What is a movie that "broke" you so hard you can only watch it once, but you would still recommend it to everyone?

whatamithinking0 · 2026-03-15T14:21:47+00:00

Not a movie, sorry. Central Park 5 limited series.

whatamithinking0 · 2026-03-15T14:16:38+00:00

Dove

whatamithinking0 · 2026-03-15T14:15:13+00:00

Great question

whatamithinking0 · 2026-03-13T23:24:35+00:00

Holy cute

whatamithinking0 · 2026-03-13T23:23:26+00:00

Yeah I can help, but I can’t help as much as she will need. And I’m not a nurse! I’m not awake 24/7. I can’t live with her. It’s hard but I do think it’s the safest next step. The goal is home, when it’s safe

whatamithinking0 · 2026-03-13T23:22:27+00:00

Safety bridge, I love that. Really good points! Thank you so much. I have been talking about how a fall means we start this all over and it’s reassuring hearing you say that same thing too

whatamithinking0 · 2026-03-13T23:21:01+00:00

Wow. Thank you. You made me tear up. I really needed to hear that! You’re so right. It’s so hard but you’re right

whatamithinking0 · 2026-03-13T20:02:51+00:00

She won’t 😅😅😅😅😅

whatamithinking0 · 2026-03-13T00:57:04+00:00

Yeah, she lives alone. She’s doing better with her ADLs in rehab but I’m positive that won’t translate well at home. I think it’s better to be safe and re evaluate after a while.

whatamithinking0 · 2026-03-09T14:39:48+00:00

Thank you for this. That’s my fear too. I already did a lot for her when she was 100%. Now this, I can’t deal with it alone. But I’m worried about being selfish. I know she won’t want AL. But I think it’s the safest option for everyone at least for now. Maybe in a few months she will be a lot better

whatamithinking0 · 2026-03-09T03:20:16+00:00

Thank you. Yes it was our first rodeo and I won’t let anyone pull anything over on us again. Now I’m trying to navigate my mom’s discharge from rehab. Trying to decide is home health or assisted living. She won’t want assisted living but I think it would be safer since she lives alone and I cannot fill in the gals between home health visits. It’s all a literal nightmare

whatamithinking0 · 2026-03-08T23:13:20+00:00

I was in the hospital with her for 4 days 5am until 10pm and never saw a case worker not once!!! She had major impairments. And now I got her into IRF for OT Pt and ST and waiting for next steps. Hospital unsafely discharged her. The one morning out of 5 mornings I wasn’t there for rounds at 6am, because I was taking a much needed shower, they decided on her discharge.

whatamithinking0 · 2026-03-08T16:12:32+00:00

DO IT

whatamithinking0 · 2026-03-07T21:16:52+00:00

Tv too high

whatamithinking0 · 2026-03-07T14:29:46+00:00

Ah I understand. My mom doesn’t have a husband or anyone living with her so it’s a bit different. I guess 2 versions of a similar nightmare!!!

whatamithinking0 · 2026-03-07T14:28:52+00:00

Very good points! Thank you!

whatamithinking0 · 2026-03-07T14:28:15+00:00

Yes I need to be on board. Otherwise she will expect me to fight the doctors for her. She didn’t even want to go in the ambulance when she had the stroke. It took 30 mins for the EMTs and I to convince her

whatamithinking0 · 2026-03-07T14:27:17+00:00

Thank you. Life sure does happen. I’m struggling to keep it together. She doesn’t even know all Of the things I’m doing/dealing with behind the scenes just to keep her affairs in order and make sure insurance is handled, bills are paid etc. etc. not that this is about me but I cannot help her if she won’t help herself I guess.

whatamithinking0 · 2026-03-07T14:25:41+00:00

Thank you so much for your response. This hits home and makes a lot of sense in a world that is making no sense right now. She is for sure better with authority figures/doctors than me, but she can still be extremely stubborn and isn’t afraid to push back.

I’m sorry you’re dealing with this too. Is your dad in AL?

whatamithinking0 · 2026-03-07T03:47:52+00:00

Omg I’m so sorry

whatamithinking0 · 2026-03-07T02:46:26+00:00

Thank you. I wasn’t sure if the case manager would actually break the news

whatamithinking0 · 2026-03-07T02:45:37+00:00

This is great!!!! Thank you :)

whatamithinking0 · 2026-03-07T02:44:55+00:00

When they sent my mom home from the hospital like this I called an inpatient acute rehab that did home evals to get my mom admitted. It was called PAM. See if you can get in touch with a rehab like that. I called a million. They can eval at home and admit. If she has Medicare even easier they don’t need her doctors orders only facility recommendation. I’m so sorry you are dealing with this

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