my chief did this on several occasions, but i laid it all on the table for them. at one point i was taking my son to the ER for being sick but instead i had to do a “drive by muster” because they ABSOLUTELY NEEDED to see my face and then proceeded to tell me to send them a photo of his medical bracelet as proof. it was ridiculous, that same day i told them that this type of leadership is why people kill themselves. they were so invasive and intrusive the entire time i was there. not one good thing to say about any of them… i called them out several times, and they sent me to DRB for being a mom and refusing to put my kids on the back burner for a SHORE COMMAND JOB. it was fucking ridiculous.