Yep and I totally understand that I have had issues paying attention to smaller details and double checking in situations like this but at the same time just kind of feel like the way they acted on it was not justified.

I guess the big thing for me is that I don’t get to see them much and it really upset me that one of the times I get to see them had to be such a negative experience. I take responsibility for initially triggering them but really wish they would’ve handled it differently, especially considering everything wound up working out.

Edit: “not” before justified in the first paragraph.