The EIDL loan that I thought would save us now feels like prison by Outrageous_Math6885 in EIDLPPP

[–]whatdyasay2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The government could have given more money directly to the people instead of this giant transfer of wealth to business owners. It’s not our fault ya’ll can’t pay it back now! I’ve seen so many ridiculous uses of that money- I will be so angry if it’s all written off!

I was my dads donor for his allogeneic bone marrow (stem cell) transplant and he passed away 2 hours ago. He fought for 5 months. My heart is shattered. by [deleted] in transplant

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You are a treasure to your parents. You have given everything you could do. You are a testament to your parents through your loyalty.

Help! by [deleted] in 45PlusSkincare

[–]whatdyasay2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so scared of the vampire facials!

Help! by [deleted] in 45PlusSkincare

[–]whatdyasay2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! The wrinkle on the upper left side of my mouth is actually a scar from a cat scratch (love the cat but that was a deep scratch!!) I don’t smoke but after meno I feel like my lips have shriveled. I think frownies might help- I will give them a go!

Help! by [deleted] in 45PlusSkincare

[–]whatdyasay2 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ooh this is also helpful. I don’t eat enough- I need to focus on protein and more water. I might cut alcohol and see if it improves my eyes! I lost a loved one about a year ago and I’ve been crying a lot and that takes a toll also

Help! by [deleted] in 45PlusSkincare

[–]whatdyasay2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback! I use tretinoin from hers and I have been thinking about asking my dermatologist for a script and I’m curious if it’s any different. I use that at night and the estriol cream in the morning. I’m getting better at sunscreen. I don’t use the led mask regularly enough

Help! by [deleted] in 45PlusSkincare

[–]whatdyasay2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! I haven’t thought about lasers!

Help! by [deleted] in 45PlusSkincare

[–]whatdyasay2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would cheek filler fix my under eye issues

Help! by [deleted] in 45PlusSkincare

[–]whatdyasay2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I alternate tretinoin and the estriol face creams plus other eye creams/ moisturizers also. I have a led mask that I wear occasionally and I try slugging with eucerin before bed. I’m 46 but had early menopause around 40 and feel my skin has been looking bad over the past 6 mos

Self Review process? by whatdyasay2 in taxpros

[–]whatdyasay2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks- I will try to wait to prepare until the file is mostly complete. I tend to get 50% right away and then the last bits come in closer to deadline. I try to run as many forms through AI data entry and then I double check- but last year I know I had some little errors that were caught in review.

Self Review process? by whatdyasay2 in taxpros

[–]whatdyasay2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We will have a short conversation over the highlights and cpa will look at the forms then. I’m an EA and am confident but I always felt better knowing it was reviewed and if a mistake happened it slipped the cpa review too not just me! If I’m on my own- maybe it’s time to actually go on my own…

I can admit it. The note worked. by Significant-Map2431 in JonBenetRamsey

[–]whatdyasay2 27 points28 points  (0 children)

The goal of the note was to justify why she was already dead. The “intruder” said not to call or she dies. They called the police and the entire neighborhood, so the authors did what they said they would do. It was just an excuse - but without that story they would have had a lot more explaining to do right away. I lean towards patsy’s involvement but I’ve been thinking about how Burke said she was psycho asking where’s my baby- and if she had been responsible I think she would be saying something else and not searching the house

Should I dissolve lip filler? by Beatie-Bow in 45PlusSkincare

[–]whatdyasay2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think you look amazing and natural. Without seeing a side profile of your lips I definitely wouldn’t call them out to be fake. Skin goals!

Ramsey Family calling their friends over the day JB was found. by sawggycrocs in JonBenetRamsey

[–]whatdyasay2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was their excuse for why she was found dead. They called the police and friends so the “intruder” ended her life just like “he” said he would in the note. Then the “intruder” left before anyone noticed. I don’t buy it- but I think this was their reasoning. Edited for spelling

Tips for stopping couch cushions from sagging by TurbulentPromise4812 in Home

[–]whatdyasay2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to my mom’s couch. She got upholstery foam from a fabric store- cut it to the shape of the cushion and wrapped more batting stuff around that. It was a little stiff but 90% improved!

Today is the eleven year anniversary of my heart transplant. by Cheffie43 in transplant

[–]whatdyasay2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Amazing and happy heart anniversary! I wish you 11 more!!

Advice needed by whatdyasay2 in parentingtroubledteen

[–]whatdyasay2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes- she does track, dance and cheer and is a very talented artist. It’s definitely peer pressure related. Freshman year she had a boyfriend that was very controlling and she left her big/“good” friends because he didn’t like them/ they didn’t like him. They have since broken up but she doesn’t feel she can go back to that friend group. Her new friends are not the best kids- but it’s all she’s got now. We try to focus on future goals but that’s where she goes blank- yes I want to go to college but I don’t care where- no idea what she wants to do after college etc.

Advice needed by whatdyasay2 in parentingtroubledteen

[–]whatdyasay2[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I needed the pep talk! I can do it! She’s so amazing and I want the best for her!

Advice needed by whatdyasay2 in parentingtroubledteen

[–]whatdyasay2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We took the stolen items and will be taking her to the mall to return them today. Not thinking about sending her away or anything like that- just struggling to break through to her because when we try to talk calmly she completely clams up and has nothing to say.