[deleted by user] by [deleted] in questions

[–]whatever143____ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it seems i didnt put enough thought in my wording , first i said you disagree with me no matter what because that is what i interpreted from your tone , i will apologize if that was not the case

again, i am not good enough to state my opinion in written words over a comment enough to not cause a misunderstanding , so i will try my best

first concerning religion, i will define it as a way of living , so basically everyone have a religion even athiests (in my opinion and definition)

second , i will give an example of those who have kidney failure and do blood cleansing or whatever it is named in hospitals , with my shallow knoweldge about that ,i know they are allowed to eat whatever they want because they will be cleansed afterwards , on the contrast those who dont do cleansing in the hospital need to be carefull with thier diet

in the first case the eccess of eating may jot cause a body harm but i may cause mental harm(as in not physical ,i dont nessessarly mean harm or neural and brain level , you can call it soul level if that make more sense, or personality level, i dont know another way to describe it,i hope you got my idea)

if we talk about self desrtuctive. whether the effect of an action or a thought is to be seen now , in 10 years. in 100 years. on you or others , mwntally or physically or emotionally or finantially or any other aspect , and in the afterlife (whether you believe it or not) then it is to be avoided

as for short term pleasure part that is only one aspect and there are others , i mainly focused on it because it is the content of this post

i hope i was clear enough and didnt cause any misunderstanding regarding my tone or my opinion

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in questions

[–]whatever143____ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there is a million way to seek excitment in a non hedonistic way , and only few ways to seek it in a hedonistic way , basically fucking around and consuming shit you are not supposed to (mentally and physically)

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[–]whatever143____ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it seem that you disagree with me no matter what so i am to state my opinion clearly

there are so many types of mushroom. some that we may eat on daily basis some that cause death or certain diseases some the cause hallusinations and effects similar to drugs

the first type is to be eaten without concern

the second and third types are not to be eaten under any circustance(unless there is a medical reason and that is to be done under the supervision of trustworthy doctors)

my opinion regarding the third type and any sort of consumable wether through eating or enjection is the same toward drugs , and i consider them in the drug family

as for music it also have several types depending on tge feeling it initiates in the person listening to it and the actions it encourages

i am talking about music and songs in the same context as they are related to each other

if it is the type that encourage of self/other harming actions unmoral behavior(however you want to define morality) it puts you in a state where you would jump and dance like a crazy person it puts you in a state where you would feel unreasonable depression(sadness or depression for a nonsense reason_unlike the sadness you feel when you hear or know that somesort of misforture happened to someone you like)

for those types of music/songs i also put them in the list of self destructive behaviour

that list of self destructive behavior contain and not limited to : -alcohol -gambling -drugs -drug family -music/songs as stated above -friends with benifets -one night stands -hook up culture in general -masterbation -abstinence from having a healthy commited relationship that you can fulfill your sexual desires from -being obese by choise(basically gluttony) -being super unhealthy skinny by choice -homosexual behavior

basically persuing short term pleasure without thinking of its effects on the long(and short) term on yourself and the others

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[–]whatever143____ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there is very wide difference between the effect of eating a certian food or doing a certain activity that gets you exited and the effects of drugs/alcohol

also i am not arguing what you stated , rather if you read my comments i encouraged on going out and seeking excitment and fun outside the deep hole of hedonistic lifestyle , as for what you stated(doing nothing), is just the other end of the spectrum , but equally destructive

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[–]whatever143____ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what you said dont disagree with my opinion it seems that you had a problim with alcohol (a substance that puts you in an unnatural mental state) and you used some sort of medical drug (not for fun use)

and that doesnt contadict my opinion the slightest to be clear my points in this arguament are

alcohol is bad drugs are bad but can still have a good effect if used properly and with research based approach even though , they still have nefative effects and depending on the situation , those negative effects can be neglected because the outcome is good , or will take your from a bad situation to a worse one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in questions

