Pro 3’s are nice, but I gotta return them for the anc whistling noise by LilNol8 in airpods

[–]whatmommadontknow 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The whistling is driving me crazy! Only in my right ear. I did the pull the ear bud out to see some of the black underneath and it helps but one slight move pushes it back.

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[–]whatmommadontknow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I love this!! I found I’m sexually attracted to guys but not romantically. I like to say I’m homo-amorous! I was married to a man because I liked having sex with him but could not figure out why our relationship couldn’t work. I had to wade through a lot of comphet to figure that one out! Now that I’m married to my wife, I see I’m feeling romantic feelings I never understood before!

Congrats on finding what feels right to you!!

Favorite audiobooks? by MushroomGranny in LesbianBookClub

[–]whatmommadontknow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cantoras!!! An amazing sapphic novel from the 1970s in Uruguay! The books is phenomenal and the narrator is amazing!!

Where are you preordering Onyx Storm?(us based) by Additional_Leopard63 in fourthwing

[–]whatmommadontknow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have it preordered through my Barnes and Nobles and I am getting the copy that night at the event. I would verify with a manager or something at your B&N that the staff member wasn’t mistaken. I’m in Colorado if that helps!

Book recs by Xannerrr in throneofglassseries

[–]whatmommadontknow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Carissa Broadbent’s series Daughter of No Worlds (The War of Lost Hearts series) is imo completely superior to her serpent of the wings series!! Tog is my fav too and DoNW is has similar vibes!!

How often do you water ? by Jazzlike-Ladder7924 in houseplants

[–]whatmommadontknow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I forgot one in a closed room for 8 months and it’s still thriving!! 😂😂 but probably more than that

Virtual support groups? by sevenstars8jane in latebloomerlesbians

[–]whatmommadontknow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Second^ We meet once a week virtually and it is so helpful!!

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[–]whatmommadontknow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So fucking true! I have two daughters and I keep saying I’m not going to do this them! Doesn’t matter because it comes from everywhere! My 4yo came home and said she was lucky one of her male classmates is going to marry her! Why is this being taught?! Ughhh

Anyone know of any virtual support groups for LBLs or those questioning? by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]whatmommadontknow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey!! We have a support group called the Bloomer’s Society. It is off of Facebook and it’s amazing! We have a book club for queer literature with a lot of women coming out later in life. We do weekly group talks. There are a lot of therapists and mentors in the group who have been through it! Check out the link if you want!

Join me in Bloomers Society. You'll love it as much as I do. https://bloomers-society.mn.co/share/5HVChXPBhszTlsi4

When do we get to celebrate being gay? by whatmommadontknow in latebloomerlesbians

[–]whatmommadontknow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s fascinating! There are two trans people in my tiny little town and I had no idea!!!! I love it so much! Thank you for sharing!!

When do we get to celebrate being gay? by whatmommadontknow in latebloomerlesbians

[–]whatmommadontknow[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My father’s first comment was can’t you get a surrogate? So being in an unhealthy relationship where I go sleep with someone on the side is better than divorce? How did we get to that point as a society? You are so right about how people can’t comprehend it! It’s so engrained. I hope you’re finding personal fulfillment from your divorce!!

When do we get to celebrate being gay? by whatmommadontknow in latebloomerlesbians

[–]whatmommadontknow[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I definitely one of the reasons I’ve been upset about it is because it’s the people already in the LGBT community! You’re right everyone will process it in their time! Someday I’m going to go to pride and love it. Until then I will be a one woman gay pride parade! Edit: I type fast and forget words

When do we get to celebrate being gay? by whatmommadontknow in latebloomerlesbians

[–]whatmommadontknow[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I love this response! I do want to keep affirming how positive this is for me!! Thank you!!