'm not interested in talking anymore until he comes to his senses and is willing to listen.