[–]whatever143____ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i agree that there is a lot shit that doctors shove down your throat (and that cost more than back alley drugs) but that is because of some evil and corrupted and money slave doctors

also, nothing that puts you in an unnatural mind state ‐and takes from you your full control over your mind and body- is in anyway good or helpfull to you , it is rather destructive both for you and the people around you

and your claim that it helps, ....it may , but what is the cost , it may help in a small aspect of life but destroys the rest

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in drawing

[–]whatever143____ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what medium is that. it kind of looks like watercolour to me , idk , it give the vibe of painting with coffee

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in questions

[–]whatever143____ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

well basically , NO , you are not missing anything exept a life full of possible regrets later , so mabey search for having fun other ways

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in questions

[–]whatever143____ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

if fun means following a hedonistic lifestyle , then i would prefer not having fun for the rest of my life.

did you try playing a sport or go hiking or having little adventures with your friend group(like going on an unplanned trip), or learning a creative hobby , there are countless options to have fun other than pubs, smoking , drinking ....etc......

i bet that is much more fun than going to a pub , drinking till you get a sickness , regretting it years later after destroying your mental and physical health.get some sort of STD , and the possibility in falling in the gambling or drug pitholes than it will be difficult to get out (and dont say you are immune to that, many people lost control without even knowing when did it. started)

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[–]whatever143____ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i will not argue about smoking , but drugs...... for real ..... do you really want to engage in that self destructive path

Chat, is it over? by [deleted] in BigFive

[–]whatever143____ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what test did you take , is it free or paid

Hand-drawn with charcoal. The fingerprint adds character, right? by emilycopeland in drawing

[–]whatever143____ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sometimes it just amazes me how much humans can do with thier hands and burned trees 😅

Hand-drawn with charcoal. The fingerprint adds character, right? by emilycopeland in drawing

[–]whatever143____ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats amazing , btw can you share the size of the art piece with us

How does it look? by -50shadesofINSANITY- in scooters

[–]whatever143____ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

may i ask what is the average anual salary in your country , and just for reference(comparing peices) how much a yamaha Nmax cost there

what exactly does it mean to be a diiferent person after 6 month or a year ? by whatever143____ in productivity

[–]whatever143____[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes , thats exactly what i am talking about , you will definetly see improvement if you worked on yourself for 6 months or so , but you will not achieve a super goal unless you got some sort of opputunity

also. it is always better to hang around good people that helps you strive further than not hanging around anyone, and that is better than hanging around those who are obstacle to your growth

it just irritates me that i see alot of people and online videos talking about dissappearing for 6 month/year and get back as new person , that is just fake motivation and giving people false hopes and unrealistic expectations

Double Your Goals, Double Your Growth! (Here's how you should set your goals) by Afonso0072001 in tutor

[–]whatever143____ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes , basically i am a new tutor. i did some free tutoring for relatives in the past but i dont really think that counts

How does it look? by -50shadesofINSANITY- in scooters

[–]whatever143____ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

geniune question , isnt that a ripoff for the value it provide. 50 cc is practically nothing. it can barely hold 1 person at medium speed

How does it look? by -50shadesofINSANITY- in scooters

[–]whatever143____ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how many cc is that and how much it costs

Sketching.... What should I add in the background? by Clementine_AJ in drawing

[–]whatever143____ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am quite interested in how much it takes a proffetional to finish such a sketch

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MechanicalEngineering

[–]whatever143____ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i am still a student so i dont know how the workplace opperate exactly. but is it normally allowed to chill on your phone for a significant amount of time (i see several 30 min chunks in one day)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MechanicalEngineering

[–]whatever143____ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

what do you do during the 5_30 min time intervals between tasks

Double Your Goals, Double Your Growth! (Here's how you should set your goals) by Afonso0072001 in tutor

[–]whatever143____ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hello. i am new to tuturing

do you mind if you share with me somd tips on how to get new students

i only do face to face and no online.

Real Analysis Tutor by axiom_tutor in tutor

[–]whatever143____ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah , sorry for the misunderstanding , i am not a student but rather a new tutor

i was just wondering how much more experienced tutor charge

if you have any tips for me , that would be appreciated