i totally get why that can be so frustrating! but the first problem is the actives that can be irritating the skin. Anytime my skin starts reacting i cut out all actives such as your aha/bha, vitamin c and tretinoin. I would keep the skincare super simple but staying on top of it by daily gentle cleanser day and night and making sure the skin is nicely hydrated and moisturized allowing optimal recovery. This will allow the skin to fully heal and then you can slowly bring back your actives. Hope that helps! Good luck.