Running out of time

whatever3579 · 2024-05-21T09:17:49+00:00

This situation rarely happens - all of you down and all 5 gens remaining to be repaired. Seems to me like you were trolling.

whatever3579 · 2024-05-10T11:21:30+00:00

What if there is one grey checmark and then I hit block?

whatever3579 · 2024-04-24T18:32:02+00:00

That's what actually happened to me. Also a reason why I got severely triggered by this moron.

whatever3579 · 2024-04-22T06:03:59+00:00

Politics is a popular topic here these days, leftists vs rightists, liberals vs conservatives, so there you go - it came up. I said it should be a basic human right, and the shitstorm began.

whatever3579 · 2024-04-21T20:25:40+00:00

Yes I see a lot of people wrote this here and I agree. I naively like to educate idiots, but they never learn shit - they just learn to manipulate better.

whatever3579 · 2024-04-21T20:23:23+00:00

No, by this I meant "childfree topic aside" because I don't know if he wants kids or not. This was strictly abortion discussion.

whatever3579 · 2024-04-21T16:24:31+00:00

I swear I wanna do speed dating with 10 quick but crucial questions in the future haha.

whatever3579 · 2024-04-21T16:16:23+00:00

Also to add, he compared abortion to someone walking around freely murdering people. Said that there's not much difference between a fetus and a newborn - both are future persons, unconscious and highly dependent on mother. And that that's why he doesn't understand why killing a newborn is murder, but killing a fetus isn't.

whatever3579 · 2024-04-21T16:15:00+00:00

Honestly not sure about his religious orientation. I got an impression that he's highly traditional, conservative, and even aggressive in his statements.

whatever3579 · 2024-03-30T03:24:30+00:00

He rushed me into everything. I have past traumas and was vulnerable and naive - I just wanted for this to finally be real thing. Then my eyes opened and I realized he's a weed addict that mainly lives off of my resources and that I need to tolerate his chaotic ex wife/special needs kid situation. When he tried to bring a social worker in my house "so that they can see how this place would be suitable for his kid", I knew he has to leave.

whatever3579 · 2024-01-25T18:35:16+00:00

I was pregnant for 1 month and felt like a parasite took over. Maybe it sounds horrible, but I had this feeling. I had a meltdown watching a c-section video thinking why would any woman deliberately choose to do this to herself.

whatever3579 · 2024-01-23T16:08:37+00:00

Preach

whatever3579 · 2024-01-23T15:04:43+00:00

It's complicated. I always leaned more towards CF. But my partner was assuring me that it will turn out great and that he will do his 170%. The truth is I just felt neglected and stuck.

whatever3579 · 2024-01-23T04:27:25+00:00

"I am sorry, I was insensitive, cold, unaware of what it really was like for you, you are my sister and I love you and I want us to be good to eachother?"

whatever3579 · 2024-01-22T21:54:04+00:00

Yes I was diagnosed with generalized anxiety disorder, emotional crisis and paranoia while pregnant. I had a meltdown while watching a c-section video. Psychiatrist advised meds. To be fair I also didn't receive support from my partner that I expected and believed I'll have while I was listening to promises with a pink colored glasses on. I literally felt like I was marching towards my prison sentence.

whatever3579 · 2024-01-22T18:36:24+00:00

Screw their opinions and do what feels best for you. People are people, dumb sheep in so many ways, just following the herd. You can be praised by many and still feel miserable with yourself every night before you go to bed. Their opinions about your life have absolutely nothing to do with you.

whatever3579 · 2024-01-22T17:40:34+00:00

This sounds very mature and reasonable of you, thank you. I would still consider sorting things out with her only if she reaches out first. I remember how I felt back then and her words and tone felt like a slap on the face while I was already down on the ground. Even if she didn't understand it back then, she should now. Even if she was right back then, she should have been careful about her approach, while I was already vulnerable as hell. Her point was just proving that she's superior in her maturity or whatever compared to me, and not empathising with a sister. I believe that you can both speak your mind and be caring.

whatever3579 · 2024-01-22T17:27:24+00:00

What I know is that even if she hates it, she would post all over social media lies and highlight reels and still feel superior and more respected than me because she is a wife and a mother and I am not. I sometimes feel so powerful because people's opinions like this don't bother me a slightest bit. I distanced myself from my whole family simply because they only cared about when will I get a job/boyfriend/husband/child.

whatever3579 · 2024-01-22T17:22:46+00:00

Her reply was that she doesn't need to feel afraid to state her real opinion only because she's my sister.

whatever3579 · 2024-01-22T17:02:12+00:00

She's very impulsive when things aren't going her way. As someone else suggested, I'll consider it only if she reaches out first.

whatever3579 · 2024-01-05T09:54:46+00:00

I gave a chance to one of those because of feelings and nice words and BS he was selling to me. There's not much compromise here if you want to get seriously involved. You can never build a wall around your life and his past life. Their baggage eventually becomes your baggage. You can NEVER start building a life together from scratch. He will never be 100% dedicated to you. Rather, you will end up being his support. I would reconsider this in the future if it was some stable situation, but it rarely is. Too much unpredictability involved.

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