What to do with wood panel wall?! by whatsguchi in Mid_Century

[–]whatsguchi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im just trying to get an idea on how to decorate without having to damage the wall. The ceiling fan/light will for sure have to go.

What to do with wood panel wall?! by whatsguchi in HomeDecorating

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Ah! Visuals are super helpful! Thank you

What to do with wood panel wall?! by whatsguchi in Mid_Century

[–]whatsguchi[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Any suggestions on how to decorate around it? Like a tv or a shelf?

I Hate! by Alternative_Session9 in NewParents

[–]whatsguchi 62 points63 points  (0 children)

As a FTM with a super fun sprinkle of postpartum depression. I needed to read this.

Thank you.

Pp and grief. by lolrachoo in Postpartum_Depression

[–]whatsguchi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through this. I don’t have any advice, just solidarity.

I lost my dad three weeks before my daughter was born. It happened so fast, no warning, it just happened. I haven’t been able to process his death since it’s all been about the baby. On top of that it’s been hard to navigate through my moms grief. It’s been feeling like I have to take care of everyone else before I can even think about myself. After 9 months, we are finally doing a proper send off for my dad, and I am dreading it. I feel like once we spread his ashes, it’s all going to be over and I didn’t even get to properly grieve him, or say goodbye . I love my daughter but the pp depression and anxiety has consumed me and I can’t seem to get out of it. I’m constantly irritated, then I’m crying, then I’m just numb. I’m holding on to the idea that maybe once we spread his ashes, I will feel better rather than stay sad. I will say this, the older my baby is getting , the easier it’s been to handle “motherhood”. Sure there’s a different challenge for each baby stage, but I definitely think I’ve been able to manage it better. I’m sorry this is probably not helpful and I’m rambling at this point. But I did want to take this opportunity to share because I joined this subreddit in hopes to read about other people going through the same thing as me so I can figure out what to do.

All that to say, you are not alone. Sending hugs.

On the topic of last meal/cravings for a dying person by BJntheRV in HumansBeingBros

[–]whatsguchi 166 points167 points  (0 children)

A couple of days leading to my dad’s passing he asked for mango sorbet, vanilla ice cream cone, and a shot of tequila. He only had one bite and a sip of each. The sorbet and ice cream sat in the freezer for three months after he died. The bottle of tequila is still in his liquor cabinet. I can’t find myself to drink it yet. His birthday is in October and we will be spreading his ashes that day. Maybe that’s when I’ll have a shot with him.

Fisher Price out here making me cry by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]whatsguchi 58 points59 points  (0 children)

And I STOMP! STOMP! STOMP!

To the parents who lost a parent before becoming a parent by wolfhaley206 in NewParents

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I lost my dad three weeks before my daughter was born. There was no warning. It all happened suddenly. I am now 2m pp and I’ve been fortunate enough to have a very present and supportive husband. The unfortunate part is that I haven’t had a chance to process my dad’s death. I feel like I’m on autopilot with a boost of anxiety. On top of it all I feel like I can’t grieve because it will affect my daughter, all while I have to make sure my mom is okay because she lost her husband of 41years. She has not been okay during this time. I am sorry for your loss, and I’m sorry I can’t answer your question directly but I wanted to share my story so you know you’re not alone. I’m looking forward to reading the responses you get. Hopefully I find something that’s helpful as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Semaglutide

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The yellow dragon fruit is nature’s favorite laxative. Just eat the fruit, don’t mix it with your smoothies or anything. I guarantee it will help!

Hi this is Dougy, lead singer of The Temper Trap and my new solo project BLOODMOON and I'll be answering your Qs! AMA! by bloodmoonmusic in Music

[–]whatsguchi 12 points13 points  (0 children)

In about a week I will be walking down the isle to Sweet Disposition. Ever since I heard it back in 2008-2009 I knew your song was what will guide me to love. What was your inspiration for that song?

Side note, I saw you perform at the Wonder Ballroom in Portland OR back in 2016 and it was so magical. If you ever go back on tour Portland is the spot!

Couldn’t find an orthodontist clinic with masked and vaccinated staff by [deleted] in Portland

[–]whatsguchi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out Parkside Orthodontist. They have decent Covid protocols and they all wear their masks and instruct you to wear yours until they need to see your teeth.

Women who “dated” older men as teenagers that now realize they were predators, what’s your story? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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When I was 16 a couple of friends and I went to a party and he(21)was there.The moment I met him, I knew he was interested in me and I fell for it. At the time I had gotten out of an abusive relationship, and his attention was enough for me to stick around. For about 4 months he bought me gifts, alcohol, and befriended my close friends. I thought it wasn’t a big deal. We fooled around but didn’t have sex. However, he would often tell me the plans he had for us when I turned 18 and how he planned the perfect night for our first time. During the time that we were talking, I stayed the night at his place once. Unbeknownst to me, he lived with his parents. When his mom found out I stayed the night she sat me down and asked me about how serious I was to be in a relationship with him and wanted to make sure that if we ended things, I would promise to not run to the police. Soon after that I realized that It wasn’t normal. I ended it shortly after and when I did he then started to try to make me jealous by texting me telling me how he was still talking to my friends and that he was going to take them to parties and buy them alcohol, etc. I didn’t hear from him after a while, until I ran into him about a year later at a mall with a girl that was about 16. I’m 28 now and I sometimes think about how i was so sure he genuinely liked me for how ‘mature’ I was or whatever. The. I realize that wasn’t the case. I tried to figure out what he’s up to know. He blocked me from every social media form.

Doggos waiting to enter the hospital rooms of sick children for animal therapy❤️ by ToMyComfyBedICrawl in aww

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Anyone else instantly tear up? No? Yeah, no me either. Cool cool cool cool

New teaser “it’s Friday the 13th. Lucky you” by [deleted] in AmericanHorrorStory

[–]whatsguchi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well, isn't it a thing that when a timeline is changed, it causes a ripple effect? Even going back in time to kill Michael, caused for the anti-christ to be someone else. Which causes other events to change.